Texting is good for quick answers to questions, NOT for conversations! If that's what you consider to be a primary form of communication, then look elsewhere for a like-minded soul.
I want a slave. I want financial peace of mind. I want to be spoiled and pampered! It's that simple! No, I am Not saying rich, wealthy, or have a big account of any type. I am saying, not destitute! If you are a superior slave and you think you've got what it takes to make me happy, drop me a note and convince me to give you the time of day. Otherwise, don't waste my time, I'd rather do without than settle for less than what I want. Your heart, soul, loyalty and dedication are more important to me than whether or not you're a masochist or have tons of money. So, again, convince me first, if you want any of my time!
And there just might be, out there in cyberspace and reality, a Dominant who likes the way I think enough to want to team up with me ... as a peer. If one tries to see me as a challenge to be "conquered", then move along it won't happen. But if one can see me as a true partner and peer, recognizing my expertise in certain things, as I recognize his/hers, this could be good!
Here is my dream. I'd love to create a poly household with a mindset oriented towards creating a self-sustaining environment. I've had a homesteader mentality, but lately it has rather morphed into that of being "prepared" in the event of some 3d world country/terrorist, messing up the power grid, or setting off some sort of EMP. Think it can't happen? Think again! Are the numbers of people wanting to do harm to the U.S. increasing or decreasing? And think about what happens afterwards!
No man (or woman) is an island, and in the event of a catastrophe, some will band together with and for mutual interests. I live in Maine, and know like minded people. I would like to find a very small number of slaves with more that fetish interests and abilities. I want to find slaves with very usable skills (as in training, professions, trades). And yes, I consider the fetish interests to be Very Important!
I will create an structure of protection for the slaves who come under my care, so that they have resources protected for them. I don't want everything someone has, unless that slave freely gives it, but there will also be some sort of trust or corporate structure that will protect the slave in the event something happens to me, and there isn't another to whom the slave is given. I Never want to see any slave "stranded". I don't want everything you have, but I don't want you to have access to it so that you can run away. I want "no escape, no way out" for anyone who serves me!
Please recall that the above is "a dream". It may never become a reality, but it is something for which I will strive. Regardless, being prepared for the electric to be out for several days to several weeks or longer is a goal I Can achieve. Is there a "McGiver" out there who could assist with that? I intend to stay in Maine, except for traveling or some "snowbirding" so someone has to be able to handle the challenges that come with living here. But you will also be able to experience the Joys of living here as well!
"You have to be willing to let go of the life you planned in order to make the life you are meant to live." Maria Shriver
TRUST is the hardest thing to find in real life and the easiest to lose! Here it is everyone.... I'm in this for the service I receive from a slave for 24/7 TPE, as well as acknowledging the responsibilities on me as that slave's owner. Needless to say, priority goes to those who are close enough to serve. For any others, you can bet your cute little ass, that if you want to only play, or do cam, phone or long distance domination, then open your billfold. What I get out of this is the real life control. If there is no real life control for me, then there is no satisfaction for me unless you pay.
I'm definitely difficult, exacting, have high expectations, enjoy being pampered and spoiled, and Love being sadistic. Don't like it? Look elsewhere. And before you ask, I have several profiles.... no secret, just wanting to mix things up a bit and will be narrowing down later. I have a frugal life, but would like to travel now, and live more graciously. Southern Germany, Switzerland, and Northern Italy are places I hope to visit again and Alaska, New Zealand, Iceland and Scandinavia are also on my "bucket list". If you have a home with the china, crystal, and sterling, then I am a Mistress who can oversee the preparations for events and entertainments. If you are a slave, you will do the work, and may be part of the entertainment. :) But since there is much Life in Lifestyle, you will also work with a number of tasks involving a home and home comforts.
My idea of luxury is being able to go to a Good grocery store, and getting whatever I want (ie,fill up the pantry and freezer)! I can have "nothing" to eat in the house, but have flour and yeast, so can make bread. I have eggs, milk and a bit of sugar so can make pancakes and pastries. I have veggies from the garden, so with wild rice can make a fantastic soup or stew.
Of course, flowers and pretty things are soooo sweet, but a huge turn on for me is to have a "project" on my list completed or accomplished. Oh gee, wait, that isn't luxury, that's happiness! Give me pearls and emeralds and win my heart. Give me the practical and help me Accomplish things and my mind and soul will be won as well!
My nickname says it all, if you are a masochist, welcome. If you're only a doormat, I have no use for you. I also have no use for liars, "do-me" types, thieves, manipulators, players, or those with mental deficiencies. I'll use you as I see fit, and I though I will hurt you, but I won't harm you. I'll use you hard, but will oversee your overall welfare. My responsibilities to those who serve me are paramount to me. I seek real and forever as Matriarch of a potential multi-slave home. If you are greedy, jealous, or overly possessive, move on. I will NOT promise monogamy to anyone! I will fuck who I want, when I want. I may use you during the process, but then again, I may not! I am Not a democracy
If you don't have the guts to follow through, don't bother me!