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TNSpanker

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Greetings and thanks for stopping by! If you are here, you must want to know more about me, so here you go

DISCLAIMER BEFORE YOU BEGIN: My time is not unlimited... it is actually quite the opposite. With that being said, I have an amazing ability to make time for those that are important to me. I expect that those who get that time will respect it and not take advantage of it. If you want to be in my life, you will be welcomed and enjoy a long stay. The moment I realize that you are a fake, fraud, liar, are trying to use us or do not respect my time as I respect your time, you will find your stay in my life to be a lot shorter.

I am a 38 year old Dominant. I am originally from South Florida, where I was born and lived for 26 years. I then moved to the Columbia, TN area (Nashville is the closest major city that people seem to know).I have always had a Dominant personality, enjoyed assuming leadership roles and enjoyed helping others. I work in the private sector currently in finance management and have been a police officer in the past (Yes I still have uniforms and handcuffs pervs!).

For those of you into personality typing, I am an ENFJ. Google that if you want to know what it means

In my vanilla life and kink life, I have been lied to, cheated on, taken for granted, given everything I could and lost everything, but rebuilt myself better every time. I never look to the past for regret, but rather for guidance. I am not afraid to make mistakes because I take them for the learning experience that they are and keep pushing forward to reach my goals.

I have been married twice and divorced twice, and had my share of failed relationships, but this has not turned me off to marriage, it is something I still want, but will take my time and make sure the third time is destined to be forever.I lean towards poly because of my relationships in this lifestyle. With my extensive involvement in the lifestyle, I have developed lifestyle relationships with some and do play with others, but when in a serious relationship, that partner will always be my number one priority. Ultimately, I want to find a submissive female partner to live with, enjoy a 24/7 dynamic with and one day marry (kids are also possible, but not required), but I do not intend to rush things. This person must also be accepting of the relationships I am currently involved in, especially the two people in my life who mean the world to me and will always be a part of my life...

My first interest in anything lifestyle related was king, which remains my primary fetish, but I am into so much more, and posses a dark kink side as well. I first realized this interest at a young age when I read a book that had a king story in it. This interest grew over the years and I found myself drawn to anything to do with king. Thanks to the internet, my interests grew to include other aspects of BDSM and when I turned 18, I began to explore these interests further, first through reading and educating myself, then by becoming involved in real life. I have been active in the lifestyle privately since then and began playing more publicly in 2010 when I was convinced to go to my first Crimson Moon party over the Halloween weekend. I now try to attend as many parties and get togethers as I can and am active both locally and nationally.

My style of Dominance falls mainly within the Domestic Discipline, 1950's Household and Daddy Dom styles, but I do not limit myself to these. I DO NOT believe in treating women like doormats and prefer to build them up rather than breaking them down in order to be the best they can be, but within a scene, humiliation and degradation can be a major turn on with a partner who enjoys that as well. I believe that chivalry is still alive and just because someone is a Top, Dominant or Mentor, it does not give them a right to be an asshole or treat others like shit just to make themselves feel better about themselves or more powerful. Being a Top/Dominant is a responsibility, not a right. I believe in teaching those involved with me to respect not only others, but themselves as well. With that, I expect anyone involved with the people I love and care about to treat them with that same level of respect. My friends and loved ones will not be used, mistreated or disrespected and will not be taken advantage of on my watch (Unless it is something that they fully consent to without force or coercion being used to gain said consent).

I believe in both punishment and positive re-enforcement. I have a sensually sadistic side and enjoy inflicting pain on a consenting sub, whether it is a simple king or a more severe session. I am not abusive however... all pain inflicted MUST be consensual and will never cross the line.

I have a nice selection of toys, including wood and leather implements, bondage gear and other kinky tools. I always play safe and sane and believe in safe words.

Personality wise, I am both intense and laid back at the same time. I can be the most loving and generous person in the world, but also the most demanding and structured as well. I am intelligent, attractive, sarcastic and funny. I am disease/drug free, a non-smoker and a light/social drinker. The people in my life are very important to me and I am fiercely protective of my friends and loved ones. My pet peeves include being lied to, people not doing what they say they will, being intentionally ignored and friends and loved ones who put themselves down.

My relationship style involves aspects of a vanilla relationship (marriage and family) AND those of a D/s relationship (think white picket fence with a kinky wood shed in the back yard). I have developed relationships with others in the lifestyle and enjoy play parties as well and fully intend on maintaining those relationships, attending parties and being able to play with new and old friends within the lifestyle (see above if you missed it).

If you are interested in getting to know me, please feel free to contact me here. Those that make it to the close friend category will receive additional contact information. I am willing to chat with anyone and help anyone where I can...I am willing to chat with anyone and offer advice/answer questions. I will answer all e-mails that I receive.

If you wish to know more, Collarspace has been kind enough to provide a Message for your convenience.

WARNING: Institutions, individuals, and all associated entities therein DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum, both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

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blkpantherkitty
 
 Age: 29
 A good city, Latvia