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After meeting several females with fake pics, who lied about their obsessive smoking habits and psychotic ex boyfriends who suffer from death wishes I came to the conclusion that most dating sites are more of an entertainment outlet then an actual plat for meeting a potential significant other, more like an online circus.
However, nothing couldve been more reinforcing to my thesis then witnessing my friend meet a female who lied about not having an arm and although such condition maybe something I may not wish bestowed upon anybody, it goes to show the length females will travel in attempts to deceive. Albeit, if I leave you a comment or if I say hi to you, it does not mean in any way shape or that I want to bang you, odds are I dont... so take your head out of your ass and come in humble and respect will always follow.
Aside, from the above... It is also frustrating how fickle most people have become, Females have 4 Million so called friends in their profile, none of which are known by name or had the quite simple but pleasant act of an interesting phone conversation, people jump from profile to profile, making single serving friends (Tyler Durden) who do not care for who they are and what they think, but only serves as fuel for the imagination, fantasies that will never come to life, because deep down inside they are nothing more then wishful thinkers instead of doers.
My Ideal Person
I like my death metal on the heavy side... I am not too picky, good looks are always a plus... in addition a great personality is a wonderful thing. I am not too fond of too much extra padding but a little is negotiable and can even be attractive. I take good care of myself at all times, I watch what I eat and how I look. I will never expect you to go the same lengths but I do prefer someone who is somewhat disciplined.
Intellectually, I prefer a female who will stimulate my mind, edgy, out going, perverse, investigative, with goals, wants and needs not afraid to divulge her innermost thoughts and bring them to life, I will not be turned off by your most sinful of desires, grotesque fetishes or morbidly evilness, nothing you can tell me will weird me out or scare me away. I will inspire you to follow them as sinful as it may be. Your imagination and mind should be your most attractive asset, your sex appeal should start at the brain.
I am not a sexual deviant nor do I walk around in leather and chaps, I do not seek those submissive to me just to release a psychotic violent behavioral need. I have noticed that most males on this site and most BDSM sites for that matter are an alter ego of the real life sissyness, they lack success ambition and goals, therefore they will opt to be someone they wish they were, and in essence morph into a Dom, an actor who has no real set of balls for lack of better words. There are also those who suffer from the deficiency most of us call low self-esteem and hide said deficiency behind a whip, feeling the need to place a female beneath them in order to feel better about themselves, and then those suffering from psychotic aggression who will per acts of violence on you as a need to fuel said condition, As for me, I am just naturally dominant, with a pretty high self-esteem and constantly confident in myself and in my abilities in all walks of life. I do not have to bow before another man between 9 to 5, Monday thru Friday nor do I have the need to physically abuse you for my amusement. I enjoy the company of a more submissive female mainly because it does not collide with my personality and I view that as a good ula for a possible long term relationship, I will not disrespect you before others and will never allow others to disrespect you before me. Tattoos and body piercings can be attractive, alternative life styles can be a turn on as well as puritan conservativeness.
I seem to get along with the shyer types, they provide me with a challenge in which I can not properly translate and define with words. I also revere good manners, posture and etiquette. I want to be proud of my possession and not to have the need to ever look else where. Although I may seem highly confident I do not necessarily seek the same in the opposite sex and my energy and confidence should serve to you as inspiration, if you have a lack of.
I chose not to be deive of my sexual likings and mannerisms, I encourage physical meeting and that I be judged accordingly and not by presumptions withdrawn from my profile and pic.
On a personal level, I am very out going, I like to have fun, I drink occasionally and from experience nothing breaks the ice or bring two people closer together then a chat over a bottle of wine or any sort of alcoholic beverage. I enjoy short weekend trips, the beach, the ocean and fog. I like tasting new cuisines and venturing into the unknown, I can be a loner if need be and have the best time of my life in a far away foreign land with strangers and foes alike. I keep myself busy and always learning.
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CS was once a decent site for meeting subs/slaves now it is filled with "curious" losers who are only here in search of material for their head fantasy without any intention of ever meeting anybody |
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I have noticed a great deal of frustration coming from female subs/slaves
The story that reverberate is nearly always the same
Females young and old joining BDSM websites in hopes of finding an alpha male, a Dom or a Master, endlessly scouting pages of profiles, reading copious amount of worthless emails from aspiring Doms and when they do think they have found the right person, he turns out to be an avatar created by an old fat creepy dude in Idaho or a barely legal dork pretending to be a badass motherfucker.
I stopped to think about that for a while and I found the answer within
A real Dom/Master/alpha male doesn't really look for subs... he can just make them
I started thinking about my prior relationships and how the subs I was with weren't subs at all. They were your average vanilla female, some extremely domineering in their professional lives most who never heard of BDSM or even been spanked and before they realized what was even happening they were on their knees, collared and leashed nervously awaiting for a brutal spanking. I have never met a female thru traditional social means that I didnt turn into a sub.
Hence, why there are hordes of frustrated, disenchanted females subs/slaves on BDSM sites like collarspace. Hence, why they receive countless pages of pathetic emails from clueless individuals... because a true Dom doesn't need collarspace to find his sub. Subs can be made out of average unsuspecting females.
To me and to the few true Doms who find themselves on here right now, collarspace is just a form of entertainment, sort of an adult circus where we can view the latest act. If during this process a female sub approaches or has the foresight to pick out the real from the fakes, then that is great, but if not, it doesnt bother us. There are plenty of females out there awaiting to be taken and to a real hunter with keen predatory skills that is a lot more fulfilling
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| Age: 22 |
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