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MysticMaven

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What happens in BDSM stays in BDSM I am a strong, intelligent, classy & sensitive woman & I am not new to this life style. This goes without saying but first & foremost, there has to be an element of mutual trust & respect. I have limits & boundaries & I always use safe words. I am not some bored housewife that read 50 shades and thought I needed to spice up my sex life. I have been a sub for most of my tenure, there is nothing like "sub space". When you have a connection, that chemistry with a person it is as if you are in another dimension. I, however tend to top from the bottom ( I know some of you think that can be altered) and I can be a bit of a brat.I have attended munches & play party's over the years. I even went to the infamous Power Exchange in San Francisco. I felt it was necessary to familiarize myself with different aspects of this lifestyle to fully understand it and myself. After much consideration to my age & experience, I wish to learn the other side.I have briefly perused it but I would really like to be trained properly to be a dominant So if anyone is interested in that task, please let me know. This is not to say that I would not sub for the right person. Therefor I will list the appropriate guidelines as such. I am really not into labels per say, but I have no time for those that pretend to be something they are not. This is a lifestyle and it is different for everyone. We are molded & shaped by our experiences. What we loved last year may not apply today because we evolve. That is the great part of this journey, finding out more about who you are and what you can become each & every time. I am not looking to be someone's doormat and I do not wish to be a slave. I am not into humiliation nor do I wish to be kept in a box or a crate. I am not into beatings or verbal abuse. I am not a slut & I will not be shared or passed around. I am not into public display, I have too much class for that & I see no need to wear a standard collar in public unless you are attending a BDSM function. My hard limits: No kids or animals. No scat, no bloodletting, no permanent marks or body modification.No needles or hooks. No canes or water boarding. No asphyxiation, no whipping or cattle prods. No enema retention, no fisting. Nothing surgical. No torture & Nothing forced! Soft limits can be discussed at the appropriate time.

I believe we are born this way: I remember playing cowboys & indians with the kids on my block and really loving it when I got tied to a tree. I did not realize it at the time but I began my journey into kink in my teenage years in the form of role playing. I tried my best to fit into the vanilla realm but I was constantly left with this void and I was really not clear as to how to fill it or what to fill it with. This may sound like a cliché but it all came together for me the instant I read Ann Rice's (Rampling at the time) "Exit to Eden". This was 1992, I was working the graveyard shift as a bellhop on the strip so I had plenty of time to read. I compiled every article & book I could find & started my research into BDSM.
Seek & you shall find:
One day after many months of research I came across an ad that caught my eye. It was very simple and probably would not have been noticed by the "nillas". I took a giant leap & met this person in a local coffee shop.We began a dialog and soon after I began my training as a submissive which lasted 2 years. I had finally arrived into the ubiquitous world of BDSM.
Right now I am looking for friendship & mentors, it was the main reason I joined this site. It is after all the foundation to any good relationship. It's so nice to have someone to talk to who understands. My nilla friends have no idea who I really am & I have been disconnected from the local scene for quite some time. I have no need to prove myself to anyone, I am what I am and if we have chemistry, then so be it! I am not looking for one night stands or to get laid under the guise of this lifestyle either.
Ultimately I would love to meet that special person with whom I could share this lifestyle with to grow old gracefully bound together.
Warm Regards, MM

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sassyyetshy
 
 Age: 29
 ARLINGTON, Texas