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	With a vas array of knowlege concerning the lifestyle one of my favorite things to do is teach others as well as newbies. I see quite often that people that have an interest in the lifestyle seem to meet the wanabees and abusers that seem to steer them in the wrong direction and gives them the wrong impression on what the lifestyle is really all about. I am willingto train newbies as well as those that have been with others who thought they were Doms or Masters but infact were just using the lifestyle as an excuse to abuse. I am really looking for someone who is willing to learn and is looking to learn more about themselves and see where things may go. I am ideally looking for a LTR with someone but also willing to getting to know someone and helping them if they are stuck on something and just need some clairity. Everyone has their interest and desires within the lifestyle as well as lead a vanilla type life to the outside world with hobbies, jobs as well as family and friends. In any perfect world there has to be a balance between the two for things to work well so besides finding out about your interest and desires within the lifestyle getting to know the vanilla side of you is always a plus and helps find mutual interest and can also help in showing how the lifestyle can cross over to our daily activities. I am not picky when it comes to getting to know someone and seeing where things may go. All I ask is that you approach everything with a willing and open mind. I am quite open to getting to know anyone and will always respond to an email as long as it is not from someone trying to direct me to a paid site or alike. So drop me a note and lets see where things may go.

1/22/2012 6:05:54 PM

You will, over time come to relinquish control over your life, you will learn to accept and embrace total ownership.

Does that put you off? Perhaps this will

Your body and mind will belong to me, you will make no decisions, and you will learn that obedience is paramount- that process will be long, weeks or months, it will be painful, at times you will rebel, you will shed tears, you will be resentful, but you will endure, why? Because you are a slave at heart and know you must tread this path.

For those that think TPE can be established in a few days, think again, better still think several times, for a slave to accept and ebrace TPE she must trust you with her life, to gain that trust the Master must EARN it, it can only be given willingly never demanded or taken.

Still reading? Then read this:

An experianced, sadistic, genuine, Master is looking for a 24/7 female slave/slut/toy/possession/object for a Long Term or perminent TPE ie, where "consensual"/"non-consensual" will be the norm.

He is solvent, sane, educated, professional, well-traveled and has real life experiance of TPE Ownership and few limits, note FEW limits not NONE, as a slave is a valued possession, and enjoyed he is NOT going to subject her to anything that would render her useless to him or hospitalize her. A Master that understands the huge responsibility he takes on when he collars a slave.

The Dynamic

Once established the M/s dynamic is ever-present, it's not something that can be switched on or off, of course in real life there are times when it is very subtle and hard to see, there are other times when it comes to the forefront and is predominant.

A master that firmly believes a TPE relationship is perhaps the deepest bond that exists between man and woman, whilst he will hurt her body and abuse her mind he will cherish her heart and free her soul.

Despite what some idiots will tell you, a M/s relationship is a deep emotional bond between the two of them, perhaps the deepest there can ever be, but that relationship is based in trust, total trust and it must never be betrayed.

Her:

She will be deeply submissive, not just because she wants to be, but because it is something deep inside her that defines her relationship with her man.

Will she class herself as a "sub" or a "slave"?

That may well be definition she struggles with, as do I, as I see things there is no fixed line that divides a sub from a slave it is a sliding scale, one that is predominantly dependent of the levels of trust within the dynamic of the relationship, yes there are hallmarks of slavery, the relinquishment of control being the predominant one, but I don't get hung up on jargon neither shall you!!

Wil she be a doormat, NO!! How boring would life become over time, no she will have a voice and a brain.

The emotions I want her to evoke in me:

~ A desire to possess

~ A desire to protect

~ A desire to rush home from work to see her eyes

~ A desire to rape her on sight

~ A desire to hurt her ( but never harm her)
~ A desire to shield her from the world

~ A desire to watch her grow and blossom

Note 1 - Relationship Building

I expect that a potential slave will be happy to come out from behind the internet in a reasonable amount of time, by that I mean telephone contact, face to face meetings ect. - I will not tolerate endless memo exchanges or IM contact without progress towards more concrete contact and will terminate contact with those that feel unable to do this. I am ready and capable of proving who I am so I expect you to be too.

Note 2 - Relocation

If the slave I choose is overseas then I am more than happy to fund her relocation but that will ONLY be in the form of an airline E-Ticket, Please dont waste my time demanding cash payments for travel expenses, that only makes you look like a scammer.

Note 3 - Behind the Profile

Please do not mistake politeness for weakness, that would be a great error, do not assume I am a run of the mill one dimensional Master, I am not, but you will only find that out as you get to know me.

Please be fully aware that when I refer to on-line, I am not into (so called) on-line domination, I see on-line contact as a preliminary stage aimed at developing sufficient trust and understanding to facilitate a real life meeting and see where it goes from there.