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TheOnlyRa

You know, I could sit here and write out some big, fancy tale of who I am and what I like, and what I am looking for, and end up being the same as a thousand other profiles on here. But the best and only way to discover my unique awesomeness is to just talk to me.
7/21/2017 1:59:07 AM
Random thought of the day: If you are going to give out your number, and say "text me", why would I want to text you when I can just call your ass??? Why do women give out their number's, then only want and/or expect to just text? What is that?
7/4/2017 3:56:17 AM
Just a small note: If you are going to talk to me, then you damn well better *listen*. Misunderstandings can lead to a unbelievable mess if you don't communicate and clarify. 
3/17/2017 1:30:19 AM
Talking about *Limits* tonight. As I have browsed my share of profiles from time to time, they are all made up of basically the same format. "This is me, these are my hobbies and what I like to do, and oh yeah, these are my limits". Now these limits are all pretty much the same, with a few slight variations. "No blood, no shit, no children, no animals, etc, etc".  Now what really gets me is why would anyone, anyone feel the need to point out that they have no desire to be carved up, no desire to be shit upon, no desire to enter into pedofilia, and no desire to blow the dog? I mean seriously? What sort of twisted individual would even bother to THINK of these things? Is it that rampant in the minds of men? Would men actually want the dog to have his woman instead of himself? When a man and a woman get married, the woman, in her traditional vows, submits herself to the man. It's the same damn thing, only with more pomp and circumstance. No where in those vows does she say, "I will honor and obey you, but you can't do this, this, and this". I am not talking gentle, mushy softness here. Don't misunderstand. I'm talking common sense. If the need to map out and "agree" to certain limits is of paramount importance, then there is something wrong with the system. And conversely, the concept of "no limits", is just fucking stupid. Show me a profile of a woman that does not dictate to me what I can and cannot do, and I'll show you a woman I want to talk to. I do what I do because I *choose* to, and I don't do what I don't do because I *choose* to. Not because I am "restricted" by some woman's blanket set of limits that apparantly everyone wants to do. To assume all men are interested in these weird, off the wall, and in some cases, illegal activities is insulting. Stop it. 
3/10/2017 1:30:46 AM
Let's talk about gifts, shall we? A "gift" is something you give to a person, usually on a special day like Christmas or their birthday.  And then there are those times that need no special occasion at all. You do it just because you care. So would you then proceed to take it back later down the line when you had a disagreement with the reciepient? "Fuck you! I'm leaving! Oh, remember that custom made rolex watch I gave you for your birthday? Yeah. I want it back. " How shallow and self centered of a person would you have to be to do that? Exactly. You more than likely wouldn't. So, submissive and slave females out there, why would you present yourself as a "gift" to a man, then proceed to take that gift back the moment he pisses you off or things don't go your way? It's unattractive, and greatly decreases your value. You made a choice to walk that path. There is no gifting of anything. Deal with your choice and take some personal accountability and responsibility, and stop playing a victim of a choice YOU made. 
2/12/2016 1:23:55 AM
Some people never learn.
9/5/2015 3:30:54 AM
Hunting....
8/25/2015 2:49:27 AM
A man is not defined by the women he has owned. But women are defined by the men who own them.
6/27/2015 10:10:22 PM
Weakness is not having faults, or shortcomings. Weakness is doing nothing. Strength is accepting your humanity and doing everything to improve and evolve.
11/14/2014 12:24:31 PM
I find it interesting that submissive females demand a "real" man/dominant/Master to own them and then proceed to put conditions in place that prevent said "real" man from being just that.......a man. 
9/1/2014 12:31:29 AM

Choices one need make can affect more than just oneself. It has been a most interesting evening.

8/21/2014 7:35:08 PM
So....after being informed that the site has moved to this new address, I have returned. Did you miss me? :)
5/21/2014 7:34:41 PM

Question of the day: Since I have read such a diverse opinion on the matter, I pose this to you: Just what is the difference between a submissive and a slave?

8/6/2013 11:40:01 PM

Dominant men hunt. Submissive women are the prey. How is it that so many lose sight of that basic, simple, non arguable fact?

7/21/2013 12:02:28 PM

Walkabout.

6/24/2013 5:01:24 PM

If failure is acceptable to you, then you need another lifestyle choice.

6/21/2013 10:02:48 PM

Random thought of the day:

 

Talking to voice mail boxes is getting old.

6/16/2013 2:40:20 PM

Even alphas have a bad day.

ladyjesabelle
 
 Age: 24
 Venus, United Kingdom