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SORRY...NO LONGER IN MAINE. KEEP PROFILE UP FOR OLD FRIENDS WHO WANT TO STAY IN TOUCH.


Loving, pretty, powerful and creative Mistress is searching for a genuine servant. I am interested in hearing from real, committed, immaculate
natural submissives only.

I am NOT here to chat, or to indulge fantasy seekers. I am seeking someone who can join me...not someone who likes to chat to see if I might accept them.
IF you are a sincere, clever, honest, reasonably fit male, 40-65ish yrs, who NEEDS loving dominance and control, and NEEDS to labor for his Mistress’s comfort, amusement and pleasure, anticipating her needs AND you are seriously available (physically, emotionally, financially and geographically) to join me and become my bonded boy, you may send a respectful note to introduce yourself.

The right slave might earn an invitation into the lifestyle of his dreams: I will use my boy for the wide range of services a Mistress needs and deserves, and reward his excellent behavior by allowing him to perform manual and oral worship to this Queen. You may even earn an occasional orgasm, when your service and behavior are beyond reproach. Of course there will be consequences, when performance is not up to my standards.

Do Not Waste My Precious Time! If your first note is less than inspiring, eloquent, and realistic, we are not destined and I must block you- life is simply too short. Impress me. Prove you deserve my attention. Also...why do so many of you indicate you are willing to relocate...when in reality you want to keep your job, still pick up your kids after school or regularly visit your aging parents, still go to your favorite restaurant, still hang out with your friends? Where the hell will you relocate to with that offer...around the corner? You owe an apology to all of us who are looking for someone who want someone who can and will do what it takes to feel great with the life they need. You waste our time to explore you (those that claim 'will relocate')...to only discover that you are not being honest with your relocation ability. Moving out of your apartment to hers next door isn't the same, and not worth advertising.

Good luck.

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7/10/2017 10:57:22 AM
I don't want someone/live in who is in 20s or 30s.  That is younger than my daughters would want to be with.

Across the world seems highly unlikely as well.

8/14/2015 4:03:51 AM
There is such a pattern it can't be ignored.

As soon as it starts getting close, you guys back out.  You get illl, family gets ill, car gets ill...something!!!

Plus as soon as you say "YOU WOULD!!!!! do that to me/for me"...then poof your profile disappears and you realize...wtf....I just might get what I wish for.

Be real or go away and stop bothering us.

11/16/2014 6:30:40 PM

"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken."  Oscar Wilde

11/15/2014 6:51:53 AM

15 NOVEMBER 2014

Experience is the only teacher that gives the test first and the lesson later.


11/13/2014 6:37:17 PM

13 NOVEMBER 2014

Who travels for love finds a hundred miles not longer than one. - Japanese proverb


9/26/2014 6:51:20 AM
Is there anyone out there that is real....that can walk the walk.  Sure as hell are plenty that like to talk the talk.

I don't want another winter alone.  If really can relocate...let me consider you.

8/3/2014 5:01:07 PM
***WARNING:***
To any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

11/10/2013 9:00:22 AM

If it pleases you to please me, do as you please.


4/29/2013 4:11:27 AM

http://www.buzzfeed.com/sandraeallen/29-signs-you-were-raised-by-hippies

 

If u remember (even a little) the 70s, you will flash back and maybe laugh.


3/24/2013 7:55:49 AM

Being vulnerable is the birthplace of your goals. of everything we are hungry for...

 

The cornerstone of confidence...  To be open to be yourself... 

 

To have meaningful human experiences...  Those are the moments.  

 

Its human to be both brave and scared at the same time. 

 

Step up...be who you are. 

 

There is no emotion that you have had, that someone else hasn't had.

 

 

(Now, the question is...did I write that for me or for you??)

 

Our life is not a dress rehearsal. 

 

 


3/23/2013 10:38:24 AM


Find your truth. 


"There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth; not going all the way, and not starting."
-
Buddha


1/26/2012 5:27:05 AM

I don't think any/many of us were raised to follow the path we are on.  The established 'right gender roles' are not what we feel/need.

 

 

All persons ought to endeavor to follow what is true and not what is established. — Aristotle


1/22/2012 5:56:22 AM

Ever feel all alone...or that your unique thinking isolates you?

 

'Solitude is misunderstood. Most people are taught to avoid it, to be ashamed of it, to regret it. With the correct view, however, time spent alone becomes the springboard for all meaningful time spent with others. It is in solitude that the foundation for all goodness in one's life is built.'

 

 


10/23/2011 3:04:16 PM

I wrote this to someone today...and thought I could save some energy by writing it for anyone interested enough to read it. 

 

I have learned that I need to get clarification on here is when men say they can relocate.  Sometimes it means only if they can keep their job, still pick their kids/grandkids up from school, be near their aging parents who need their help ...not to mention after selling their home (in this economy)...or the lease expires. 

 

So is relocation really an option..and can you see yourself in rural Maine if we hit it off?

 

I also don't pay much attention to southern boys....it seems most of them are petrified of snow and temps that go under 50 degrees (under 50 next week, here...don't normally expect snow for a while).   So, if you can handle real life in new england winter weather, you should let me know. 


9/17/2011 5:40:06 AM

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. 柚ahatma Gandhi


8/26/2011 4:21:11 AM

I like interesting quotes, those that make me go ahhhhhhhh.

 

"When you struggle to reach for something you don't know, that's where the most interesting stuff is." — Herbie Hancock


8/23/2011 11:51:32 AM

Why should I chose you?

 

Some needs that I won't compromise:

 

  • Live in, long term (IF I were to consider a non live in, he woulb be regular/steadily available/reliable.  He would help reasonably with chores and expenses.)
  • Financial assistance (at least: reasonable, housemate amount, recently it was $500/month.)
  • Desire to serve:  I don't want to have to beat the shit out of you to get you to behave.
  • Obedience:  Its a need of yours and you take great pride in perfecting your skills.
  • No topping from bottom:  Its what I want, when I want...as often or as little.
  • It is about what the sub/slave does for the Domme, not what the Domme does to the sub.
  • Understands my desire for a poly household.  However, this isn't in stone...but it is my decision, not yours.  I would discuss.
  • Assist as desired...chores, repairs, servicing, etc.
  • No cigarette smoking, regular drinking, serious health concerns.

 

I think that is it.


6/28/2011 4:07:50 AM

The real question for you to ask yourself is "What do you really want most?", if the answer is to find a Mistress and become her slave, then I believe the slave should do everything in his power to make that happen as soon as possible.  After all, you indicate there are more subs looking than there are real Domme’s available. 

 

This is of course, if you really want it.  This may determine if you are all talk.  If that is the case, you don't deserve us and stop wasting our time. 

 

Perhaps you could declare on the top of your profile that you are all talk and won't do anything that you are uncomfortable with or probably better said is won't do anything that isn't easy.  So at least we both know what we are dealing with. 


5/30/2011 11:04:12 AM

My search is for someone who can join me, be part of my life, a life mate who is submissive or strives to be a slave.  I get lots of offers for just an occasional visitor.

 

     I wouldn't expect you to relocoate sight unseen...nor would I want to take you on without meeting you/exploring.  So if that could be an option for you within months (not years or decades) let me know. 

 

Sometimes I wonder what kinda balls exist when so many back out at the last minute...when things are starting to look real and good.


5/15/2011 6:38:54 AM

The wise leave aside fleeting pleasures, looking instead to far-reaching happiness. — Shakyamuni

 

I am looking for a life mate.  Playmates are everywhere, willing to travel from most anywhere to play.  Life mate playmates seem stuck where they are.  What's up with that? 

Queen T


5/8/2011 7:05:21 AM

I see a lot of women are viewing me.  I see dominant women now have my photo or use my words.  Come on...be who you are...don't steal from me.  If you ask, I may give permission.


5/2/2011 4:06:09 AM

Do you rememeber the song by Anne Lennox, Eurythmics

 

Sweet Dreams (are made of this)

 

Everybody's looking for something
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused

Sounds familiar, eh?


2/26/2011 3:17:31 PM

26 February 2011

As spring water rushes through open earth, so happiness flows through open lives.

 

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23 February 2011

Most people, it seems to me, are afraid to be their true self because they fear being so "different" it will make them alone, like a unicorn. The trick about being a unicorn is, when you deny who you are, you will be alone no matter how many people you surround yourself with. When you accept your true self, and embrace your identity as a unicorn, then other unicorns begin to appear around you.

 

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12/21/2010 3:41:16 AM

I find my search complicated because I want two things and seems it perhaps means two people and the one that I mostly want (or at least first) is what I am having trouble finding. I want 24/7 sub that is life mate, my confidante and much like a boyfriend (shubby..sub husband). he is the hard one to find. I also want a (also 24/7 but possible not) who is more like a slave and is slave/submissive to me but I may ask him to sexually serve primary and me. I think I want the primary first because there will be a deep trust and I know he has my back. A secondary, it seems, is more of a wild thing I have to tame.

Of course it doesn't have to happen like that and the secondary may be my best protector...but that is what my instincts say.

I had two subs at the same time in the past and felt it was a very good arrangement on many levels.

I am very dedicated in my search. I never thought it would take this long. I spend a great deal of time at it...and talk to many men. It sometimes gets confusing for me however...which I think pisses some of them off. I have been known to take notes...but usually after the phoning stage...since there is a written record here.

I am not sure if others are as dedicated...so many seem to just be curious, playing around, testing the waters, seeing if they might be acceptable.

I had one slave recently tell me that he thought that the Domme should really like the slave. I guess I don't feel that so much...I want to really like the primary...but as long as I trust, the slave is pretty much just a worker to me. He plays other roles, but we wont sit side by side watching a movie often, or ever. My primary would however.

Does this make sense to you?

11/11/2010 5:22:38 PM

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed. — Carl Jung


10/22/2010 4:15:52 AM

The journal entries are primarily prior profiles or tweaks.  I am a multi-faceted woman and priorities change.  My basic values and wants do not.

Because so many apply who aren't even close...I try to clarify to save time.  My hope is to emphasize what I want and expect that you actually read it.  Such as, why do so many who are smokers think they are special and I should not object...or age 20 or 70 think I should overlook my needs (age range) for theirs.  Whats up with that?

 

 

 You will know if you are who I need.  You will recognize me, you will sigh, you will get a distinct grin on your face, your heart will flutter a bit, you will feel a tingle.  You will know.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


10/12/2010 3:25:51 PM

I am a woman in rural Maine (not by the coast and not by Portland, 2 hrs N.W.) looking for a life mate who appreciates a dominant/expectant, yet nice, smart, curvy and pretty woman. I seek Long term and female led relationship.  Leaning toward slave over sub...but not in stone.  Plus not everyone agrees on the distinction/definitions. 

 

(No, the expectant statement above does not mean I am pregnant...it means I have expectations)

 

Of course, this means eventually (hopefully sooner rather than later, because we will long to be together and I am very ready to have a life mate with me)…..you will need to join me here in rural Maine. There are not an abundance of jobs here, much less good ones.  It is a small college town.  Mostly low paying jobs.   I am within one hour of several other larger communities (with more job choices). I expect that you will help with domestic duties and contribute reasonably to household expenses. 
 

My search has been frustrating and maddening.  Many who sound good, but in person, are not as described.

 

Some things I likely will not be too flexible on:

 

No cigarettes

No heavy drinking, heavy drugs (420 considered)

No huge extremes in weight (prefer not 100 pounds or 300 pounds). Average to above average preferred.

Be American, probably Caucasian (but not in stone)

Be between 40 & 60 ish (a bit  of flexibility possible, depending on maturity, energy, and attitude)

 

I don’t want a pain slut or someone who must be sissified in order to 'feel sub' or to obey.

 

I want this to be a need for you…it's who you are.  We will feed each others needs.
 
ANR/ABF (look it up if you don't know) appeals to me, but no real experience.
 
Poly household is definitely something I consider/desire.  (but again, not in stone).

I have a huge barn if having space for a workshop appeals to you.  Not really dungeon material...because others (that don't share this adventure) may come to the barn too.  (I rent out/share some of the barn space.)
 
I have enjoyed reading Elise Sutton and Ms. Rika.


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Tender Goddess.... I am seeking 24/7 subs/slaves age 40-55+ish range (am flexible) could go older, if youthful. I am over 50. I absolutely will not consider a smoker or regular/problem drinker or those of you in your 20's who think you are special. I own a big ole farmhouse in rural Maine and it would be hard for me to move. If I did move, it would be because you are in a great financial situation. PLEASE READ: I NEED SOMEONE WHO CAN JOIN ME...WHO REALLY AND TRULY CAN RELOCATE. I HOPE YOU READ THAT!!!!




You will be someone who is knowledgeable and extremely eager. This could also mean, having a natural knack for being a charming, adoring gentleman. I prefer men who have the veneer of influential to the outside and putty in my hands inside. I enjoy dancing (even ballroom..had years of lessons ...will work with you on learning). I can do outdoor things but not fanatical. Sports are not my thing. (so if you are obsessed, this might not go the way you want). I love to travel and enjoy the water. I garden but sure could use some help.

Your mission, should I accept you, is to recognize the snap of my fingers from across the house, come to me eager knowing that often you shall expect the unexpected. Which service will the Queen want THIS time???? I am an ample woman, voluptuous. I am not sure if I would be considered BBW but more on the tad above average size. I would consider Poly...I have the space. However, I am confident I would be quite content with one special sub.

I am interested in exploring ANR/ABF with my love. Try Googling it if you don't know, before asking me what it means. (I am busy, not your reference because you can't do the obvious...google it). It probably really only applies to someone who understands it anyway.

Update 3 09 Please respond if you get: It is not what the Domme does TO the sub, but rather what the sub does FOR the Domme.


WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of
its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my
permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum
both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a
serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal
ramifications.


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 Age: 46
 Boston, Massachusetts