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Im RopeDragon, its like a rope bunny, only larger scalier and fire breathing. Yes, I can leap about, and I have great pointy teeth. Careful I do bite, if you ask nicely. Im a geek of various persuasions, who happens to be a woman with awesome hair, a fine looking ass and legs for miles. Im also poly-amorous, transsexual, and happily married to an amazing woman. Now when I say poly-amorous I mean we both also date other people because its the relationship structure that works for us to allow it. I dont see what being a worthless slug has to do with submission. Im really who wants a doormat? I am awesome, not perfect mind you or even as good as I could be, but I know my worth. If you cant see my worth, how would you hope to appreciate me, or improve on whats already there? Why would you want something worthless? But then I did say something. I just see myself more as treasure or clay, than tissue paper or doormat. Kink-wise Im a bit inexperienced so if you ask if Im into something dont be surprised if the answer is, I dont know but Im game to try.Im a transsexual woman not a sissy, transvestite or the like. My transition is slow by necessity and comfort. Also the way I see it my cloths dont define me, they decorate and enhance my look sure, but its not like I wear anything the other women at my office wouldnt, even when thats polo shirts and pants. During the work week especially expect my outward appearance to be masculine. Im still a woman, maybe just a skosh butch around the edges, but still a woman. Yes I have a penis. If you want to give me a hard time about that I recommend purchasing yourself a pure plug 2 nice steel guy, writing a thoughtful letter explaining your position out on it, and shoving it up your ass. Now I used to look at mostly mummification and bondage porn, Ive added in some latex rubber stuff and casting I still like it but Ive never done most of that, except a little light bondage. I do have a bit of a masochistic streak and have done some impact play, cane, flogger, k, but mostly in the context of an expression of power exchange, as in surrender, obey, submit. Now on erotica I tend to read transation stuck costume encasement bondage latex rubber chastity body-mod and hypnosis I am turned on by the idea of extreme play ideas, but am too pragmatic to say it is definitely my thing. Im decently good with knots but seldom have the opportunity to practice. Lately Ive been understanding my fondness for having my hair played with and similar to be something of a grooming fetish. Now that word has a separate meaning associated with abuse which is not what Im talking about. Having my hair braidedbrushed, sensual acts of beauty care put me easily into an altered mental state. Ive also noticed I find compliments for lack of a better deion mentally ticklish. I find receiving compliment simultaneously extremely uncomfortable, and also quite pleasant. Im a member of a happy functional poly household, looking for myself not any of my partners. The profile pic is a fine demonstration for why I would love a nice quality corset. The corset in the picture wasnt well made. The seams wore out and Ive never managed to repair the busks. But if you have the odd itch to drop a few hundred dollar on prettying up a girl youve never met feel free Im game. Outside of kink Im a board-gamer, computer-gamer, LARPer, dancer, Sci-fi fantasy loving geek who writes software for a living. Not an exhaustive list, but this is already longer than most people will read.

11/17/2017 6:42:33 AM Updated my political views a little. Conservative politics in the US like those of Roosevelt Nixon, and Reagan are dead. Democrats support more conservative economics than Republicans. Republicans have become the party of kelptocracy, corruption, and bigotry. Our reward for electing this swamp scum to high office is an assault on our medical care being affordable, higher taxes, wasteful spending on vanity projects like a useless wall, and non-sensical attacks on Jews, and transwomen. If you're a Republican fighting to remove the current administration because it's not conservative you're a rare gem. I don't dislike the notion of targeting taxes to make employing Americans more attractive such as through taxing consumption or balancing the budget, but I'm a culturally Jewish transwoman and your party has endorsed people who've called for my death over these things. So I'm down grading those to hate and backing the liberals & progressives because even if their ideas on taxes are flawed at least they aren't trying to kill me.

5/22/2017 9:31:42 AM So I've decided to update my weight to combat weight-loss bullshit. As you can likely tell from the photo from May 2017, while I'm not a skinny waif of a girl I'm not what most people would call fat. I'm according to the weight loss industrial complex 130lbs over weight and should be spending big bucks trying to be thin. I've also got a 38" waist which is the top of the 6" window they consider healthiest, 3" over what they consider ideal for a woman of my stature. So am I fat? Well consider what happens every time I'm helping when someone needs furniture move. Obviously those with limited mobility take a knee, and the healthy people go to move stuff. I generally take twice the load, both by weight and number move them with ease and am not winded at the end of thing. "Healthy" people who need to lose 10 more pounds are dying unable to move when I'm just working up a sweat doing 4x the work they just did. In what universe is oh god I got to sit down, skin and bones person healthier than maybe I've got more belly than I'd like but I could hit the gym after this because this is not up to my workout standards. Why would I want to lose 120lbs to be more like the people I'm working circles around? How is that a healthy goal?

5/19/2017 7:18:28 AM So lets discuss mail, and how to send mail that's going to get noticed. I'm pretty sure these lessons are even more important with writing dominant people or conventionally pretty cis-women since  they're even more broadly sought after than submissive transwomen. 1) Don't be insulting. It, negging, doesn't translate online. You can't control the rate of conversation online and especially if your a heterosexual cis-man there's probably two other guys also trying to pick someone up at any given time. Imagine then instead of a pickup situation where you're alone with someone and established your own desirability and cleverly slip a backhanded compliment past someone so they start doubting themselves and desiring you more, and instead your one of three guys talking to the same person and they're looping whatever you say if they have any doubt. You're not lowering their self esteem because the other two guys are merely by existing bolstering the pickupee's self esteem, and you're not getting anything past them because the second it sounds fishy they'll just reread what you said and say wow that guy is kind of a jerk. Likewise being overly complimentary won't work, but it's going to do less damage than going insulting. Your Goldilocks position is a sincere compliment. Since you're putting yourself out there and putting effort into it there must be something you found attractive, just state it without overstating it. 2) A first mail message should be one to two paragraphs long. It's more work for you and the person your mailing to read a really long wall of text also you want to suggest that writing you back will be fun, so maintaining some mystery is useful. In the other direction there's one or two liners. I don't think these are inherently terrible but most violate the next three. 3) Write to invite response. Consider what responses are possible to "I like your butt." I tend to be of the school of thought to say "Your welcome" back but many people won't even do that because many people will follow up by violating my first rule in this list. Compare that to "I like Firefly to", better because rule 5, but still kind of stuck with like asking a broad question about the show or simply agreeing the show was awesome. Now imagine "I like Firefly, Saffron was my favorite character." now you're opening the floodgates about how could she be your favorite, she's such a bitch which is fine, because Firefly fans are going to enjoy discussing Firefly also by introducing an idea you're proving you didn't just madlib a mail message. 4) Be articulate enough to not be totally confusing. Now a little confusing is fine. Plenty of people thought Luna Lovegood was hot but you could generally follow along what she was saying it was strange but coherent and spelled properly with good grammar. Now I'm not saying your grammar needs to be perfect, but it needs to be readable, so if you accidentally have a te instead of the once, most  people won't hold it against you, but if I need to enlist a cryptoanalist to decypher your meaning from the mangled English? that your writing you may want to proof read. This goes doubly true if you're going to spontaneously start using less known protocols. What does "hi ne wshs 2 kiss ur boots" mean? Yes with Gorean protocols, one could write "this one wishes to kiss your boots" and writing to a sub woman you're just barking up the wrong tree, but that first version is cryptic and boring. Don't be drunken hobo confusing. I've never met someone with a drunk hobo fetish. I'm sure there's porn of that, but I want to finish this up. 5) Don't write dear John letters. "You seem really interesting I want to get to know you", "I found your profile really interesting", "I love your picture", "Do you want to build a snowman?" All of these are so generic you could send them to literally every single person on this site and have them apply to all of them (though liking not on the site pictures is extra creepy) I've seen page long mails that could have been mailed to literally anyone. It's insulting, because most people are going to assume if you wrote a letter that could be sent to anyone, it's because you sent it to anyone. Now if there's no profile or very little this might be unavoidable, but if your writing to someone who bothered to include a detailed  profile include some details from that profile, this formula is though only one step better, the real goal is to add some details about some details from that profile. She likes rope bondage, talking about your love of quality jute rope for ties over soft nylon establishes both you read the profile and are taking a real interest and that interest is grounded in something you care about. I'm trying to get better at answering mail more often. With that is the philosophy of I should spend about as much time writing as the person writing me appears to have. "Your breasts look great in that corset" is probably going to get "Thanks, I love the curves a good corset gives me." Still not bothering with rude or totally confusing mails. I speculate I just appeal to the drunken hobos of collarspace.