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"Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced." A dedication for starters to Miss kimmylane honeylove, for the woman/person she is and has come to be. Thank you for stepping up and evolving into something better, not just for yourself but for Me also. I know it hasnt always been easy but growing/evolving into something more special never is. So a soulful thank you, for all that you are, all that you shall become and for complimenting My life in so many ways. I love you miss kimmylane, not just for this lifetime for all the others to come. Slaps that tight ass, smiling and winks.
Kimmylane was nice enough to open a new room for us, based on our beliefs and standards for living life. The room is called "Life_Choices", all are welcome, however before entering please understand we arent babysitters or referees, so the room is for adults who are capable of handling themselves without the whinings of children. We hope to make it a place/room free of drama, games and the normal bs seen in most rooms. As such we are going on quality versus quantity. it may never get big or top the lists but it shall alwats be filled with quality conversation. Thank you. Raven and kimmylane.
Apparently the words contained within My profile was deleted upon deactivation of this account. As such I shall add a few thoughts here so as to try to avoid any confusion and misconceptions. For starters I do come with a warnng label and am that "man" you were wanred about. This simply means play at your own risk whenit comes to the online games and such. I dont play them nor do I have the time, patience nor inclination for such.
I am a we, which means I have 2 mates/partners and yes, we are as real as real gets in regards to life and not lifestyle. To those of you that has a need to know, they are kimmylane and gem_emerald. Like with Me, play with them at your own risk as we dont indulge the stupidity of most "lifestylers" or fakes. And no I am not their dom/master/lord/sir or such as they follow because they choose to and not because such is dictated that they do. As such we are polyamourous but not the so-called "lifestyle" poly. With us it is not about sex, scening, playing but about growing together as 1. With that said, I shall move on to why we are here.
We come to the site not to pick up people as there is enough of us and we are seeking only friends as that is the foundation for any/every relationship. Though we are not lifestyle and has no desire to become such we have met a few people here that we call friends and such.
As such, typically when we come online, to this site, or into rooms it is to chat with those who we call friends, meet new people, and to help others perhaps find their way in life and not lifestyle.
Because of this and our way, we dont do drama, bs, whining, crying etc. As the saying go; "Be real or not at all". This means we have been at this long enough to know the players, scammers and the whatever-bes. Those as such know this and should also know that we wont lower our standards from life to make friends on here. Our outlook on life is simply that we make both our own good and bad luck so the whining, complaining and drama, we have found is normally bought on by the one doing such and is simply a matter of attention seeking.
Because of this being My way, I reserve the right to speak to whom I choose, when I choose and if I choose. So when I appear not-so-friendly then understand that this is because I dont/wont/cant indulge most of the ignorance and stupidity that comes from most. So again that warning comes into play, play at your own risk because My rules for life, living and friendship are far different than most and I wont bother to bite My tongue when those whatevers decide to invade My space. Yes, I do understand room rules, and will abide by most of them until they get to the point of compromising My standards or gets to the point where I feel a need to bite My tongue. As such, I have no problem, issue or qualms about being booted or banned from a room. Such just says to Me that some cant handle what is being said, and that makes it all good. That to Me is one of the things that life is about; mutuality in regards to respect, consideration and admiration for those I choose to speak with/to.
Thank you for taking the time to read such in its entirety and for those who have taken the time to appreciate and respect what is said herein the profile. Good luck and enjoy life !!!
Raven, kimmy, gem_emerald.

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9/27/2015 7:01:44 AM

After reading several posts recently and having a feeling hell even a longing for the good old days when Men were Men and women were women.

Whatever happened in that its no longer about romancing or wooing a man/woman but negotiating the minute details of how the relationship was going to work, when it was going to work and where is was going to work?

Whatever happened in that its now rush rush, fuck suck sex and its no longer about making love and taking the time to explore every nook and cranny of your mate, partner, lover and finding out what makes them tick when you touch here, flick there or nibble everywhere?

Whatever happened in that mates, lovers, partners is content enough to value a text message or email that has to be deciphered to mean whatever the receiver wants it to mean and not almost demanding the love note on the mirror, the rose or chocolate on the pillow?

Whatever happened in that men desire their women to walk 2 paces behind and 1 pace to the right of them when walking down the street and both finding contentment in such an arrangement instead of the Man being Man enough to grab his woman's hand and have her walk proudly besides him or the woman being woman enough to simply take his arm because it feels like home to her?

Someone asked the other day about feeling too old to be on the site and I got to pondering that and I came to this simply conclusion. No I don't feel old but I sure as hell miss the old days and the old ways.


8/9/2015 9:50:09 AM
 Thoughts a flowing again.........

 Recently while sitting and watching as well as browsing the different sites and reading various posts I had a new epiphany on life and its simplicity which came as a shock but also goes to show how we can learn something from everyone and everything we encounter.
 
 A simple example of such was while in a chatroom recently I made a joke about choking on the smoke from a cigarette and someone replied "ewwww". As I tend to simply allow thoughts to flow they got to flowing how far is too far when it comes to what a person is willing to deal with or tolerate to be in a relationship. In this case it became a fact that I do smoke cigarettes and also a fact that the person disliked cigarette smoke which is all good IMO as it open and honest communication though very subtle. As the thoughts continued to flow freely it lead to perhaps being with the person but because of their standards or dislike of cigarette smoke how such would work and what would be the full ramifications of such as one or the other would have to compromise or perhaps lower their standards for living life which in reality becomes unfair to both involved. As if you look at it, once a person decides to lower a standard for how they choose to live life in a sense it becomes the beginning of the end for the relationship because they are compromising themselves to be with another. This fact lead My thoughts to flow on why relationships really end and using such as an example it would appear to Me that regardless of what the person who ended it claims it goes back to that first compromising and lowering of standards that was the downfall. Something to ponder.............
 
 On another note yet still on the same topic of standards, I have quite a few and I don't plan to lose them nor compromise them to be with someone who desires Me to do such. For such standards have I that many take offense to them and that is their right, however and in reality it goes back to "cigarette smoke". If a person decides they dislike another persons standards and their way of life then why bother trying to interact with that person on any level as that becomes a thing of asking them to change to suit your needs and desires and sadly enough it aint happening with Me. So if by chance you run across Me where ever it may be and dislikes something I have to say, My philosophies on life or hell even the fact that I smoke, then do both of us a favor and ignore Me. It makes life oh so very simple, with the less drama and bullshit and all the pettiness out of the way. While I understand everybody isn't everybody else cup of tea and can live with that, do yourselves a favor and understand and accept the same as everybody isn't going to be compatible with everybody and if one person has to lower their standards or change their philosophies for how they desire to live life to be in a relationship then the relationship regardless of what type it is becomes doomed before it starts.

Raven

11/8/2009 10:30:01 AM
 Smiles and blows a kiss across the desks to and for you so that you may feel all the love I have within for you. Happy anniversary cess/honeylove/miss kimmylane, I cant recall if this is the 3rd 4th or what have you but I do know for a fact that its still the beginning of forever with you.
 When I see that smile on your precious face I know that not only did I choose right but we chose right in choosing each other. And imagine cess "or should it be "less" for your beng so priceless?" that it was all so simple and easy, however I do want to thank you for not just being here for and with Me but accepting the boys as your own. So this in truth is a dedication from the 3 Ravens to the "priceless" one and all that you are and shall become with us. I love you forever and 2 days cess and the surprise is on the way. winks !!!!!

10/10/2008 5:08:29 PM
Hmmm here we are again miss kimmylane, Sipping on drinks just like  old times, just like old friends. I wonder if they see the sparkle in yor eye, I wonder if they know I am your guy? I wont rant and rave miss kimmylane because its not about them but us. So many times I say prayers for how lucky I am to have found you, but when I reflect on such and how we found each other,its truly amazing honeylove. I thank you for trusting and accepting Me for who/what I am to you, Nothing goes deeper  My princess, nothing, period. For all the trials and tribulations we have gone through and you sticking by Me being the woman you are I thank you for loving and believeing in Me. I love you honeylove, My princess and much much more.

7/14/2008 5:55:54 AM
 Its that time again, Rantings of  A Raven. After going through and reading profile after profile and trying to learn people, I have come up with such very interesting musings. So many talk about finding another to help them learn their submissive side. Hmmmm what does such really mean for being submissive is a trait, nothing more nor less. However after also observing in the rooms it appears that when people speak of such a "submissive" side, they are commonly referring to kinky sex, scening, playing and the likes. It causes pause to wonder what really is the lifestyle and what is it really about. I know and understand that it a huge umbrella and many things/facets fits beneath it, however should we not know what the true meaning of what D/s, M/s and BDSM is before we place such a label on the type of relationship we seek? It appears that so many are  under the misconception that D/s and M/s has to consist and be based on sex, which IMO is the furthest thiing from the truth. When we base relationships on sex/scening/kinky play, should we not also ask ourselves what happens when our mate/partner is no longer able to perform in such a manner? Are we then no longer a sub/slave/dom/master? Are we no longer lifestylers?
 A thing I have noticed with so many is that relationships are based on such and yet they never seem to last because there was never a solid foundation on which the relationship was built. Dont get Me wrong as I am not a prude or such and am all for what most label "kinky" sex, however is it really kinky if it whats normal between the 2 or more involved? Perhaps thats were most are losing themselves, allowing another to dictate who/what/how they are and place sub/slave labels on them. We are more than a fraction of ourselves, as are whole when we allow ourselves to be and can stand firm in our beliefs and standards for living life.
 Lately I have noticed the site being populated with young-uns as I like to call them. Most seeking sex or something they have no clue about. This isnt something you make up as you go along, it is simply something that is and when it comes about naturally there isnt a more beaitufl thing seen nor felt.
 I was emailed asking about what My standards for living life were, so this is for the curious young lady who was so polite as to ask. My standards for living life is based on simplicity, being true to yourself and to those around you. I feel that in life I shall become many things and evolve in many ways. That doesnt change Me, but only enhances all that I am and shall become. So the secret again is acceptance of self and being lucky enough to find a mate/partner who can not only evolve with you, but also support that growth as it happens. (Thank you again honeylove, muahz). Outside of such  a simplistic view, we live within the basic principles of Reiki, Shambhalism and good old fashioned common sense. To see/learn more about such you may want to read  the profile for "kimmylane". Smiles, done for now.


7/14/2008 5:20:18 AM

A moment of reflection and taking notice. Sometimes life becomes amusing yet sad in the same sense but again such is life. Recently I have been watching, wondering and learning to accept the fact that on the site and in the rooms we have to lower our standards to have so-called friends. Thats a sad situation as a person should be themselves always whether online or off. It causes pause for thought yet a smile at the same time as then we have to wonder how low does our standards needs to be lowered to be accepted. I am of the mind if you cant be real all the time then you arent real anytime. With such said My sincerest of apologies as I wont lower My standards for living life to fit into a lifestyle. But then again if I wont speak to you within a chatroom then more than likely I wont care to meet you face to face to speak with you. Smiles, again My apologies for the none judgemental, faint or weak of heart as this is simply _raven, nothing more nor less than My standards for living life.


11/6/2007 6:43:31 AM
Smiles and blows a kiss to lil miss kimmylane and a very Happy Anniversary to you and us. It has been a long hard and rough year but you have come through with flying colors and have grown so much within such a short time. To say I am proud of you would be an understatement as you being proud of yourself and showing such counts much more. Now to qoute Stevie Wonder, "there is something about your love, that makes Me weak and knocks Me to My feet" I love you, I love you I love you, more and more. Heres to another fun filled and enlightening year kimmy. muah !!!!!!

6/10/2007 4:22:11 AM
 Ahh such a glorious, beautiful and breath taking day. The sun is shining and the leaves are blowing within such a getle wind. Appears such a wind has carried another off and on their way to perhaps greener pastures. I wish you well along your journey for the road is not only long but hard. Hopefully one day you shall find the one who can fulfill those "strong" dreams, desires and needs you have. Good luck and safe journey.

4/19/2007 12:55:46 PM
 Success: To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is what it means to succeed.
 Ralph Waldo Emerson

4/19/2007 12:48:01 PM
 Thoughts on what makes successful and destructive relationships. After watching the site for a bit more and trying te determine how and why so many relationships online and real life goes so wrong I have come up with a list of words that shows to Me how such happens.
 The folowing words on the left can and often do create a sure fire recipe for self-destruction as well as destructive relationships, while the list on the right should to Me, be a list of what we strive for to be happy, healthy and successful in life and relationships:
 1-anger                          living
 2-bitter                          loving
 3-resentful                      learning
 4-jealous                        growing
 5-insecure                      caring
 6-harrassment                 sharing
 7-intimidation                  kind
 8-humiliation                   thoughtful
 9-belittling                      considerate
 10-discounting                 compassionate
 11-discarding                  respectful   
 12-lying
 13-cheating
 14-stealing
 15-physical assault

 I feel these words and striving to grow into the list of positives creates and enhances ourselves as well as those around us lives.  Other words can be used/added/substituted but it is basically a list of positive vs negative thoughts, feelings, emotions and actions.

3/12/2007 3:37:29 PM
 Another view from a Ravens vantage point: The similarities between life and lifestyle, online and real never ceases to amaze Me. For within life we should always seek the truth, for such is knowledge and power; the same should be also of the lifestyle and online. However it would appear that within both there becomes a stigma of passing judgement on others, yet is this not what we do anyway? For when we "choose" to seek truth we also strive to know what real is, but alas real is different to each. I have always had the thought that when we choose to lie to ourselves and others, we do a disservice to primarily ourselves as the unreal/lie deludes us into believing. What becomes more interesting is the veiwpoints of what is really real, for within the lables/titles and such we have 1 level of real/truth, but a seeker of truth cannot and will not stop there for there is always other and deeper of levels truth/real. So question becomes, why are so many content to accept the one level of real/truth and not ask questions, with hopes of finding what is really real. Ahh the tangled webs sometimes claims the weaver as its prey.

1/3/2007 7:38:48 PM
  A Ravens View: When one beholds the emotional reactions of the animal envy, hate, fidelity, love, joy, sadness, devotion to his master to the point of self denial; one says that an animal sometimes seems human. This is a mistake: it is man who is still the animal. All emotional reactions are based on egoism, the first cerebral consciousness of oneself, a mirror of the object, a freed slave. From a moral point of view, these emotional reactions are natural. But only man has in him that gift allowing him to free himself from all these reactions. To attain aristocratic liberty by fusing with the Whole love; without cause, without aim, without reward, and therfore without deception.  

1/3/2007 5:46:24 AM
 Friendship: it appears some have no clue or real definition of what the word means so for clarification purposes I shall give My definition. That is those who not only have a online relationship but a real life one from face to face to phone. Currently I have a handful of friends that I have met on here as well as on other sites. Some have been with Me for several years while some are new. All are appreciated and respected for what they offer Me and what I offer them. It appears that many on here link the friendship thing with sexual benefits. If this is you then please pass Me by as sex is the furthest thing from My mind and as it is so very easy and simple to find a "sex" partner, I see no need to intermix either. Thank you for your time in reading this and please respect that seeking" friends means simply that. No added benefits sexually or otherwise is implied. If you choose to be dense and cant understand this concept of friendship then you are deluding yourself and shall be "playing" at your own risk.

12/31/2006 8:03:07 PM
New Years resolution 2007

 After again sitting back and watching theose who desire to learn and become the lifestyle, I have come to the conclusion that most people here are hopeless. As My earlier journal entry stated I dont have time patience nor desire for those with the need to live up tp a role or a labelt they applied to themselves. As such I have decided that if the following have the words dom/master/lord/sir/sub/slave/domme/mistress/kitten/pet/brat
 and such within their names they shall be immediately placed on ignore and/or blocked as much as this site will allow. Those who which to speak to Me yet have the labels of such shall also be ignored. As My profile states I am looking for friends and have found a few here of quality and substance that I am proud to call "friend". Many may question My attitude in regards to this entry, however its My life and My world, this is simply a warning before trying to enter it. Enjoy your New Years and I wish all peace, love, happiness and realism within this New Year as Me and Mine shall remain on such a path of integrity and seeking.

10/3/2006 8:00:42 AM
Ahh drama, has to love it. This is for those who is curious, nosy or just needs clarification on some things. For starters as there is no option on drop down menu for "Me" I placed dominant. This is for you to decide not by title of what you think but by what you feel of/from Me. If you are a so-called "Domme" and has a desire to try to make Me your sub/slave then please come correct and dont play yourself in the process. Best be secure in who/what you are and not trying to live up to the label you applied to yourself as I am not into the lifestyle and not big on labels you already have one foot out of the door. If you are sub/slave the same rule applies as I am not out to control, micromnage, punish, collar another. Now if you are simply confused with who/what you are and have a hard time accepting the person within first then I suggest that you take time away from online and the rooms and try learning to accept yourself and finding out who/what you feel are your triats and qualities. If you cant do such or isnt up to the challenge of facing yourself then there is no way you can face Me. With that said, I am many things to many people as many people are many things to Me. As profile states I am only seeking friends so when I say I would like to get to know you, that means the person and not what you think you are for such means very little to Me. Now as a few have told Me I shall never find what I seek here on site or online, I dont bother looking as I have a feeling they are right about such. It appears to find a very secure strong confident woman is asking way too much. so why have expectations of another that they dont have of self eh? Any questions, dont ask unless you can handle the answer you may get. Have fun, be well and all that other good stuff !!!!!

9/6/2006 2:20:24 PM

Ramblings: IN trying to evolve into the best being possible, it appears we find that when we start developing ourselves individually, interpersonal and spiritual repercussions inevitably follows. If we start on a pthof spiritual development it affects our personal and interpersonal life. One cannot be truly seperated from the other. We are not individual personalities who somehow have or dont have a soul/core. The practical everyday reality of our lives, once we become aware of ourselves in this way,is that we are an interconnected web of diferent aspects with a center or soul. It is nearer the truth therefore to say that we are individual souls connected through a common universal Spirit. Each soul has a personality composed of thoughts, feelings, and sensations to experience the world and express itself.


8/7/2006 5:54:14 AM
 As I grow older by yet another year, I take time out to reflect on life and the vast array of people. I shall never cease to be amazed by some things that goes through people's minds. The past week has allowed Me to look at the people around Me and reflect upon what I can and cannot/will not do. I have decided enabling/encouraging airheadness, cuteness through stupidity and indulging in conversations that has no basis in My reality is just oo damn draining and counterproductive to My overall health. Eh but to each his/her own and if there is a god who protects the fools and weak then I sincerely hope he is watching to help guide such. Ahh another year and a bit more cynical yet realistic.

7/17/2006 8:05:48 AM
 I feel the need to add some things here and get certain things straight. As my profile fails to mention, I am a single-dad of 2 boys which is My pride and joy. If one has a problem with kids and/or the fact that they are and shall stay My first priority then please do not bother Me as your feelings WILL get hurt. As I shall respect those who contact Me, please be respectful of My profile and what is contained therein.
 Now as I have met some very nice people along the way both here and online, I shall add this. From those I have met it appears I am intense, lol. So for the meek and weak, please stay away as it appears I am that MAN, momma warned you about.
 On a lighter note it appears My profile fail to mention that I DO NOT PLAY/SCENE !!! to those who have no idea what this means, it is simply that what is contained in My profile under likes, I take extremely serious so its not a game to Me. If you desire a playmate/dom/master I am not it as I dont wear those labels very well. Thank you for your time and patience in reading this and good luck to those seeking.

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 Age: 27
 New Orleans, Louisiana