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So, the shorter version about me... I have been playing these reindeer games (and digging the daylights out of it) For about-oh, let's see- ONE MILLION years... or maybe just 20 odd, but some days... What that means is, I am an old(er) cowboy who knows how whips, ropes, and spurs make for a fine evening's entertainment, and I have lost just about every last bit of gravitas toward the "lifestyle" I ever possessed... and I wasn't all that serious about the bells and whistles to begin with (cowboy thing, remember- we live to tell people to piss off, you see). Don't get me wrong, I DO take being in charge of a pretty girl (or girls- I'm a giver!) extremely seriously; you don't screw around when people can end up in the emergency room or psych ward, and doing this stuff badly and/or stupidly makes both a distinct possibility. Throw in the fact that I get the biggest happy face going when I have a girl in tears begging for release (of one type or another), and it's vital I do the job the best way I know how... And I have a few tricks up my sleeve. ONE MILLION years of experience, remember. Oddly enough, I do not get off on shibari, or high protocol. Yet strangely, I DO get off on TPE, and a quick hogtie or set of cuffs slapped on, followed by extremely tawdry acts of debauchery.... and humiliation. I dig dealing humiliation. Oh yeah, and 24/7 submission. I wallow in that like a Texas pig wallows in a cool mudhole in July. Did I mention I'm super-duper classy, too? It's all that college book learnin' I went and got myself. Even got myself a job, and stuff! So there you go. Just enough about me to make you run screaming for the hills. But if you, despite your better instincts, are still reading... My purposes for being here are threefold. First and most important is keeping up with friends in this life I have made over the years, and perhaps making new ones. Secondly, if there's something new I can learn about how to be a better owner for my next slave (yes, I said "owner" and "slave". I am ultra-extreme and scary, I guess), I wanna learn it. So, I pay some attention to forums, go ito the chats now again, and use what I learn that fits me. Third and finally, I am back out there (yes, that means there's a former slave and the little varmint we made together is always going to be a big deal in my life), and I will in time want to find a new slave (or slaves... still a giver!); but frankly, if you want the position you need to understand I'm in no hurry, and I'm going to know you and like you (and vice versa) before I own you (and you get owned and such) . Between now and then, I am willing to make friends with, use, boink, and beat some girls in a lighthearted, friendly, and noncommital way For the record guys, I am an equal opportunity sadist, but I am also the most straight person on the planet. This means getting beat, maybe, getting boinked.... well, I hope you dig chastity. Just sayin'. Who knows, I might even find the girl I want to own doing that. I'm certainly willing to find a forever thing, but I'm not rushing headfirst into anything... Because I'm all deliberate and Dommy like that! So, if you have something to say that applies to one of those three things, you are welcome to talk and/or add me. If not, kindly carry your song and dance and righteous indignation elsewhere. Oh, and... Have a Nice Day! An aside... Because, well, frankly, this concept wears my nerves a little (so I get grouchy about some things... sue me!) I don't do the whole "my submission is a precious gift, that should be catered to, and tenderly nurtured, blahblah.." Sorry, but if that's your thing, then I honestly believe you are the one in control, and I just don't do that. What I do is owner/property, with a girl ultimately giving me herself, completely. The submission is just the mechanism to do that. Wanna give me a precious gift? I'm a sucker for homemade peach and/or blueberry cobbler. With real whipped cream. Hell, I'll even let you out of the cage to make THAT..... New and exciting pseudo-rant!, Because apparently this can be an issue to some folks (although I honestly have no idea why)... Yup, I've been a member of this site since way back in the day. Unlike some, when I entered into relationships, I never deleted my profile here, I've just updated it as I've gone along. There's a couple reasons for that. First, this here is my online name. Has been since before some of you were born. There is no way I'm giving it up, so some snot nosed newbie with a whip and a bad attitude can take it over, and besmirch it. Not gonna happen until after I am dead, and no longer around to bitch about it, thank you. Secondly, Even when I am in a relationship (read: busy owning a girl), I still have friends here, and I still like to check in from time, and say howdy. Sometimes, they even say howdy back. Just because I'm busy with a girl, doesn't mean I'm going to ignore others I'm fond of, even when I'm not actively trying to beat anyone else. Oddly enough, I consider myself sufficiently well rounded that I can engage in more than one relationship at a time, even if one of those relationships is Biblical. All this is to say, if you get a red flag from someone who's been on this site for over 10 years, you might want to investigate further... The red flag in question might have just been hanging out with buddies for 8+ of those years while he was in a monogamous relationship. Food for thought... Enough eye rolling from me, on with the show.... RR

4/11/2017 11:09:54 PM So yeah, Been doing my "perving the profiles" thing and so many of you ladies here on Cspace are lovely, inside and out....  I would love to beat you all! However, there is one group of ladies that manage to undo whatever good will they might be engendering in their profiles, with a few poorly chosen words; I refer to the "Let me tell you why you'll never be my Dom.... loser" profiles. I get it.  We all have our preferences, Nobody is going to be attracted to everybody, chemistry plays a part, so on and so forth.  I'm not everybody's cup of tea; neither is Leonardo DiCaprio.  Or Scarlett Johansen, for that matter. But I can guarantee you, even if I do fall under your heading of the "Perfect Domly Dom", and you have a profile that says something along the lines of "If I don't write back, you were boring/uninteresting/a poor speller/any other random, insulting reason you can come up with....  You will never have to worry about not needing to write me back, since you will never ever see a message from me in your inbox.  Not because you are topping from the bottom (It is, after all your choice who you want running your show), but for the simple reason that you are behaving rudely. Why on earth would I want to be associated with someone who doesn't seem to have the graciousness to want to help preserve the dignity of another person? what would possess me to take on the chore of teaching manners to someone who behaves with such an overblown sense of entitlement, that they can claim to be submissive in demeanor in one breath, then insult members of the group of people they claim to want to serve, the next? And for the sake of all that is good and right in the world, if you think I would for one second consider involving myself with someone who tosses out insults like beads at Mardi Gras, and then names names?  Yeah, you got another think coming. Got news, all you ladies who act in this reprehensible manner.  All the good Doms?  All the ones you claim to want, that don't call you names in that first message, that do try to get to know you as a person, before they know you in the Biblical sense?  We have higher standards in who we want, as well.  You keep hearing from the ones that don't meet your own high standards, because we dare expect the common courtesy we give, to be returned.  And insulting people is not polite.  Oh, and for the record?  No, I'm not being a hypocrite.  I have called out the action, and stated what my reaction will be. I have stated why I believe the action to unacceptable. I have not mentioned anyone by name, nor have I done what I think is the worst of these sins I see, insulted anyone's character.  I firmly believe that I have been unfailingly polite in raising my concern, and not made it personal, which is of course the action that is annoying me so much. Now, I get it, there's people out there in CSpaceland that are lacking in social graces when they message some of you ladies.  There is even the possibility that some are not all they seem, or even the person they portray.  You ladies get a LOT more mail than we gentlemen do, and it surely gets frustrating, when 99 letters out of a hundred, the correct response to the missive is either responding with "Thank you for your interest, but I do not believe we would be a good match." or hitting the "Block Sender" button.  But you know what? When you DO find that 100th message that is worth responding to, part of the reason he wanted to write that note to you in the first place, is because you were gracious enough, charming enough, and polite enough to not be insulting on your profile. Simple truth, y'all...  Wanna be treated like an ass?  Act like an ass.  Wanna be treated with common decency?  Then offer it to others. And thus endeth the rant....