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This a very recent reply to a Dom that wrote me after he read my profile.... He questioned the fact that if I was an alpha woman why wouldn't I just be a Domme (which is a valid question) here's my reply:
This is very true I'm really starting to find myself in bdsm even though I don't like labels you can't really get away with not having a label in this community lol at first it was a slave which really didn't feel right for me!! Then I moved to being a sub which was a pretty comfortable spot for me... I had a thought about if I was a switch and how contradicting it is and how ppl wouldn't take me serious if I said I like both and then I remembered that it's just like me being bi and if I enjoy both women and men then why couldn't I be a switch lol I had an ahhh-haaa moment lol.... But I chalked it up to just a thought it wasn't until another guy wrote me and said just about the same thing as you, and that I sound like a Domme, that I really gave it thought! Lol...... I haven't been in this lifestyle too long but how do people perceive switches in the community is it frowned upon?
Anyone is welcome to answer my question :)
Happy Searching
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