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!I am looking for long term ownership of a subslave. Marriage is also on the table for the right woman.



Being a Dominant is about being in control and making the decisions for your submissive, but its also about making her better. A better submissive, a better person, helping her become more than what she is. Its about encouraging her, teaching her, not tearing her down or belittling her. You are her Dominant because she chose to give up control to you, she deemed you worthy of her submission. Dont take advantage of that and abuse the power that she has given you. After being with you she should be a stronger woman not one that has been beat down and afraid. Dominants should take this as a challenge, how can I make my submissive better, how can I make her stronger, how can I make her life better? She gives us this power over her because serving is what she needs and desires, its what makes her happy and fulfills her life. But we as Dominants should know that since she gave us this power over her, if it is misused or abused it can be taken back. Yes she is there to serve you at your will but not only because its what you want its also what she wants. If it gets to a point where her serving you isnt making her happy and fulfilling her life then she isnt happy and why should she continue to serve you if she isnt growing and getting anything out of it? The answer is she shouldnt. To the outside world when they look at our relationship they see an all and nothing relationship. They assume because we the Dominant is in charge then we do 100 of the taking and our submissive are doing 100 of the giving. Well we know that isnt true, its really 5050 We as Dominants need to dominate and she as the submissive needs to submit. So as I said its 5050. Without both the Dominant and the submissive then there is nothing to be had. Just remember Dominants that we are to build our submissive up and make her better because without her we are just one half of an empty relationship. It takes both for it to work.

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3/6/2022 4:19:20 PM

Looking for my one that will be solely for my mind heart and eyes only. Someone I can shared the rest of my existence with and live a comfortable life together. This is my location if you are tired of being alone and want to be held in my arms. 


2/26/2018 1:19:03 PM
Sorry ladies my intentions is to relocate to north carolina during this latter year. If you don't mind relocating to be with me. I will show you my appreciation by how much you mean to me by being in my life. Do you have any age or race restrictions? let me know so we don't waste any more of each others time. I am looking for that one woman who is looking to be my best friend in this lifestyle, fetish and kink. As long as you realize that I am your Alpha!

12/24/2017 6:26:41 AM
Smile for me?

6/23/2017 5:27:21 AM
When trust is broken... Sorry means nothing!

4/16/2017 9:06:56 AM
Happy Easter Everyone, He Died For Yours And Mine Soul. Praise Him!

2/26/2017 3:57:45 PM
I want someone I can interact with.

1/30/2017 6:28:09 PM
I am looking for that unique one who can capture my attention. That one I would think about every day just to see how she is doing. With in all possibility of distance that we can bring one another closer. She would have to be my dream woman. That woman who will make me feel that I can't live my life in this world with out her. I just want to be happy and live my life caring about someone else. This site may not have anyone to meet my demands all I ask is that you don't waste my time. All I ask for every woman on here is to stay beautiful in all aspects of your life. Bdsm is about building the strongest bond the strongest trust to awaken and be taken to our highest desires. Yes I am a romantic I just need a woman to reciprocate what I will be sharing with her.

1/22/2017 7:41:24 PM
I need you to be my sub my woman my bitch my significant other. That is by my side to whisper in my ear your thoughts your lust your dreams your want your desires. Are you that woman enough for me? Ask your questions as you address me in your initial heading to get my attention. I am sapiosexual I admire a woman who can hold her own in a conversation. I am interested in you and your intellectual discourse that will draw me closer to you. But there will have to be a mixure that will also allure me to you.

12/17/2016 6:13:25 PM
I know that I am a Daddy Dominant. But I have a craving hunger fetish to eat some pussy. It can not be any body definitely not a stranger. But my sub my baby girl I don't do considerations. You either want to be with me or you don't?

10/8/2016 11:01:44 AM
Is there any one interested or interesting on here?

9/26/2016 12:18:55 PM
Can I say this is ridiculous that if any one have profile with stipulation of topping from the bottom?. That is exactly what your doing. I have been viewing this lifestyle with people drawing you in with their concept. I have been seeing profile looks legitimate until you see she weighs between 50 to 70 lbs. The fisrt thought is african right away with one picture and those who are brave. Tell you that their are from Ghanaian. Really? You would be my slave and make me happy doing what ever I want?. But I have to get your e/gmail to see any pictures of you. So when I ask you do you have any causual pictures besides and nudes. That question gets bypassed on how soon can they come to me. This shit right here is a good soap opera and made for TV movies,WTF! I have a huge idea about all these women who want to be slaves and have no idea of what this terminology consist of. Horror stories!

8/4/2016 10:02:40 AM
Women are equally humorous about men not reading there profiles.l have a three month's rule about meeting any one on line. That I have an unfurnished apartment before I will allow you to come into my 6,000 sqaure foot home. To see what tupe of person you are before I can trust you to be with me any further. Am I setting myself up for failure or will the right person trust me enough to take these proceedings and say this is what she has to do to gain my trust? . my journey has been far and abroad in finding the right woman the right sub to be obedient to me. That I wanted to see who is really out there that is sincere about getting to know me? I guess I am at the time in my life to stop catering to entertaining thise who want to play games. For thise who say they want to come closer to me. But I have to shell out sime bread(money) for you to come see me. First if all one your not giving a chance to get to know you and second you keep asking me when can I send you the money. Let's keep it real from this moment on with anyone who has interest in me. i am stabled and secured. I live my lufe vicariously that I maybe alone cause I don't have a partner. But I am not lonely. Yes I would like to have someone I can cherish and hold close to my heart. But that comes with time rather than having you rush me into it.. What I am saying is have your priorities strait before you approach me and deal with my rule of having you taking these babysteps in my life. Do you truly want to be with me for me?

5/18/2016 10:45:46 PM
Ladies and gents your plug is about to be pulled. I have a stead proof when it comes to picture on whether they are real or fake. I'm not going to tell you the secret. All I am is exploiting to you is. This is real life this is a lifestyle for those who are trying to find their one their compatible companion. I'm going to say it like this and I have been subjected to many with the same promise these who are truly to know. I am real and I will speak to you directly. Don't hide or assume that you are real to me. Just be yourself if your are genuine about living this lifestyle. I will ask you about your fetishes but if they exceed my expectation then you'll know that I'm not the Daddy dominant for you. Know who you are talking too before you take the chance to meet this said person in public. Always public near a crowd of people to keep yourself safe and to protect your integrity.

4/24/2016 7:20:21 PM
Listen I'm going to Greece in the next three month and three months is my stipulation of getting to know someone on line. I would love to be with someone I know before I venture into another country so we can look out for one another. All I need is a submissive I can have fun with and be on the alert if someone is trying to filter me for my money.Then we can venture off to different parts of the world once I feel I can trust you to make accommodations for us both.

4/11/2016 7:38:44 AM
There are so many people who are not looking to be found. They just want you to play in their sand box until it's time to go home too their vanilla lives. Tired of the fake frauds so friends for now until you can prove to me otherwise!

2/22/2016 12:41:47 PM
This site is filled with attention whores. Their are a few believer's that still honor and respect the lifestyle.

9/13/2015 1:57:21 PM
Listen before you approach me have your mind right about what you want. I am that man that want a good submissive to call my own. So if you are on some part time wanting to get your fantasies off on gratification. I'm not the man for you,I need intellectual stimulation show me what makes you so special? I am looking for a long term relationship to share with you good life and travel. But at the same time I have to know that I can trust you with my life. Love,life and loyalty to honor me with respect and I will adore you as my woman.

9/2/2015 6:54:24 PM
I have been coming hard at people lately for the simple fact is. If you have not in one and but one picture on your profile. Get the f**k out my face! Tell me you don't have a phone to create an up load pic? Also I'm sick of all these people claiming in my in box that their looking for someone like me. Then a week later I'm either blocked or don't hear from them again. This site used to be about honor and respect for each others wants,needs,kinks and desires. To mutually talk to like minded people and share each other's experience's. Now I'm getting African's talking about how much money they need to sustain cause their parent past away in some unfortunate accident. Yes you two/to with the email the only way someone can reach you. If someone here is real I'm not going to drop a diamond to pick up a rock. So get your priorities in order and let's start from the beginning?

11/7/2014 7:29:51 AM

Times like these, a girl needs her Daddy.

She needs to feel enveloped and devoured by him. She needs to curl up against Daddy's solid chest and smell his clean, spicy skin and be intoxicated by it. She needs to feel the smooth mink of his belly, the abrasion of his scruffed face, the velvet skin tightening over his hardening cock. She needs to go quiet in his arms, grind her face into him, turn herself over to him to be manhandled and explored and used to bits, brought to her place where she feels blissfully out of her own control, blissfully in his. She needs to go to her littlest, girliest place so that he can take over completely, and so that she can escape into the pleasure that is her submission to him, her worship of him: she needs to burrow into the universe where he is at the center, a universe that feels familiar and rare, wrong and oh so right all at once.

In those moments--her ass upturned for him to plow against, or moaning and writhing against him as he teases her into a gooey mess, all the while telling him what a good girl she wants to be for him, how she belongs utterly to him--the regular world temporarily floats away and she's just her Daddy's girl, and he's taking care of everything, and life is absolutely perfect.

This is why I do D/s. This is why I do age play.


9/27/2014 9:40:44 AM
The difference "Good Girl" can make...


                                               Whispering those two little words in her ear is as good as saying I love you. Maybe for you, its not. Maybe you see it as a insignificant gesture.....but for her it's huge. It can take her from dry to wet before you even complete the phrase. It will make her smile even in the dark. She works hard hoping to hear these words. It lets her know that whatever task, no matter how small or big, she has completed was noticed. These words fill her with so much pride. She'll strive to hear it again. She will go out of her way to please you, just to hear them. It doesn't matter how many times you say it, she'll remember every time and what she did to earn it. She needs it. She craves it. Her ears will burn to hear it. And every time she hears it she will combust with excitement. Just telling her she's a good girl is awesome...but take it a step further. Lean into her, put your hand on her face, on the back of her neck, grab a handful of hair and give it a tug. Whisper it. Put some growl into if you like....say it so she's the only one to hear it..after all, these are the most important words she will ever hear from you, dont make her share it. Tell her she's a good girl while you have your hand around her throat. When you have her pinned down teasing her g-spot. Tell her she's a good girl while you have her standing on the cross while you bring her to tears. Tell her she's a good girl when she's orgasmed so many times she cant comprehend simple words. These she will understand, no matter how far into subspace she is. Surely you get the point...thats your girl....Tell her she's a good girl....dont be stingy with it. Tell her. She needs, wants, loves to hear it.

9/9/2014 11:57:32 AM

People ask me what is is about this lifestyle that I love. Well. Don’t get me wrong. I love the kinky sex. I love my kinky friends. I love meeting someone and seeing her eyes only after I have studied her intimate parts in detail. I love that when I meet with someone, most of the time, we already know things about each other that it would have taken years to share in a vanilla world relationship. I love that the phrase - "you know, you have a truly remarkable clit" can be just another sentence shared over lunch. I love all of that stuff..

But to be honest, the thing I love the most is the personal intimacy. It is knowing someone so well that I can hear her mood in her text messages. I can really hear it. It is knowing that she has shared things with me, intimacies, places in her body, firsts, that she hasn’t ever shared before.

It is building her up. It is constantly telling her how amazing she is, because, you see, I have made some truly amazing friends. I am sometimes withered by their company. It is the moment when I see that she sees her own beauty in a new way. It is watching her confidence rise because of the time we've shared. These are the things I love.

These moments we share. These too few interludes in the midst of a fast paced and sometimes completely detached world. These experiences of pain and pleasure and strength and weakness and laughter and tears... These are the moments I truly live for.

I am a Dom at heart. I am buoyed by her submission, her touch, her need of me, but I don’t want her weak. I want her strong. I don’t want her fearful. I want to see her riveting gaze and hear her use her words. I don't want her dependent. I want her confident and alive. Because when she is these things, her choice to be with me is an even deeper honor and it is her choice that feeds my soul.

I am not safe. I will hurt you. I will push you. I will use the things you have told me about you to open doors inside of you that you locked away long ago and I will not always do it gently. It is part of the dynamic we have agreed to share. It is part of why you are here.

And when you blurt out the words you’ve not said, ever, to anyone, I will catch them and hold them and lock them away in my heart and I will hold you and honor you and steal your fear and pain - if only for a moment - and give you peace.

And when we part I may also cry. Not from sadness, but from the utter humility that comes with the very real honor of your friendship and the knowledge that we will hold hands, and walk, and share some more.


3/29/2014 8:12:04 AM

A submissive bill of rights

 

 

"1.You have the right to be treated with respect. Not only do you have this right, you have the right to demand it. Being submissive does not make you a doormat or less of a person than anyone else. The word “submissive” describes your nature and in no way diminishes you as a human being. You have the right to respect yourself as well.

 

2.You have the right to be proud of what you are. Being a submissive is nothing that should ever bring you shame or feelings of reproach. Your submissive nature is a gift and should always be a source of pride and happiness.

 

3.You have the right to feel safe. Being a submissive should not make you feel afraid, insecure or threatened. Submission is not about living on the edge or flirting with fear. In any situation you should feel safe or there can never be true surrender.

 

4.You have the right to your emotions and feelings. Your emotions and feelings come from you and they are just as valid as anyone else’s. You have a right to them. Those feelings, whether positive or negative, make you who you are and suppressing them will only bring unhappiness later.

 

5.You have the right to express your negative feelings. Being submissive does not make you an that no longer has negative thoughts or concerns.Your concerns are real and you have every right to express them. If something doesn’t feel right, bothers you, makes you feel bad or you just plain don’t like something, say so. Failing to express your negative feelings could give the mistaken impression that you are pleased or satisfied with something that is not pleasurable or agreeable.

 

6.You have the right to say NO. Being submissive does not take away your right to have dislikes or negative feelings about things. If something is happening or about to happen that you feel strongly opposed to, it’s your duty to speak up. Remember, failing to communicate the word NO is the same as saying YES.


7You have the right to expect happiness in life. Being submissive is not tantamount to being miserable, suffering or a life of despair. Your submission should bring you joy, peace and fulfillment. If it doesn’t, then something is wrong.

 

8.You have the right to have input in a relationship. You are an active partner in any relationship you enter and have every right to contribute to it. You are submissive, not passive. A relationship that doesn’t include your needs, thoughts, hopes and desires is not one you should be in to begin with. This applies to friendships, partnerships and D/s relationships.

 

9.You have the right to belong. Being submissive greatly involves the feeling of belonging. Many submissives have expressed that it was in discovering their submissive nature that they felt as through they “belonged” for the first time in their lives. You belong to the lifestyle and will eventually belong to the One. It’s in that relationship you should find the final fulfillment of “belonging” at last.

 

10.You have the right to be loved and to love. Anyone who tells you that love doesn’t fit into a D/s relationship has never experienced the fulfillment of all it truly can be. Submissives are by nature loving and needing of love and have every right to expect this to be a part of their lives. It takes love to bring your submission into full bloom, so don’t settle for less.

 

11.You have the right to be healthy. Health involves your physical, mental and emotional well-being. Any relationship, D/s or otherwise, that causes you to suffer physically, mentally or emotionally, beyond your limits, is abuse. There is no place for abusive behavior in a D/s relationship and it’s up to you to make sure those lines are not crossed.


Being a submissive does not give anyone the right to harm or injure you in any way. The D/s community will stand behind you if you should encounter such a situation but you are the one who has to make them aware before they can help.

 

12.You have the right to practice safe sex. Not only is this a right, it’s a duty to yourself and others you may come into contact with at a later date. Sexually transmitted diseases have reached epidemic proportions and must be a concern to any sexually active person. Safe Sex is something you have the right to insist upon and protecting yourself should never be discouraged by anyone who really has your best interests at heart. "

 


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12/6/2013 10:08:37 PM

 

While some may view it as trashy, those who are genuinely interested in pursuing the Scene or an active D/s M/s relationships may (and will) encounter hiccups along the way. And since all experience should ideally teach us and make us grow, it does tend to be unbiased in its teachings by placing us in both good and bad situations.

That being said, a person may be with a specific Dominant for some time before realizing that something in that dynamic doesn't quite fit the bill. This may be for a myriad of reasons; some of which could be as unfortunate as an inexperienced Dominant or worse, one who abuses authority or otherwise pretends to play a role which does not befit them in the least.
Regrettably, the latter seems to be the cause of much mistrust and confusion for those submissive seeking a proper Dominant, as well as those who are fairly new to the Scene and just got their feet wet, only to be dragged underwater by some sadistic motherfucking shark (not the good kind) who just feed on the new swimmer like some bad "Jaws" sequel.

The truth of the matter is that while some situations are correct in matching the assumption of trashiness, in that people just jump from partner to partner just for the sake of attention and boredom; most of the time it is a seeker who did not quite find their niche in a fulfilling dynamic with present or past partners.


10/12/2013 7:43:49 PM

"When you understand that the way you feel must not be based upon what you can get somebody else to perform, so that you can witness it and feel better, that your power, all of your power, is in your ability to choose from among what you're seeing, then you're in control. In other words: unconditional love says: "I'm gonna love regardless of the conditions because I have the ability to focus upon the things that make me feel love. I'm gonna see you through the eyes of Source, whether you deserve it or not." This is the sort of the attitude we'd like you in the beginning to give to your partner. "You're acting like a bastard, but I will see you through the eyes of Source!" ... Not exactly the loving vows that you wanted to make. But what you say, is: "Until death do we part... through all the good and all the bad... until death do us part..." We want to say, we'd like your vows to say "I like you pretty good, let's see how it goes" But we would like you to understand that moving from relationship to relationship to relationship is not the answer. And that in fact, the true relationship you seek, is the relationship with Source. "


5/27/2013 2:32:27 PM

The POINT:

Subs - Do not assume just because a dominant gives himself a title that he will automatically care for you deeply or look out for your best interests. There's no built-in "honor code" in bdsm as much as we'd like to dream there is. Do not assume that just because someone is "dom" that you should turn off your dating filters or forget about your self-protective instincts. Vanilla women don't get engaged after 3 dates so is it really wise to decide to have someone OWN you after 3 dates? Just because we like bondage, roles & handcuffs doesn't mean people can't treat you poorly. Value yourselves a little more dear submissives and make a dominant PROVE he is worth your devotion before you make him the center of your universe.


5/16/2013 9:36:56 AM

I can't promise you that dark clouds will never hover over our lives, or that the future will bring us many rainbows, I can't promise you that tomorrow will be perfect, or that life will be easy. I can promise you, my everlasting devotion, my loyalty, my respect, and my unconditional love for a life time. i can promise that I'll always be there for you to listen and hold your hand I can promise to always do my ultimate best to make you happy and make you feel loved. I can promise that I'll see you through any crisis and hope with you, Dream with you, Build with you, Always cheer you on and encourage you, I can promise that I'll share my dreams, My world and every aspect of my life with you. I'll willingly be your protection, your adviser, your counselor, your friend, your family, your everything, and I believe what true love is all about.


5/7/2013 5:32:02 AM

YOUR PERFECT EXISTENCE

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That is the truest statement ever....
I sitting here reading post after post after post and people are constantly professing who and what they are.

If you have to announce in every post that you are the perfect Dom/sub, Master/slave, man/woman or whatever who are you trying to convince us or yourself.

I read it on your profile, I read it in your response to the last 18 posts, I read it in your journal entry. I think we all get it you are perfect, your relationship is per is perfect, your sex is perfect, and you think very highly of yourself.

The reality is you spend more time on websites typing about your perfect existence rather than out somewhere living, loving, serving, spanking or doing something and REALLY EXISTING.

Just my early morning rant....let me log off and go start living for the rest of my day.


3/30/2013 12:51:52 PM

What you "say" you want
Your scores on the "Lost in Translation Test" suggest that you want a woman who's "highly accomplished, moderately embraces outward physical chemistry and is highly driven."

What you "really" want
According to relationship experts, what you seem to be looking for is a "STABILIZER." A stabilizer is well-poised to meet the hidden or unspoken needs you might actually be trying to fill in a search for a relationship. A stabilizer is...

  • Someone whose enthusiasm is infectious and keeps you motivated and feeling young and energetic.
  • Someone who doesn't want or need to rely on you for economic security but rather comes to the relationship with existing resources.
  • Someone who's grounded and has a strong sense of identity, purpose and independence.
  • Someone who's ready and able to give you freedom and support for your personal or professional goals.
  • Someone who cares a lot about looking great, and who'll make you look sexier and more attractive in just being seen together.
  • Someone can be the envy of others, and who'll garner approval from your friends and family.
  • Someone who uses their physical, sexual assets to the fullest for your enjoyment.

11/11/2012 2:43:37 PM


It excites me. I'm stimulated by your kind. Deep and wet with the waters of critical thinking, flowing like the rivers of time, can I gently caress your intellect with concepts that I have created with mine?

As I undress your thoughts with my eyes, I know what you want because imagination never lies. The truth is all in your head I know, because so am I. It’s better that way, wetter that way, because creative juices never stop flowing.

Also knowing what I wanted, you gave me a piece of your information. You seem nervous, must be your first time, sharing your mind. Don't worry, it won’t hurt but you might get addicted. Because once you get the feeling it’s hard to stop, no longer being restricted by physical limitations. Having inclinations to do it, every time I see you, not in public though, because someone might see, but they still wouldn't know.

How I softly licked your gray matter, as we rolled around your brain's master bedroom trying not to knock anything over. I know it’s never felt like this because nobody's ever been this deep.

You feel exhausted and we didn't even kiss, feeling as though you were asleep. But it wasn't a dream as I slowly thrust my swollen creativity, deep inside your imagination rhythmically, until our thoughts explode simultaneously and we have engaged in mental intercourse.


9/15/2012 3:16:02 PM

“Sex is not a goddamn performance.
Sex should feel as natural as drinking water.

It should not require confidence.

Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe.

Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening cock, ripening pupils, ripening state of being. Ripe and augmented and brimming. Your energy goes to your pumping heart, then to every external nerve, then to theirs, on fire.

You bask, roll, play in it. You sigh, moan, laugh.

It’s not about being “good in bed.”

It’s about being happy.

One should never worry if they’re doing it “correctly.” Sex is not factual. I don’t want your cookie-cutter sex, I don’t want your meticulously crafted, calculated, fool-proof fuck. I don’t want a show. I want you. Let your instincts, urges and whims define that. It’s enough.

What do most girls like? Forget about it. Statistics are meaningless when there’s only one. Hello, here’s me. Here’s you.

Don’t worry about taking it too slow. We got time. We got infinite rhythms, combinations, possibilities. Explore each fuck. Take our time. We can do a different one later.

Don’t worry about making me come. I’m here. Right where I want to be.

I am overwhelmed by wanting; you don’t have to convince me. I want you because I like you. So don’t put on a front. Don’t taint this.

I’m frustrated—it’s just authenticity I want.

It’s originality.

It’s passion.

It’s joy.

Don’t say that something I like is ugly. Don’t compare yourself to the rest. You will live and die with and within your experiences like everyone else. If someone thinks you are amazing, they are not wrong. Their universe is as real as any other; it is forged through perception.

I don’t care if you accidentally slammed my head into the wall, if you slipped out, if my arm cracked, if the delightful pressure of your wet lips on my anything made a silly sound. There is no right way and no wrong way.

“Good in bed,” what.

You’re good in my bed. I’m pleased you’re there. I feel it suits you.

Shove your technique. Let your memory swallow it. Fuck me like you’d fuck me, fuck me like you feel.


9/11/2012 9:24:09 AM

Forgiveness is not something you do solely for the person who hurt you. It is something you do for yourself, for the sake of your own inner freedom. You forgive so that you can live in the present instead of being stuck in the past. You forgive because your grievances and grudges—even more than hopes and attachments and fears—bind you to old patterns, old identities, and especially to old stories.

Think of a person you don't really want to forgive: a parent, an ex-lover, a teacher, a betraying friend. Maybe you believe that to forgive the person means you're excusing their wrong or that holding on to your anger somehow gives you back the power their offense took away. Or perhaps, as a good spiritual practitioner, you believe you've already forgiven. But if you really look, you might see that the grievance is still part of your story, even part of the meaning of your life.

"I'm this way because s/he did that to me!" you say—he or she being the unloving parent, the unfaithful lover, the guru who didn't deliver. The problem is, when you hold on to the grievance, you also hold on to its shadow belief: "I must be flawed in some way to have attracted that hurt."


9/5/2012 2:04:56 PM

I stand in front of you, my eyes, full of compassion and care, looking down on your kneeling form.
You have offered yourself to me, your mind, your body, your emotions, and your soul, and for those I pledge you this.
I shall cherish you not only as my submissive, but as the love you are, warm, intelligent, caring, and sensitive.
I shall never intentionally harm you, and although I know, I am not perfect; I shall try to act wisely in all things.
If I err, I shall rectify my error and I shall apologize to you.
I shall continually strive to guide and teach you, to help you and support you, as you make the difficult decisions, which precedes growth.
I will be patient, as you grow; knowing that all things take time and change often does not come easily. Even in my patience, I shall continually push you forward and not allow you to fall backwards. If in anything you do fall, I shall be there to catch you, hold you, comfort you, and then place you back on track.
If I ever lose my temper, I shall step back from that situation until I regain control, then deal with what has occurred. I will not act irrationally or hastily. You shall always have the opportunity to explain what has happened, before I decide what must be done, then my actions will always be based on correcting you, not punishing you.
I shall edify and build you up, always encouraging you and never belittling you, as a submissive or a woman. I will always build trust, being open and honest with you.
I shall always communicate with you, even when it may not be easy for me, showing both my strengths and weaknesses. You shall never fear from me, for I shall never forget your humanity and shall always honor the gift you have given me.
I will never lord my dominance over you. You are submissive, I am dominant, two sides of the same coin, and one by itself without the other is worthless.


8/12/2012 2:35:30 PM
  Wanting you and having you is two different situations.If you are willing to have a on-line romance while getting to know on another.You will be owned again in a stable unique relationship. If you are interested in know more I would be looking forward to hearing from you soon.

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 StrongBlkRuler

7/20/2012 4:17:04 AM

IF ANY OF YOU WOMEN HAVE AN OBJECTION TO MY DOMINANCE.SPEAK NOW OR FOREVER HOLD YOUR PEACE!!!


7/20/2012 4:14:51 AM

I come home to a house with a warm meal drifting in the air that you have cooked for me.With you kneeling at the door waiting for my next instruction I then look around the room in anticipation that you have done well.But the discipline is duly needed to get my point across to you.I told you to stand up and follow me where in the house there is a hanger rod from the ceiling.Then i shackle your hands above your head,where you are barely standing on your tippy toes trying to gain your balance.DADDY please you said what have I done.While you are contemplative on what I'm thinking still lingering from the ceiling.I decided to go and take a shower as you can hear the water from the room that your in.I return a short while with water dripping from my masculine toned body.As the air evaporated the water from my skin as i saw that it has made your pussy tingle.Standing closely before you as i looked into your eyes as you try not to look down towards my hard erection.I then lifted up your chin to kiss your lips as a soft moan escaped you with delight. For who's pleasure you are seeking, yours daddy you responded.I asked you once again between kisses are you a submissive or a slave.With all honesty and sincere commitment to me you said "SLAVE" with all your heart as a tear trickled from your eye.Thinking can this bitch really be that one for me that would hold me down no matter what i do and accomplish.let's take it a step further,I then kneel down after kissing your tears away caressing your nipples with a slight pinch of my strong hands.As I'm on my knees in front of you i then drape one of your legs over my shoulder to eat at your horny pussy.With each morsel I proclaim licking at your clit then sliding my tongue between your wet folds,tasting oh-so diligently French kissing your pussy.Making you cum on my face cause I have said so,you then cream my face with your fragrance which will make me strong for you.As i watched your stomach tighten and contract as i monitored your breathing knowing how to eat your pussy.I was going to make you cum again,but when i said to hold your cum in between licks.You had asked me please daddy can i cum and i said no!.But with out your control you couldn't hold it no longer and started cumming with out my permission as i pushed you away from me as you spun trying to regain your footing.I was angry saying what the fuck did i say,what you don't listen as i spun you around harder while looking for my paddle.I then stopped you short from spinning as i had my hands around your throat as you tried to explain your self.NO! i was not trying to hear it as i then pushed you away from me spanking your ass as your back side was visible to me.Please daddy you beckoned for me so you could please me and be content with you.I then stopped you where you could then stand once more on your tippy toes. Um yes indeed let's try this again,I then lifted you up above my waist so i could feel my mushroomed head from my dick per-trued threw your naughty folds.Still wet from me eating what's mine i guided your love hole all the way till my dick hit bottom,but was not all the way in.Standing with your legs nearly up on my shoulders i lifted you up and down on my dick driving it in your pussy.As that flushed red look appeared on your face trying to concentrate on not cumming i could see that you was trying to play games with me,by talking naughty to me saying daddy i love your dick in side my horny pussy.I thought about cumming and letting you know who this pussy is,but we are here at this moment to know from one another who is in control.Hold it baby as i continued to pound this rigid girth veined with excitement as your nipples ached for my touch.I saw that you was trying to keep it quite as i then noticed a lotion white film coating my dick that you have came several times with out my command.Stunned by your control to hide it,I then pushed you away from me and released you from the ceiling as you then dropped to the floor.In the heap of exhaustion squirming on the carpet trying to regain your sense of direction as i walked over to an arm rested chair.Trying to crawl to me fazed by how many times you have came so hard threw your horny excitement.Reaching forward to me you grabbed my still erected dick with both hands to ask me for my forgiveness.I then said just kiss my dick until i think of something that is suitable for your punishment as you then lovingly obeyed my command.


7/18/2012 11:33:58 AM

AND THEN THE OTHER SIDE OF BEING A GEMINI! You long for your Daddy so much. You need to be spanked, fucked, gagged and made to clean to please. Seriously. You know your Daddy is out there. For once in your life would you like to know that you could be a good girl. But you need Daddy's guidance. I will lead you. I will drag you by your hair, force you across my lap and beat your ass until you cry, knowing your tears don't mean you are hurting, they mean you are finally realizing what you are doing wrong. If you are this little girl, do email me right away. Your Daddy will be very strict. I will punish you because of your naughty ways and mouth. I will stick my cock into your mouth and make you cry. I will take off my belt and make you kiss it before I use it on you. But you know you need it. Because Daddy knows best. Only your Daddy knows when you are crying for real or just trying to get out of trouble. Daddy will use your ass as he sees fit. It will be Daddy's. Every part of you will belong to Daddy. You will ask Daddy for permission for everything. (Disclaimer: This is a serious post. I am attempting to find a sexually compatible, somewhat sane and d/d free partner, not a simple hookup. Apply with photo and eloquent self-deign for more details. Do not apply if you have been to less than two museums in the past six months, have recently been called unstable or are not height-weight proportionate. Your privacy will be fiercely guarded and I expect nothing less in return.)


7/18/2012 9:10:48 AM

Using your bodyYour sexual hidden talent is using your body's natural charm and beauty to seduce your partner. You are all about having the perfect body/looking good for your partner - and it does the trick every time. FIRST...It's easier to make a girl cum, from eating' her pussy as opposed to fucking' LOVE to EAT it, LICK it, and SUCK on the clit and put your tongue deep in her hole...while in her wit your tongue, suck on her clit softly................. 95% of females can't cum from sex UNLESS, they're on top... and they're on top why? So they can stimulate their clit? The key is to eat the pussy first? make her cum a few times...numb her up...then hammer away or soft and slow with a lot of vaginal teasing with your magic stick to build it all up in the end, however u like...... now once your in between her legs... don't just fucking' dive in there like a bum at a thanksgiving charity dinner (AMEN to that!!!) ...take your fucking' time! We know pussy is nearly irresistible ...but don't act like it is.. Lick her inner thighs, kiss them.. .kiss around her pussy lips? kiss the lips etc. etc? Finally once you've got your tongue on her clit...this is what u do? (u can use your hands to spread her lips here if u want.. that's all preference...it's easier to make em cum w/their lips spread? so u have easier access to their clit) now...roll the tip and somewhat flat part of your tongue around the clit in a circular motion...slowly...DON'T STOP...the KEY is to hold your rhythm...listen to her breathing ...use this as feedback... and react w/your tongue accordingly... you want her breathing' to be steady...at a steady pace... kinda like a clock...tick tock tick tock tick tock...it sounds lame but she should be breathing' on beat...no. not MOANING ... breathing... listen to her breathing... listen to the moans when ur on the phone or something'...now the key is...DON'T STOP (I emphasize this, cause it's important...if u STOP- GO- STOP -GO haphazard like, you're not gonna get anywhere)...DON'T STOP!!!... even if it's to pick a hair out of your mouth... just hold your rhythm? circle her clit... increase speed gradually... once you've got the speed up a bit and her breathing' is telling' you, you r on target? use more of the tip of your tongue... and move it less... but at a slightly faster pace... basically work your way into? flicking' it back n forth like a punching bag? it's hard to explain? but it's kinda like vibration' your tongue? not swaying' it back n forth like a wrecking' ball? slapping' her clit as you swoosh by? if u can keep this up for at least 60 seconds (or more)...she'll cum? if she's stubborn and won't bust? get a finger or two up inside her? hook your finger(s)..and kinda "scratch""scrape""tickle""massage" her G spot..which feels like a lil sponge..it's on the "ceiling" of her pussy... inside? and up top... about an inch in? consider your fingers holding' the harmony?while your tongue works the melody...and she'll bust before u know it.. Good? you've succeeded? now the worst thing u can do now?is STOP?keep fucking' going?this is the good part...if u ignore her pants, rants, and gestures for u to stop...and keep going' like she hasn't busted...(she'll initially want u to stop cause she's all mad sensitive at the moment)...after 10-15 seconds, the sensitivity for her will fade...and about a minute later?Yes A MINUTE ...she'll bust again? so do it again and again and again until she declares you the winner....the only way to know you did a good job is by getting served seconds thirds fourths and fifths.............


7/18/2012 9:09:22 AM

Night of passion The sound of the collar snapping into place was loud in her ears, as Masters warm fingers gently fixed it into place. His lips were tender as he kissed her forehead and spoke. "Go to your bath sweet one""yes Master" she answered softly. Rising from her knees, she felt his hand softly caress her naked butt cheek as she turned towards the Master bath. Her fingers trembled as she removed the band from her long hair and let it fall down her back. It swayed against her skin as she walked, the movement of her hips rhythmic, and pleasing to her Masters eyes. She repeated Masters words to herself as she turned on the soft lights in the Master bath and turned on the jets in the hot tub. "This is your playtime little one" He had said to her earlier."Play until I am sated" She shivered as the words rang again in her head. Her body tingled as she thought about the joys awaiting her this night. she stepped slowly down into the warmth of the hot tub. The hot water caressing her skin sensually as she submerged herself. Her long hair streamed out behind her as she lay back and rested in the arms of the powerful jets. There was something so relaxing about feeling the touch of a jet of hot water as it streamed across her sensitive skin. She angled her body then towards the source of the jets, and allowed it to play across her genitals. Master had taught her to enjoy this sensation. The force of the powerful jets could take her body to great heights of ecstasy. She could feel the warmth of the water as it swept across her labia and sweetly stroked her clit. She trembled and closed her eyes as her body began to flush with its own warmth. Her fingers slipped to her hard nipples, and she firmly pinched them. Ohhhh...yes.. Her body trembled as a shock of pure pleasure coursed through her. She slid one hand down between her soft thighs and firmly pushed two fingers between her slowly swelling pussy lips. Making sure that the jet of water stayed on her clit, she moved them in and out of her sensitive pussy. Her back arched as she climaxed. Her voice ringing out loud in the silent room as she came. She could feel it building again, as the magic of the water took her over. Her fingers moved within her body and she bucked again and cried out. "Very good precious" Masters deep voice spoke softly in the room as he stepped into the bath behind her. His arms slid around her body and his hands filled with the fullness of her soft breasts, pulling her to him. She could feel his arousal as she let herself float gently against Him. "Thank you Master" She said softly as she gasped in orgasm once again. She could feel Masters hardness as it fit itself between the warmth of her ass cheeks. Masters hands were firm as he gripped her nipples between his fingers and pinched. she moaned deeply. Master turned her around then in his arms, and kissed her. His lips caressed hers gently and his tongue swept hers aside as it fiercely claimed her mouth for itself. His arms brought her body tight against His. Her breasts pressed against his chest, and her hips and belly held tightly to Him. Her arms wrapped around his neck and shoulders as she returned the kiss. Her tongue sweetly stroking his as she tasted him. He ran his lips down her chin then and to her throat, swiftly kissing the collar, and fastening on the tender skin beside it. She lay her head back as He suckled her skin. The movement of the warm water against her erect and sensitive nipples almost made her cum again as Master worked diligently to kiss every inch of her throat. His hands slid under the water and grasped her waist then, and he lifted her up until she was sitting on the edge of the huge tub, her legs dangling on either side of him. His eyes were half lidded as he looked at her and slowly ran them over her bare body. "Mine" was all He said then as his hands firmly spread her thighs wide and his lips took possession of what was His. She lay back, her hands going gently to his head as she felt his tongue sweetly enter her vagina. She gasped, her breathing ragged as He used his tongue to dip into her sweetness, and tenderly taste her. "Ohhh Master" came her breathy voice as she grasped his hair in her fingers wanting to pull him closer. His lips and tongue began to play over her pussy. Her tender clit seemed to be their objective more often than not as her hips bucked at each stroke there. Her cries of passion rang out loudly as His lips brought her to climax once more. She was breathing rapidly in and out as he pulled her back into the warmth of the hot tub. Her hands slid over him as she tried to touch as much of him as she could. She heard him chuckle as he lifted himself up into the lower part of the hot tub and pulled her forward. She went gladly, and slid between his legs, her hands seeking and finding what she wanted. she looked up at Master for his permission, and receiving a nod, firmly grasped his hard cock in one hand, and guided it to her waiting mouth. He rested against the cushion at the back of the tub as her lips slid over the head of His cock. She sucked Him into her mouth and let her tongue play over the head, wetting it with her saliva, till it was slick enough to slide without effort between her lips. She played then, her lips tightening around His cock as her hand moved the foreskin gently up and down to meet her lips as she bathed his cock head with her tongue. She could taste Him then. On the back of her tongue as she moved Him back and forth against it. This excited her more than anything and she moved her head forward sliding his cock into the back of her throat. Masters voice was rough as he called to her to stop. She didn't want to, but had to obey Him. Her lips released his cock, and he slid back into the water, pulling her against him once more. His lips tasted of her juices as he kissed her hard and sucked her tongue into his mouth. He lifted her once more in the water, and her thighs spread wide as she felt his hard member enter her swollen opening. She gasped loudly as she felt him fill her. His hard cock pushing into her, deeply taking her softness. Her legs wrapped around his hips as he pushed fully into her and her eyes closed. His hands on her hips guided her as he pumped into her body. She couldn't breath, her panting breaths ragged from her throat as she felt her body trembling on the brink of orgasm. Master pulled out then, and turning her gently in the water, He moved her body back against him and let his hard cock spread her ass cheeks. She relaxed as much as she could in this state, and felt the head of His cock nudging her sensitive anal opening. She gasped as it pushed into the tightness there, then waited just holding her still against him in the gently moving water. Her breath was torn from her throat in a deep gasp as his cock entered that hot place swiftly. Her ass clenched around him then as she relaxed her body. She could feel his breath against her throat as his lips fastened there again and his cock plunged deeply into her ass.""Yesssss Masterrr." She cried out. Her whole body clenching as a huge orgasm pulsed through her. His cock moved in and out of her ass mightily then as she writhed against him in pleasure. She could feel him tense. His cock deeply buried within her ass, as it exploded. She trembled and moaned, then her voice rang out with his as she came again. His seed spewing into her tight ass as they came together. She was gasping for air as Masters arms released her, only to turn her back into his embrace again. His strong arms surrounded her shivering body, as He cuddled her against him. "You are a good girl " He said softly against her hair. "You have pleased me greatly...now go..get into my bed" She giggled as she lightly stepped from the water and felt him close behind her. His hand smacked her ass cheek and made her jump as she grabbed a towel and began to dry him. "Leave that little one" He said a smile in his voice. she laughed softly and dropped the towel, then turned and swiftly moved to the Masters bed. Her body glistening with quickly drying droplets as she climbed onto the covers, and curled up to await Him. His body entering the bed woke her, and he reached up and grabbed her foot, dragging her to the top of the bed as he threw back the covers. "Get in there and warm the sheets wench" He laughed. and watched her as she curled under the blankets willingly. He slid in beside her, and pulled her close to him. Her lips found his skin, and she couldn't resist a kiss or two. He laughed sleepily as she did, and kissed her forehead softly. "Sleep now little one...there is more when we awaken" His deep voice lulled her, and she closed her eyes obediently as her head was pulled gently against his chest. She could hear his heart beating against her ear. Her arm curled over him as he slid his leg over her hip and put his arms around her holding her close against him. Her thigh moved gently between his legs, and she sighed softly. Their breath was warm as it mingled together between them and they slept.


7/18/2012 9:07:58 AM

A Playa has 4 different types of girls ... 1. Wifey 2. Baby Girl 3. Side Piece 4. Jump Off 1) Wifey is the sexiest, most successful and most respected of all the women. She is loved, needed and wanted by her man...she is VIRTUALLY IRREPLACEABLE. She is the girl that the guy loves and will always love, he never wants to see her with another man...BUT he will cheat on her with Baby Girl until he is mature enough to realize that if he gets caught or f--ks up in any way and loses Wifey, he would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again. Wifey gets along with mom, is independent, never nags, loves to dress sexy for her man, can cook and loves to keep a clean house. Wifey gets called 5 or 6 times a day. Drawback of Wifey, she loves public displays of affection...which might interfere with the acquisition of a Side Piece. 2) Baby Girl is ALWAYS just as hot as wifey and usually has a very active social life...she IS replaceable, thinks she's the next Wifey, but will only be Wifey if an extreme disaster takes place. Baby Girl gets some of the benefits of Wifey, like quality time every now and then and even presents on birthdays and holidays, but that's as far as it goes. The main reason to have Baby Girl is in case Wife really really f--ks up, she can be replaced in a matter of weeks because Baby Girl has been groomed to slip right into her spot. Be careful of Baby Girl, she tends to be just as attached as Wifey and therefore can be dangerous to the Side Piece. Biggest benefit of Baby Girl...she is extremely private and hates causing a scene, baby girl can come into the same restaurant as you and wifey and wifey will have no idea you two even know each other. Baby Girl is a master of disguise as well. 3) Side Piece, usually a female that the guy uses only for sex and other pleasures, she is usually the one that he goes to for that 3-some or some late night head after the club. When Wifey is acting up and Baby Girl is at work, the Side Piece is usually the one to hold him over for a few hrs. He can meet with the Side Piece for reasons other than sex, but normally that only happens one week during the month. Side Pieces are hard to spot when they are out because most of her friends are either Wifey's or Jump Offs. Drawback of having more than one side piece, they usually know each other somehow...we kinda think there is a side piece network.com or something. Try to keep your side piece count below 4 if possible. 4) Jump Off...every mans dream and worst nightmare. She is trying to move up in life, wants to be a Side Piece or Wifey but doesn't know how to go about it. They are just the girls he hollas at when he is with his boys...she is usually stored in the cell phone by a nickname because he barely remembers her real name and where he met her...he only recalls how fat her ass was. The Jump Off gets called in emergencies only, when wifey is moody, baby girl is on vacation and side piece is with her baby's father. The Jump Off is extremely dangerous in public for a number of reasons, she is usually 5 other guys jump off as well, so she might cause drama with you and one of those dudes if you slip up, she also has no problem confronting you in the mall when you are with Wifey (something that baby girl would NEVER do) and the most dangerous thing about Jump Off...she ALWAYS seems to find out where you live and or work. AND THIS IS MY REPLY TO THAT: Not every black man wants to be a player, A pimp, a perpetrator. Because a real black man, a brother, Is someone who is always down for his girl, His queen, his voluptuous vixen. Now niggas, niggas only Care about three things, Money, power, and sinful pleasures- But a brother can do something that a nigga cannot... A brother can love, and exalt love. He can care, not just for- but about, His woman. A brother can create and uphold a meaningful relationship In which his special lady- His treasure- can feel needed emotionally, Not just physically. Someone with a hit it and quit it mindset Can only be called one thing: A coward, afraid of commitment, Too scared to share what he feels inside. But a man- which is a word that isn't dependent on age; But on maturity, respect, and quality of life- Shares his feelings, sheds his emotions, And listens to his queen. Much like I- a real man- Would do for you... If I were your man, and you were my woman.


6/23/2012 4:44:02 PM

  • Romantically and Patiently; Take the time to make love to her mind. Fulfill all of her midnight wishes. Cover her entire body with soft wet kisses. Tell her, so that she will know! There`s no place on her body your tongue won`t go. And, when you love a Woman, you love her real slow. How do you make love to a Woman, Passionately and Sincerely; Let her Sweetness become your Weakness. Do not use just the Penis, But include your ear. Listen to the sweet sound of her moans and see what you hear. Feel the warmth and care of her loving embrace. Place your mouth on her`s, and savor the taste. How do you make love to a Woman, Sensually and Honestly; Say what you mean and mean what you say. Tell her that you love her, more and more with each passing day. Let all of the fantasies that dance in her head. Become her moonlight reality when it`s time to go to bed Kiss and lick all over her body, until you find all her right spots. Touch and caress her soft skin; and make her real hot. Mutual satisfaction is a lover`s plan. Love her, cause you are in love with her. She`s your Woman and you`re her Man. How do you make love to a Woman, Lovingly and Completely; Love her!!!!!


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