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"Fire is the test of gold; adversity, of strong men (For those of you that aren't to familiar with Latin). De Providentia V.9
--- Summary (because this is Collarspace afterall, and some of you knuckle daggers aren't going to get it...) What that quote means in this context of Doms and subs is that the true test if a Dominant is adversity as in self-control which is the hardest thing to really master in life. Only in the moment, that is to say, when in the fire can you really know what a Dom is made of.. We can talk about BDSM and a million and one aspects of it. . But you'll always really be able to spot a Dom. . And you'll know during your first session if he's real. Because it's one thing to play out a scene and pretend to be a Dom and a completely different thing to be taken and fucked by a real Dom. One is a kinky pass time the other an experience. Where you see diametrically opposed forces meet in perfect harmony.
Short version :
If you're tired of the games, BS, the inexperienced Doms or the fuckboys posing as Doms, and you're really ready to experience the lifestyle with a mature Dom that's well educated, intelligent, charming, charismatic, passionate, fun, kinky, and that genuinely wants to see you grow as a submissive than you're exactly where you need to be. I'm a Daddy Dom with a Sadistic edge. If you're a pain whore, slut, or just need a good hard, long, rough and kinky fucking I can take care of those desires as well.
Yes, I'm you're prototypical Dom with some fairly open minded options for those that desire to push their limits.
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Longer version for those that still enjoy reading.
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About me:
I'm an economist first and foremost, but currently moving in a new direction with my career goals. I used to work on building predictive analytics models, data mining algorithms, business intelligence solutions and as business consultant for companies. I'm a U. S. Navy Veteran, I'm a former U.S. Navy Hospital Corpsman (Tactical Field Medic). I have a wealth of medical knowledge and experience which allows me to safely push into more extreme scenes and situations with a great degree of confidence given my emergency medicine background and knowledge of human anatomy. Plus, I know my way around knots, probably not what the Navy intended while teaching us but helpful. Yes, I can resuscitate you if I needed so, don't worry.
Currently, I've decided to take new career path and I'm working on building my Sales and Marketing Company. We represent 9 companies in 5 industries. It's been amazing journey so far.
Education:
Masters degrees in:
Business Administration
Applied Economics
Undergraduate degrees:
Economics
Accounting
Political Science
Minors :
Psychology
Philosophy
BDSM EXPERIENCE:
At the end of the day being a Dom/Master isn't a lifestyle choice but rather it's something that is deeply etched into the souls of some a man. I've been involved in the lifestyle on and off since 2003. I've trained several dozen submissives and mentored younger Doms and Dommed for couples and trained 2 (total power exchange) slaves. I was a Sadistic Dom for my first 9 years. I was formally trained by an experienced Dominatrix and have had several amazing mentors along the way. I've been exploring the Daddy Dom dynamic for the last couple years and I've loved the challenge and the rewarding dynamic. If I had to narrow myself into a category now a days I'd say I'm a Daddy Dom with a Sadistic side. I absolutely love to see my submissives or play partners grow emotionally, mentally, sexually, and personally. It's very a rewarding experience.
I little more about me:
I am a mature Alpha MALE type. I believe in clear roles and exploring one's interest freely. I believe in personal growth, development, and pushing my own limits. I'm very open to learning new things because as a Dom, one should be willing to push oneself as hard as you would a submissive to learn and grow.
For me the Dom/sub relationship is heavily based on trust, honesty, respect, communication, and a submissive's loyalty to her Dom. I believe that a Dom must earn the submission of his sub and act as a mentor, teacher, a lover, authority figure, advocate, and facilitator. We must use soft words and a firm hand.
What Dom/sub relationships are about :
Being a Dom is not about abusing someone physically or mentally without purpose. Punishment must be administered with purpose and for their own benefit. Once a sub has come to terms with their nature they can truly understand the beauty of submission they can feel free. However, no Dom should ever think that submission is given without some equal exchange. A Dom accepts his sub's submission and loyalty in exchange for taking responsibility for his sub and their well being both mental and physical. They serve you as a Dom because it is good for them to do so. You give them purpose, leadership, acceptance, beauty, love, pleasure, pain, escape, and order, all that they lack. Never is a submissive more beautiful and complete than in the presence of her Dom, His approval is all that she needs and longs for. . He is the filter through which the world passes, He is the ever present bulwark in her life, He is her protector, He is her pleasure, and He alone is her pain and devastation. What possible meaning or significance can the world or its option have upon a submissive at the side of her Dominate. The Dominant is her strength because, He can face the world without fear, shame, resentment, or flinching.
HARD LIMITS:
No Children, serious body mutilation, extreme age play (regression), vanilla sessions, or situations role play or other we're I'm expected to play submissive role.
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