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Texting is good for quick answers to questions, NOT for conversations! If thats what you consider to be a primary of communication, then look elsewhere for a like-minded soul.



Nothing online andor phone is Real, until someone Makes it Real!! If this is too long for you to bother with, then you are too wrong for me to bother with.



While the below is what I have always sought, Im finding that as I get older, Id love to travel the country, perhaps in a nice, late model camper or motor home ... spending a month at Tahoe, Lake Louise in Canada, or Lake Lure, NC ... or even visiting Europe with its wonderful cultural gifts to the world. Ive sold my small home, and have relocated to Maine. But there are so many beautiful places in the U.S. and in the world, that Id like to visit, some anew, and others Ive visited before. Its good to have a home base, but I also have wings on my feet that yearn to fly! My other goal is to live where I can watch a lake or the ocean, along the Outer Banks of North Carolina, or overlooking fishing boats in a bay on coastal Maine... perhaps doing some fishing and or throwing out some crablobster pots.



Ive decided I can and will do both, travel and enjoy the ocean.... either by myself, or with that sub or slave, male or female, who can understand these important things about me, as well as knowing that their slaverysubmission to me is 247, while fetish and play is not. If I can find a traveling partner (slave) who can make this happen, great! And I want to enjoy this life with a slave (or a partner who wants a FLR) who can Help make this happen. I want it All!



Wanted slave, male or female who is financially self sufficient, who can drive, clean, cook and do yardgarden things, once I settle back down with a property. Ifyou are looking to become a real Full-Time Total Power Exchange relationship slave, if you deliver and surrender yourself to become my slave propertythere will never be release from being my propertyever again.



Although I may choose to display you to others, you will never be allowed out in public alone againwith out permission except for working at a job or other things I will, orthat I may, approve for you to go to IF you dont have some sort of pension or other income to contribute towards a share of household cost of living expenses. If you expect to routinely go out to play then forget it, things like that will Only be at my pleasure.



The following is directed particularly to females ... If you are unableunwilling to prove that you are who you say you are, then dont waste my time by reading further, or writing me. I want face and voice verification via Skype or YIM, or some other such program. I Dont want to see you naked or for you to per in any way. This is a reasonable request, due to to stalkers out there who have seen fit to try to harass me. Mainly they are just males who cant per or find a Woman any other way than to pose as one, claiming to be lesbians. What an insult to legit lesbians everywhere! And if you are not prepared and willing to meet within a month or two of contact, you can just move along. Dont even try the I dont have a cam, or it doesnt work routine ... if you cant manage what is extremely common now, then you cant afford to come to me as a slave!

I am sane, serious and stable. I am kind caring and cruel, strict and lenient, lovable and an S O B. I am honest , open-minded, opinionated, stern, and a total mix of emotions. I am not here for your fantasies, your pleasure, your wants or your needs. Im not asking for tribute. Im here to find what Im looking for. Can you approach me with openness and honesty?I will make several promises upfront ... I will hurt you (if youre truly masochistic), but I will not Harm you. I will use you, but am not a User. I will not ask you to do anything illegal or unhealthy. I am intensely responsible as regards your health, safety and well-being. If I could go to a market and buy a slave, I would make those same promises. If you think about them, is anything else necessary? As a result, I will only consider those who come to trust me, and seek to place themselves into my hands without a laundry list of conditions.



I personally could care less about your fetishes and kinks, I look for a slave. And IF you prove yourself to me, I further promise that I will treat you as the increasingly valued slave and possession.



I seek for my household, a service-oriented female or male slave who would like to assist me in creating a lifestyle home. This person will be chastity and orgasm controlled, among other measures. Heshe must be self supporting (able to handle your own insurances, health insurance, and personal expenses), able to assist with household expenses, and able to handle many household responsibilities which which include cooking.Additional talents could includehandling outdoor, construction, and maintenance activities, orother unique skills and abilities. The person accepted must be exceptionally service oriented, not afraid to develop skills further, and not afraid to use those skills. I want a slave who wills himherself to live to hisher fullest potential and beyond.



I also seek a special person, a partner with whom I can share my life as my slave. Who that person will be remains to be seen, but I am open to the possibilities and can be very flexible!If you only want to pamper a prima donna, then look elsewhere. Im not a Thoroughbred, but rather more like the purebred Arabian who who can run into the wind and will build her own heaven on earth.I have recently moved to Maine from the Southeast, and Love it here, though Im Sure Ill be complaining like everyone else during January, February and March ... unless someone can taketeach me ice fishing, or exploring more of the SE U.S. ! Im into gardening, cooking, food preservation, hunting (I dont go out so much anymore, but can process a deer from field to freezer!), fishing, modern homesteading, boating, beaches, mountains, water, reading, sewing, antiques, auctions, and creating a gracious home environment. Theperson I seek will have to fit in with, and thrive in that environment, unless Im given a proper incentive to relocate. I can envision a male or female in a housewife - type capacity in my House. That person will most likely never become anything like a partner for me, but may possibly be allowed to grow into some sort of personal service position to me if heshe becomes extremely valued by me.



Im Not a barbie but I enjoy making my own pasta and raviolis, making sausage and jerky, creating things home made (ie, avoiding processed foods and steering towards organic and non-genetically modified ... non gmos), making pizza crust from scratch as well as breads. Though its a lot of work, it feels good to know what is in my food. Its a little tough sometimes, but well worth it.



I also have a little dog, so if accessorizing with occasional pet hair bothers you, justmove along. He lived here first,and while he loves cats, he is a little wary about bigger dogs until he knows they wont eat him or step on him.

I experience almost a high when my slave accomplishes things and projects that need doing, and intelligence in another is a definite high for me. Accomplishments and intelligence, combined with humility and respect only endear a slave to me more and more as time goes along. If you cant make my life easier andor are high maintenance, go elsewhere.I am ONLY interested in LTR possibilities, part or full time only real life, and will not do cyber, emailphone sex or webcam. I expect to meet in real life shortly after we chat on line and on the phone.I absolutely love to use restraints and to administer corporal punishment, and am not nor will be a mommy type. If you need

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2/6/2018 10:43:45 AM
Many things are happening in my life, and I am preparing to take steps to make them happen.  I've been more fortunate than many, and I seek to share that with a few select others!  I have not been very communicative lately, but it's because of the ones I am holding most important to me, and the time I'm giving them. More to follow. :)


1/25/2018 9:26:19 AM
This was sent to me out of the clear blue sky and unsolicited by me. I have no idea who this coward is, but I sincerely hope he/she gets the mental health help he/she desperately needs! I feel only pity for this grossly misled loser who is so full of misplaced hatred and delusions.

From: submizzive2view
1/24/18 11:47 PM
"This user does not have an active profile"

"There's nothing dominant about enlisted scum. Pure filth who need to answer for their war crimes. I'd love to put my boot up your worthtless ex-military ass. You're not a domme."


1/16/2018 6:02:24 AM
Yes, it IS possible to be the lowest member of the hierarchy, and yet be the #1 slave of a Mistress.  Think about it, and if you can't figure it out, message me and I'll explain it to you!

1/13/2018 9:25:21 AM

The first thing to when deciding to approach a Domme is to forget all the wild porn s__t.
Are there fabulously beautiful, six foot, blonde, aristocratic, extremely wealthy women who live in castles with living furniture and keep a stable of human horses on the chateau grounds, who crap in human toilets mouths, and castrate wayward boys who dare to look them in the eye?

Maybe, but I kinda doubt it.

 Are there snarling, man eating, evil bitches who would think nothing of ripping the hide off your back just for an afternoons amusement?

Definitely. But why in hell would any sane man want that?

Are there extremely high protocol Dommes who expect you to be in total and constant slave mode 24/7? Never, NEVER wanting you to have a single thought or opinion of your own? Expecting you to live as an automaton with 300 rules of protocol to remember even in your sleep?

Probably. See snarling evil bitches for the answer.

Are there Dommes who NEVER take those six inch spikes off, wear perfect evil slut make-up 24/7, is ALWAYS ready for playtime, prefer tight laced corsets and thigh high boots to faded jeans and a t-shirt, and never says those dreaded words.."Honey, we need to talk?"

If you find her my number is 555-go for it.

Are there women who pay bills, work at K-mart, clean the poop up when Fido decides he doesn't want to go in the yard, raises children, babysits grand kids three days a week, gets as dirty as a pig when she mows the lawn and weeds the flower bed, puts her hair up when she is cleaning house, crys when she wonders how in hell she is going to deal with whatever calamity befalls her, but who has a deep need to find a man who will worship her, serve her, be her friend and confidante, and be ready when she finally has time to indulge her wicked, kinky side and allow her to live out her wildest fantasies?

BINGO.....THAT is what most Dommes are, gentlemen. Get over the stupid fantasies and embrace reality. You will find that these very normal women can become of their own desire, the Dominatrix of your dreams. But they are just like you. They live very normal, even mundane lives at times. Your honest, heart felt desire to make their lives better and allow them to be the Domme THEY wish to be, will see more of your own desires realized than you ever could have imagined.


1/13/2018 9:20:34 AM
Just keep in mind, the toes you step on today, just might be attached to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow!

6/26/2017 7:04:35 PM
On my way to Maine July 1 :)

4/14/2017 11:22:43 AM
Nothing online and/or phone is Real, until someone Makes it Real!!  If it seems too good to be true, it usually is.  

4/7/2017 9:55:33 PM
You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing that we call 'failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down.  Gladys Louise Smith, known professionally as Mary Pickford

3/30/2017 1:40:38 AM
"You have to be willing to let go of the life you planned in order to make the life you are meant to live."  Maria Shriver

1/5/2017 7:22:58 AM
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away!  .... shamelessly stolen from another profile

11/13/2016 2:41:13 PM
Seriously guys ...  If you’re profile pic is of your penis or some chastity or CBT device, then we are not going to get along.  I am not looking for a man who claims to be submissive then, forces every woman he communicates with to look at that penis while responding to him. (Yes you are forcing them by not giving them the option to see it, it’s there in their face and is therefore non consensual). I am not looking for an interaction that is all about that, Christ if I want that there are millions of vanilla men with that kind of attitude. Doesn’t matter that your preaching orgasm denial or chastity, you’re still harping on about your penis and, making it the central focus of any interaction you’re going to have with any woman. I’m not interested in your penis! I am interested in your personality, sense of humor, and all your other fetishes apart from your fixation with yourself. The world does Not revolve around anyone's penis, and I will determine whether a male has a cock or merely a penis! (shamelessly plagiarized from a very smart Lady, and edited by me)

11/12/2016 9:56:06 PM
I'm about sick to death of trying to tell idiots that I Don't Do cam, long distance, phone, or other FAKE domination. I don't Have to prove myself since there are enough Real subs and slaves who KNOW for themselves that I am for real.  If you want those games, go elsewhere and don't waste my time!

10/29/2016 9:48:34 PM

"I think women are foolish to think they are equal to men, they are far superior and always have been. Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she will give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!"

William Gerald Golding - best known as the author of Lord of the Flies


7/16/2016 8:22:50 PM
Well, the wings on my feet are back in action.  I've rented out my house and am going to rent room for 1-3 month in various areas i'd love to visit.  Will be mobile as of the end of the month. :)

7/2/2016 11:01:18 PM
One of the better ones lately, from bouncealot and littleboy73 (same pathetic loser) ... "ill pay you 1500 dollars to tie me up out side to get sun burnt then put honey on my ball an let some ants bite me this is a clip of what i seek http://www.heavy-r.com/video/166066/Ants_vs_balls/"

While tempting, I don't suppose the mental soundness is there in him to be able to handle it!

5/25/2016 10:25:07 AM
Received  this note from "suckingismylife" ... "Fuck off and die poser".  I can Prove who I am, I doubt It can!  ... though it is a cute enough pic ... probably a humped back, dickless, male loser.  Never had any mail from it in all the time I've been on CM and CS, so where this came from, who knows? 

4/30/2016 9:56:28 AM
Come on everyone, get real! If all you can offer me is a whipping post and sex, forget it! I can find that Anywhere!  If you want to be locked away all the time, you can forget that too! Locked away sometimes is good but your being productive and accomplishing things that need doing ... well you'll find that that turns me on completely! I do think of a slave that did exactly that for me, but had to return to his home country for medical reasons!  I could have used and abused that slave Forever!

4/28/2016 8:39:34 PM
I Really despise trying to communicate with someone only on the phone or online in written notes or chats.  There is always the opportunity for miscommunication, when you can't see eyes, body language etc.  And now, yet again it's happened, and something that had potential is not to be.  Everyone here has done it, to include me, but when we leave things without trying, there is always the potential to really miss something that can be good.

If you choose to approach me, then be prepared to actually communicate.  And if there seems to be a difference or something that isn't fitting just right, have the guts / balls / courage / inner strength / decency it takes to Clarify something that just may be a misunderstanding. Unless you're looking into another's eyes, don't "assume", and jump to a conclusion that just Might be wrong.  Try talking, discussing and clarifying.  

11/1/2015 12:21:35 PM
Watch out for a probably male, loser, so-called "slave" with the profile nameobeyyyyou. Claims to be wanting to be feminized but insists on a phone number to self verify, within the first few hours of the original note.  I don't do that for anyone, unless I'm comfortable, and red flags started going up with his ever increasing insistence for my phone number.  Of course, when I stated that I preferred Skype or yim as a voice/face verification initially, he went off and accused me of everything he could think of.  

When I talk to someone, I'm always upfront with info and pics, and trust me, I'd certainly post prettier ones if I was a fake!  LOLOL  some things here just don't change, and the "block" button certainly comes in handy!

8/2/2015 6:32:08 AM
(Shamelessly taken from another)  

At times during a slave's development, either consciously or by accident, there are temporary situations which will evoke a response from the animal. It will expose itself for a brief and controlled amount of time. The experience confirms to us the existence of the spirit, and encourages us to continue the pursuit of slavery. These glimpses into who we really are, along with the appetites we usually call fetishes that we were created with encourage us to explore further.

 

What the spirit really searches for, however, is an environment in which it can come to life, grow and never have to return to its dormant state. It is the spirit's purpose to locate and accept the environment in which that can be done.

 

What does it take to for the slave to find the environment it needs?

 

The slave's limitation is that it can never produce its own environment. The spirit requires its owner, the one who shares its spirit. Only the owner can direct that part of himself, the slave part, and empower the necessary growth. That is the challenge of slavery.

 

Slavery isn't about relationships, activities, protocols, or titles. Slavery is about the search for, and acceptance of its owner who can give the spirit the opportunity to live. The Creator who placed the spirit inside doesn't give someone a destiny of slavery and then not provide the opportunity for it to develop. The egotistic human who contains the spirit doesn't perform the search for an owner, the spirit itself finds and presents the owner when the spirit is ready.

 

The struggle is with time. The spirit can't, and won't, accept its destiny until it is completely ready. And, until it is ready, there is nothing the egotistic slave can do to accelerate the process. When the spirit is prepared, the Creator will provide the "coincidence" necessary for its development to begin. The slave doesn't have to arrange for it. The slave has to be open to it. The egotistic slave doesn't even know when he's ready, but the spirit does. Therefore, it is the slave's job to accept the opportunity to come to life when it is presented, not to create the opportunity in the first place.


7/24/2015 4:51:32 AM
If you can't self verify your face and voice, don't bother me.  If you can't meet me on my turf withing 45 days, don't waste my time with endless notes and questions.  We can meet at a neutral location, but don't try stringing me along for months, I'm not interested.

4/5/2015 3:53:08 PM
Dear xxxxx,

Thank you for your note.  I see you've just joined, so I'd like to offer some suggestions.  
I get between 5-15 notes a day from males.  I will look at the person's profile to see their interests, likes and dislikes, not only fetish but vanilla as well.  That way I can see if there might be a fit. Your interests are used by me to also determine what I can use to reward, to discipline or to punish. Granted, it's not about you but rather about your Mistress, but since I can't just buy a slave at the auction block, then "fit" matters.  


Forget Any emphasis on sex or intimacy unless it's the Dominant's call.  We can get sex and intimacy Anywhere, and at any time, at the snap of fingers.  So what skills, talents and abilities do you bring to the table to offer a Mistress?  This isn't about money, it's about accomplishing things or having things accomplished that make a Mistress's life easier and better. Now That impresses a potential Mistress.  In my case, accomplishment is a true turn on.  Whereas, a "sub's" insistence that he be naked all the time in the house (or out), and some question about jerking off in front of me is No Turn On, and has no place even being suggested by a possible sub/slave.  It is offensive to presume that a Dominant wants that Except as part of Her idea, and only illustrates even further that a sub is a "do-me" type or wannabe who has No clue as to what this life is about, as opposed to "playtime".

So don't describe your "dream scenario" like so many others.... because they are making this about them and their penis.  Mistress's aren't interested.  If you want to write a "scenario", then consider one that truly serves your dream Mistress in terms of accomplishing things, and then fixing her dinner, doing the dishes, and then giving her a good massage.  End it with a kiss on the small of her back, and then you going to bed. LOL you'll end up with more "play" in the long run because you will be Truly valued!

Your profile says nothing, and a one line note you sent does not arouse any interest. I'm sending this note to help get the attention you want.  I

I wish you well in your search.

3/4/2015 7:31:00 AM
"She brutally whipped my ass, then said: 'Stick your tongue in my asshole and your nose in my pussy, because they are both longer and harder than your pathetic little cock!' "  ... shamelessly stolen from another profile, and dedicated to Shawn

2/19/2015 11:22:11 AM
A Definition of Submission:
Submission is not about suffering.
Submission is about service.
Submission is not about humiliation.
Submission is about humility.
Submission is not about pain . .....
Submission is about being present.
Submission is not about being used.
Submission is about being of use.
Submission is not about control.
Submission is about letting go.
Submission is not about what is done to you.
Submission is about what you do for others.

2/18/2015 3:44:39 PM
Now the name is changed to Vickpet35....... HIS first name is shawn and if anyone has been suckered in by this MALE, write me.  I'll give you the way to verify this for yourself.

1/15/2015 11:02:39 AM
SklavinAstrid (from Germany) is fake and possibly a male.  Won't follow through, won't send pics (even vanilla), pretends to want to travel to you soon due to independent financial circumstances, and other lies in which he/she's been caught.  

12/20/2014 4:31:43 PM
Vickipet35 from Harrisburg, PA is a male poser. I have proof and will provide it upon request. Karma happens!

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midwestgoddess
 
 Age: 59
 Chino Hills, California