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I am here to test the waters a bit. I've discovered I'm more dominant towards women, but submissive towards men (the RIGHT men). So I'm listing as Domme for now, but I would still like to hear from Dominant males. See my journal entry for an explanation of it all.

Why does it seem that I don't attract the right kind of folk? Am I speaking in code? Hidden messages?

I'm a bit of a poet, so enjoy:

Greetings to A/all
everyO/one, big and small
today or tomorrow, could it be?

Avail! Avail! Avail myself to thee!

Love-- what E/each must seek
if trust is had, no eyes shall leak;
for true submission can be gained
eternally, if trust ne'er waned.

Internal, external, evermore!

Ask yourself if you are for me
maybe together they called us "we".
Anger & sorrow soon shall fade!
Forever in your grasp- "we" are made;
ask of nothing but my offer of care,
kisses, cuddles, and caresses of hair.

evermore...evermore.. your sweet so fair.

PS> Chat here doesn't work for me.
6/30/2011 8:46:43 AM

OK.  I'm at a loss as to what to list my profile as.  After a few real-life experiences, I know that I'm submissive towards men, yet dominant towards women.

 

And that's a poser, because there's not a good category here for that.  I don't really consider it "switch", because I'm not going to start topping men and submitting towards women (well, not all the time, but lately the women I've met have all taken a more submissive role to me-- maybe I'm just getting more aggressive as I get older?)

 

So, I don't really know what to list my profile as.  Submissive?  Dominant?  I listed as switch a while ago and got loads of messages from submissive men-- not really my thing, sorry guys!  But If I list as Dominant, then all I will get is email from submissive men!  But then I'll miss out on emails from Dominant men.

 

I guess the best solution would be to start two profiles, but that's just a pain in the ass.  So I'm going to list as Dominant now and update my profile to reflect that.  We'll see if it works.

1/23/2011 8:43:57 PM

Hmmm.. just how smart are you?  I like smart men and women.  But I can see through you if you're a fake...

11/13/2009 1:03:13 PM
Another angry Dom who's second email was very demanding. And no, after one email exchange, I'm not meeting you for "coffee". I've done that, more than a few times, and I've discovered that people who make coffee dates either 1) don't show up 2) are total fakes or 3) want to start Topping me in the middle of the coffee shop. I've had one good date off of CM, that led to two more before he got shipped overseas. So I've written a poem to help you guys out. -------------- Not the Bee's Knees -------------- My last Master was pretty darn cool Patient, understanding, yet strong He set the highest standard He'd never leave me flailing for long. But on Collar Me I've found Many men who simply play the part. They're arrogant, foolish, egoists, Boorish, crude, and not very smart. Don't send sympathetic letters Thinking you're original & new. Your thoughts are childish, And your plans I can see through. So leave me be if you're in a role Of a true Master-- your lies are plain. You're angry and bitter 'Cause you've rarely used your brain. I know a true Master will be A man who is patient and kind. And I'll know such a man Because my heart he will find. So if I reject you, don't get mad Figure out what I need, not What your perversions demand No beauty exists in your puerile rot.
8/15/2009 11:46:13 AM
I have to wonder about the guys who copy someone's profile, then post it up, and shout that it's a fake profile. You're really spending a LOT of time and ENERGY basically making yourself feel smart. In fact, you're pretty much a dumbass. Experienced CM folks, like myself, we know there are tons of fakes out there. And the people I have met from on here have always misrepresented themselves. I can't tell you how many not-Dom Dom's I've talked to and met. It's not that they're submissive, it's that they don't know what it's all about. So, to the guy who wrote me from a fake-tribute profile who thinks he's so clever, you're not. You're a dumbass.
5/13/2009 3:45:44 PM
OK, look.  If you start off a conversation with, "Prove to me you're REAL RIGHT NOW!", I'm probably going to block you.

Right now, I'm not looking for anyone.  Period.  I'm worn out suffering through the mindlessness of my inbox.  If you think I'm a fake, fine.  Whatever.  Here's a hint:  fakes don't keep journals.  In fact, when you message them, they ask you to fly them out of Kenya.

Time for some herbal tea...
1/9/2009 10:03:24 PM
Well, another reporting of my profile by chickensh!ts out there. Hey, you're not a DOMINANT MALE if you are so PASSIVE AGRESSIVE you report a woman who (presumably) snubs you! Maybe it's because you're a DOUCHEBAG, not a DOMINANT. Look. You spell like Frankenstein? I won't reply. You include a picture of your genitals? I won't reply. You immediately demand things or call me degrading names? No reply. I may be a slave/submissive, but it doesn't mean I should be treated with respect. Holy crap, some of you are truly f***ing idiots.
1/5/2009 11:56:01 AM
I guess I've been listed under the Hot Women of Europe and Asia".  I've been deluged with messages from overseas.  To which I say, "Howdy, but not looking at moving overseas!"
11/21/2008 1:42:27 PM
Another CM passive aggressive asshole (or group of them) reported my profile, probably because they were angry I ignored them for being boring, or outside my age limits.

Look.  Guys.  I appreciate the comments, but I'm either getting cut & paste emails or one-liners, and when i respond, i then get 20 emails, or pictures of.. well, things I shouldn't be getting pictures of.

Let me repeat the ground rules:

1)  Chat doesn't work for me.  I'm on dial-up.
2)  If you're over 50 or look like my grandpa, I'm not going to write back.
3)  If you send me 20 emails in the span of a day, odds are I won't respond.
4)  As I mentioned before, i'm exploring my switch Dominant side with women.

I have a crazy idea.  Instead of reporting my profile because I didn't write back, how about you THINK to yourselves "Hey, maybe she didn't write back because I need to work on my delivery, or I shouldn't be so needy, or I shouldn't talk about our lives together after the 2nd email!"

Ugh, some of you imbeciles make me want to pull my hair out!
10/19/2008 8:22:10 PM
Why do so many dominant men have pictures of themselves with dour, humorless expressions on their faces?  Why, it's because they're DOMINANT!  It says they have to look that way in the handbook!  hehe

My ex always smiled in his photos.
10/13/2008 8:45:51 PM
OMG. Today's been one of those days. What's the phase of the moon? Here's some eloquence from some idiot who messaged me out of the blue: "You need the cane and fucking thrashing. HOW DARE YOU FUCKING raise your voice at me. Act like a slave and learn some manners and respect or fuck off." Hardly a master of anything. THen some other genius who started his email with the following winner of a line: "It's creepy that you are merely here for friends and to flirt with a poem" and "Because you are a creep who accuses guys of being creeps. It gives me a little pleasure in calling a creep a creep." Evidently they're not teaching reading comprehension in Dom school anymore. Anyone else want to be blocked by me tonight?
10/9/2008 11:28:16 AM
I've discovered a more dominant streak in me.  But I haven't put "switch" in my profile because nobody has their filter set to it. :)
10/8/2008 10:24:09 PM
Chat on the site still doesn't work. Don't take it personally. I'm mainly here to make friends and flirt. Please be sure to read the profile and the journal before contacting me.
7/9/2008 10:00:07 PM
Why do so many guys turn into creeps?  If they get that way after 3 or 4 emails, what are they going to be like after 3 or 4 dates?
7/4/2008 11:17:46 PM
I love "Burn Notice".  I guess it appeals to the cryptographer in me.  Always lookin' for secret codes in things.  tEo, super spy!
7/3/2008 3:47:03 PM
OK, what the hell?  Someone out there reported my profile as offensive or against the rules.

Really?
6/20/2008 6:52:40 AM
I don't know if this will help, but for those of you who think I'm "new" to all of this, think again. I was a submissive pet to my ex for 7 years when we parted ways nearly 3 years ago.
6/18/2008 6:08:06 PM
It seems the initial deluge of emails is starting to slow down. Again, I thank many of you for your kind words. I've met some very interesting people! I'm doing this all backwards, and kind of pissed at myself for doing it that way, but if you emailed me when I first logged on, I'll try to get back to you, ok? Be patient! tEo
6/17/2008 10:28:56 PM
Just so you know, if you're not nearby, I probably don't want to chat with you, so don't be offended if I don't respond. It's just a distance thing, yo!

 And if you're over 50? I don't know. Maybe. But don't be offended if I don't write back. I'd like someone a little younger.
6/17/2008 12:57:06 PM
OK, every time I try to open a chat request, it crashes my browser, so just try email.  I wouldn't respond anyway unless we've chatted by email some.
6/17/2008 7:45:17 AM
Wow. My picture goes up and everyone goes bonkers trying to contact me!  Hehe

I will say thank you to all who have written.  Most of you have been GENTLEMEN, which is something I'm looking for in a Dom.  My last Dom was a wonderful man and a gentleman, so I'm definitely looking for someone who knows that their submissive is also a lady and should be treated as such.  I was totally afraid of posting a profile here and getting the dregs of society emailing me, but many of you have proven me wrong.  Now I just need to write you all back!  So be patient!

Oh, and please please please spell check what you write.  Nothing's worse than an email with misspellings.  I take that back, there's always the form letter.  Yeah, that sucks!  :)

tEo
6/14/2008 9:30:42 PM
Wow. so many emails! I haven't responded to anyone just yet. I'm very excited about it all. Wish there was some kind of code or something to make things easier. *winks* tEo
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