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Updated slightly 5/26/16
My journey is constantly evolving, as they usually do. It started in 2005. Although I knew I was Dominant by nature and it was who I needed to be, without any knowledge of the lifestyle or skills of any kind, I decided it was best for me to learn from the bottom up. For almost two years I had the privilege of being the owned and collared slave pet of Domina Demanda. My experience thus far, anything I know about the lifestyle, anyone I know in the lifestyle, and my new passions that my eyes have been opened to and I find my fulfillment in is all because of her and her gift of loving and nurturing. It has been an honor being hers, and I will always carry it with me. I also owe part of who I am to Her Master Shaman, for his constant example and words of wisdom. I am honored to be a part of the House of Shaman.
I have recently permanently collared my slave in April 2016. After being with me in training and consideration almost a year, she's definitely earned it and I couldn't be a happier owner. We're in a committed yet open M/s relationship. Long term goal would be to find another bi-female sub/slave/pet, the terminology may adapt to the individual, to form a 24/7 poly triad. That would have to be a very special person, and we're not really looking, well know when we find it.
We are looking for:
- Other couples to swing with
- Bi-female for occasional play with both of us
- Lesbian female for occasional play with her
- Straight female for occasional play with myself
- Male service oriented slaves for the household
Beyond personal encounters, I am always looking for models who like my style of beach bondage photography and would like to work together. Whether you live near by, or near somewhere I am traveling to, I'm constantly looking for others to work with and expand my portfolio. Please know when I am shooting with someone it is strictly professional and respectful and I will never cross that line. After the shoot is a different story, but would only happen if you expressed interest on your own, my only goal is the photos. I do not shoot for any websites or sell marketing rights for my photos, but do make canvas prints and show them in art shows and galleries. I do require a model release, but in it I also guarantee a % of profit if I sell anything with your photo.
Please feel free to introduce yourself if you're interested in any of the above, or just want to talk lifestyle, but please introduce yourself, no one liners or you'll get one back.
For beginners:
If there's anyone new to the scene and not quite sure just what it's all about or what to expect, read a little bio I wrote about how I came into the scene. I hope it might help and if you have any questions I'll be happy to talk to you.
For all of you reading this that might be just beginning your journey into the world of BDSM, fetishes, and kinks, those who have been searching for what seems like an eternity for the dom/me or submissive they've been hoping for, and those who have years of experience and are in search of other like minded and dedicated individuals, this is my little story of how I've found my perfect Mistress, a home and safe place to learn and grow in the lifestyle, and pretty much a family of great friends who are normal people just like myself (with just a twist of kink to them).
I had profiles online for over two years and was searching for a Mistress. I had absolutely no experience with any of this but I knew I wanted to give it a shot.
In that time I've gotten hundreds of messeges from men wanting to have sex with me even though I did not have men as something I was looking for, I had found a ton of people I was interested in and sent winks to or even messaged and heard nothing back, and the hand full of people I did talk to just had something about them that made me feel uncomfortable and uneasy.
Then I did come across a particular profile for Domina Demanda that really caught my attention. She seemed highly intelligent, extremely experienced, but also very sincere and dedicated not only to the lifestyle but also the respect of the lifestyle. I thought there was no way I deserved to be considered by such an experienced Domme, but I gave it a shot, and much to my surprise my earnest desire to learn and experience sparked her interest.
We did not waste time with tons of emails like a lot do on here, just one or two, then one phone call, then met for lunch. Although nervous as I was finally taking the step and pursuing the things I had been fantasizing about for a long time, everything went great, and beyond possibly finding my Mistress, I had also almost fallen into an entire community of genuine people in the lifestyle.
I came to find out that she and her husband had founded, a few years ago, kind of a community center for people in the lifestyle Alternatives Center. It has now been at its second location for over two years now, is highly respected amongst people throughout the lifestyle across the country, has 8-15 events a month, classes (not just how to's but how to be safe as well), demos, parties and more.
So, we started slowly by me just attending a few of the events, and this is what I found: You feel WELCOME. You feel SAFE. You meet great people that are normal people too, from cops to doctors to teachers to stay at home moms. You are exposed to all different kinds of fetishes and kinks. You're taught how to practice them safely. You can play, or you can just watch, there's no pressure.
If you want to experience something, someone will work with you. If you have a question about anything, someone will be happy to answer you.
They do not discriminate against gender, race, sexual orientation, body type, or any other thing you can dream up, as long as you extend that same courtesy and respect to everyone else. And after being a part of all this for a while, it feels like a home and a family to me.
After I got acclimated, I was in formal training and consideration for submissive service to my Mistress, and was gratefully and contentedly collared and owned by my perfect Mistress, Domina Demanda, for almost two years.
I couldn't think of a better place to learn and grow and meet others that share the same interest.
If you have read this and thought this might be the kind of experience that you've been looking for, please feel free to contact me and I will answer any questions you have and go into more details with you. Don't waste two years teetering on the fence like I did, come out and play!
If you're interested please don't hesitate tocontact me.
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I updated my profile since I now have a collared slave, but wanted to keep the old profile in a journal entry as I feel it helps get to know me and what I look for. Here it is.
I truly believe behind every good man is a good woman(women). I am looking for mine. I am a happy person. I have a good life filled with friends, fun, adventure, and laughter. I am ambitious, know where I want to be, and am working hard to get there. The person I will consider will not hinder this in any way, but add to it and assist me in achieving my goals.
I am a naturalist. I believe that this goes way beyond the fetishes of dominance and submission, but that accepting and wanting the natural roles the sexes are genetically, chemically, emotionally, and physically predisposed to play is the best way to achieve total fulfillment. Doesn't mean it can't work other ways like society tries these days, but I don't think they'll be truly satisfied, and it comes with the complications that come from going against the grain. "Fish should know stay down in the sea, every man should know you got to breath, and every monkey should stay up in their f*#!in tree" (Points to those that can identify the song honestly without looking it up). To be a woman, in a submissive role to a man that deserves it, and in turn enhancing that man, should not be oppressing, but quite the opposite, a beautiful embodiment of freedom in embracing who you are at the core. The key there is deserves it, and I do not imply that all men do.
I will discuss my requirements in detail with those that I am interested in, but a brief summary is as follows.
- We must have a physical and emotional attraction just like any vanilla relationship. If I hit the lottery I could afford to keep you in a cage in the dungeon of my mansion and only use you when I wanted, but in real life there are vanilla friends, family, functions that we have to be able to enjoy together.
- You must be intelligent and well spoken. Remember, you will be a representation of me wherever you go.
- You will be domesticated. You will be responsible for the upkeep of the house, have chores, etc...
- You will work. You must have employment or will find employment near me. Your wages will be budgeted to pay your way, contribute to things for the both of us, and also to save for yourself. I in no way expect you to be equal to me in income, nor will I be sponging off of you, but you will not be sponging off of me. It is important for your self esteem that you do something for yourself. However, it also must not interfere with your service to me.
- You will learn to assist me in all of my endeavors.
- I am a diplomat of sorts, and jack of all trades. I could be drinking in an alley with punks or dining at a banquet with doctors and Lawyers. You must be able to adapt to any situation with comfort and class.
- Sexually, there are no limits to the deviance and depravity of my imagination. I must have a slave who is equally open, hungry to learn and experience all that I desire.
There of course are much more specifics to discuss, and I look forward to discussing them with you. If you are interested in the position please do not hesitate to contact me. |
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My Ideal Situation
I have decided to put down a little more in depth thoughts about what I am hoping to accomplish, and I think it will give you an idea of what your life with me will be like if you were interested. Keep in mind this is my ideal situation, and though it is what I will be looking for and pushing to accomplish, all of it may not be for everyone and I do understand that. That does not mean we could not find a way to make things work.
I would like to establish a poly household with 1-3 submissive female slaves. Ideally, I would want you to give up everything to join and put your all into making our unit work and be the best that it can be. That might be hard for some to commit to, however as you will see, it's trading whatever your life is like now for one that is full of fun, excitement, creativity, and expression.
The arts make up a majority of my interests and are what I invest most of my time in. I own a rock bar and live music venue. My slave(s) will help me run my business. I will train you in how to bar tend, manage a bar, run sound, graphic design for fliers and ads, book live entertainment, package shows and throw parties which is basically what we do every night. I feel it will behoove me to have my family whom I know I can trust assisting me or handling things for me when I can not be there to ensure things are run exactly as I want them. If you like music, and drinking as well like me, you couldn't ask for a more fun responsibility. Even if down the road things did not work out between us, you'll be learning from my 8 years in this field and be able to take it with you. This bar is hopefully the first of many endeavors. It's my goal to create an empire.
As the bar takes up most of my time these days, your help will enable me to free up more time for other endeavors, like returning to my photography. You will be my ongoing model and muse along with assisting me with other shoots. We will create beautiful works of art together. I will teach you photography, lighting, and photo editing. We will take our works to the public selling at galleries and art shows. Beyond our own work, I would like to also break into model management. This is something I want to establish, however once I have it running I would like to leave it in the hands of my slave(s). It will be your baby.
I already have a decently respected name in the lifestyle community, and have both taught classes and performed at several events and parties. It's my goal to not just solidify that reputation, but to work at becoming one of the best live performers in the fetish scene. I need a slave(s) who share my creativity and desire to perform to take our art out of just photographs and onto the stage.
These are just a few of my goals at the moment, and what will be a big part of your life with me. As you can see from the type of responsibilities I will be expecting, I am not looking for a doormat, but a competent, intelligent, outgoing, and positive submissive. To put it in an example, I need my slave(s) to be my Pepper Potts to my Tony Stark.
Beyond all of that, our more vanilla side of life will be filled with vacay and travel, concerts, beach, pool, bbq's, friends etc... Fun, happiness, and positive energy. Of course this is only one side of what life with me would be like. I still have not touched on the "no limits to my sexual deviance and depravity" I mentioned in my profile....... evil grin (:
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| Age: 26 |
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Texas |
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