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I'm 41, divorced, and have my two sons on the weekends. I'm 6 feet tall, 183 pounds, and DDF. I am a bit of a nerd and have a dorky yet dirty sense of humor. My indoors interests include gaming, movies (especially sci-fi), cooking (includes grilling and trying to bake), and finding funny memes to send. My outdoors interests include going to the beach, swimming, and exercise. I have many aspects. I am primal when fucking. I am a Dominant in the bedroom (I want to be 24/7 when I find my other half). I am a Sadist in the bedroom and as a means to tease and arouse my woman, and bring myself joy outside of the bedroom. I am a Daddy at all times. I am a staunch believer in RACK. There is risk in everything, and not limited to physical harm, but mental and emotional. This is one reason I am slow to build up the intensity of play sessions and do not participate in pickup play. I need to practice rope, and desire to become better at vanilla and erotic photography. On a personal note, I have tried to be tender, to be compromising, lenient. It only led to heartache. I am done with this. I will use you, abuse you, and adore you. I will take every fantasy you have and twist it into something even kinkier. The thought of what i will do to you will leave you soaking wet while at work, hungry for me. Babygirl, I will fuck you up and leave you walking funny for days, with the largest grin on your face. What I can provide:
A safe caring environment.
Protocol.
Training.
Aftercare and snuggles ( I consider it a given )
A shoulder to lean on, a sympathetic ear.
Discipline
Adulting ( scheduling, budgeting, making the calls that you prefer not to )
This is all along with the fun stuff. What I require:
That you are honest with yourself in your wants and needs, and in turn, with me.
Open communication, if I don't know then I can't help or fix it.
Affection
Willingness to explore.
Patience, I will require some time to get to know you and what you require. IMPORTANT so pay attention.
I am well mannered and as such, I will Not attempt to Dom you the moment we start conversing. Do not expect it. Do not judge my ability to Dom or not before we have communicated for a bit. You are not my sub, I am not your Dom. Otherwise you will have a bad time. I seek a long term dynamic that naturally evolves into a deep relationship. Friendship is very important. It Must be a mutual dynamic. Communication is key. I'm working on my communication skills, and at times probably over communicate. If you are not serious about a dynamic, and not willing to invest the time and energy into it as I am, then I wish you luck in your journey. Do not waste my time as I will not waste yours.
GoddessBDSM
 
 Age: 43
 Winchester, Virginia