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07/13/2013 (written by atypicalsub)
My beloved Mistress died very suddenly. The doctors are uncertain of the exact cause. Anyone who needs more information contact me directly.
atypicalsub
Update (2/15/13): I'm back on CM and looking, but I am very busy with life off-line. It may take a few days for me to get back to you.
One or few line intro emails will be ignored, as will ridiculously poorly spelled emails and those filled with text/web speak - make an effort!
I'm a single, gorgeous, sadistic Black BBW Lesbian Domme, with 16 years experience in the scene. I currently have 1 live-in 'male' submissive pet (his id is atypicalsub). I'm looking for 1-2 slaves, preferably bio-female. I don't expect My female slaves to sexually interact with My male sub though you will serve Me together at times and be expected to peacefully co-exist. All respectful, intelligent, real people are welcome to apply. I am NOT looking for an on-line relationship. I don't expect to jump right into things but I want this to be a real life relationship eventually leading to 24/7 or very close to it. All of this takes time, patience and careful thought. I'm also looking for other Lifestyle BDSM couples to hang out with.
I am cruel, loving, sadistic, witty, intelligent (never haughty or snide), fun & very strange. My ideal slave(s) should be intelligent, have a good sense of humor and interests outside of BDSM - the idea of you sitting, staring at me worshipfully ALL day (I've had the offers) is both boring and disturbing. A high tolerance for pain (or at least a willingness to be in pain) and desire to see Me smile My cruel smile are musts. In short, you must be willing to suffer :-) I will love you dearly, and torment you mercilessly. I will protect you; help you grow as a person and a slave (you were a person before being a slave); comfort and use you.
I love spanking, flogging, orgasm control/denial, sensual play, some public play, chastity, creative bondage and well, just look at the list to your left ... it's not all about pain. Ultimately, it's about control - controlling your mind and the body follows.
Be sure to read the journal entry for interested slaves before sending Me an email. I repeat - One line intro emails will be ignored, as will ridiculously poorly spelled emails and those filled with text/web speak - make an effort!
Again, I don't expect My female slaves to sexually interact with My male sub though you will serve Me together at times and be expected to peacefully co-exist. Female slaves will always be alpha to the males in My household ... and yes, I'm creating a household, a BDSM Matriarchal poly-home. This household is community & socially oriented ... (horny, strange, BDSM hippies)
Also, age is of little concern to Me (unless you're under 24). Exceptions can be made.
Though I am a lifestyle Domme, I have other aspects to my life as well: reading, crocheting (yes, I love it) painting & drawing, activism, movies, working out,just chillin ... and I hate bars ... too much to write here, again, look to your left or just ask.
Subvert The Dominant Paradigm!
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Hmmm... want to vaguely test your deductive reasoning? Check out the pics in 'slave4owner2012's profile text and pics in 'waantaslave's & 'mandy37's profiles ... see if you came to the same conclusion I did, lol. |
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F'd up message of the day:
"i sure would love to be hit in the face with them boobs"
Just that 1-line. I didn't reply. LMAO ... are you serious?!
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This just in (an email):
"mistress yes it would be an honor to c** on your boot" - That was the whole message.
My reply: "Yes, I know it would be."
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Wow! Folks on this site amaze me sometimes. I ask for no 1-liner intros if you're an interested sub/slave; if we're just making general conversation, I let that slide. So I get this 1-line intro from a wannabe & I tell him to read my profile and journal entries for sub/slaves and respond accordingly. I was very polite. he responds with another 1-liner and obviously not addressing anything I've asked/said. Tell me, what kind of sub/slave do you think you'll be if you can't follow a basic, simple request right off the bat? Do you really think I'm going to waste my time with you?! you know who you are... and yes, I know I'm sexy but the ability to compliment does not override ability to pay attention, pfffft!
BTW, Happy Easter
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Even if we've chatted/emailed, don't call me Mistress unless I've collared/own you and/or have given you explicit permission to do so. you can call me Ma'am, MzYes, Yes or Mz.(my real 1st name if you know it). I understand you're most likely trying to be respectful but I don't like it. And yes, I know my id here has Mistress in it - it was just an easy identifier when I signed up. |
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I just got this as an intro email: "Hi how are you doing can I be your slave"... that's it, that's all he said ... come on people! Are you serious? |
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I'm back from a bit of a hiatus. I have a busy life off-line, what else can I say? General reminder: I don't accept chat requests from people I've never emailed, spoken to in a chat room, etc. Same goes for friend requests. |
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Been very sick for awhile ... will catch up soon! |
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OK... looks like I have to do this again. To interested subs/slaves: in your first email to me, tell me specifically WHY you're contacting ME; your general BDSM related interests and experience; and what you're looking for. Also, spelling does count. It's annoying to have to decipher what you're saying,t becse of seplling (yeah I did it on purpose). And, yes, "text speak" is unacceptable too. Show me that you put some thought and time into what you write.
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By the way, here are a few things that turn My Domme tummy:
1. subs/slaves referring to themselves as "worthless" or something akin to that. Why would I want someone worthless?
2. Completely blank profiles. It's just annoying really ... you're here to meet people, right? Well give them something to start with!
3. Someone giving their phone number, outside email, YIM, etc in the 1st email or just too early in the relationship. All that shows me is that you're desperate and not very smart about this.
4. Male Doms that think they can turn Me... no, just no.
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Thank a veteran! Volunteer at a VA! |
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It's been quite awhile since I've been on this site ... back and casually looking. I say "casually" because, well let's face it, you could line the fakes here end to end for thousands of miles. Fun news - In the last 8 months I've finally been able to get back into strength training and aerobics ... best way to work up sweat, besides strapping on a cock and pounding into a special slave.
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To those that have written me, I'm not ignoring you I'm just very busy. |
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slavesarewhite = slaves are fake |
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I guess I have to say this over and over: one liners don't get responses from me! They just annoy me and reduce your chances of ever hearing from me. |
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Just to let people know: I haven't been ignoring anyone. I've been through a minor hell in the last few months and haven't even been on this site at all. Lot's of messages to read ... |
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This an old journal post of mine but with some comments I've seen coming up, I think it should be repeated, with a few adjustments:
A minor rant about lesbians that don't like (actually seem to hate/despise) m2f trans:
How can you say that a trans woman can't call herself a woman ... remember 50 years ago when they said the same thing about lesbians? that you couldn't be a 'woman' if you didn't want cock... that you had to look, dress and act a certain way to be a woman... Remember coming out? What a relief it was to finally be yourself and be accepted. Do you want to take that away from another person? Or, the horror of being rejected just because of who you are? Do you want to do that to another person? We're all in this big 'queer' boat together people and the straight people that hate trans folks would just as quickly ship dykes, lezzies, gays, twinks, bears, bi's and whatever off to some soon to be bombed island with them.
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Actually, this applies to anyone in the queer community that feels this way about trans people. |
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OK... looks like I have to do this again. To interested subs/slaves: in your first email to me, tell me specifically WHY you're contacting ME; your general BDSM related interests and experience; and what you're looking for. Also, spelling does count. It's annoying to have to decipher what you're saying,t becse of seplling (yeah I did it on purpose). And, yes, "text speak" is unacceptable too. Show me that you put some thought and time into what you write.
Finally, asking me for my phone number or YIM, or giving me yours in the 1st email is a good way to be ignored. |
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O, and I will under no circumstances accept a chat request if we haven't emailed or chatted in a chat room!
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A pet peeve: blank profiles ... come on! I need something to go on and it also makes Me suspicious.
And, FYI I do send people random emails, either complimenting them, offering advice, commenting on something I find funny in their profile or journal and the like. I don't expect a reply and 99.999% of the time it is not a way to flirt. I'm just a friendly person. In My off-line life, I'm the same way ... I compliment, help people in need, etc.
And last but not least, I do sometimes put people on My favs list before I talk with them. This is so I won't forget to email them or forget their name. Or they seem really interesting and I want to show the profile to someone or just check in on it every now and then. If I've done this to you and you don't like it, just let Me know.
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OK ... one more time. One line intro emails will get you nothing. If I'm in a generous mood you might get a "Thank you" or "ok" from Me, generally, I ignore and delete them.
Also, if you've emailed Me and not gotten a response DON'T send tons of emails asking "why won't you be my Mistress" or "what's wrong with me" or telling Me "I want to be yours" and such. I generally tell people when I'm interested or not, so if you've not heard from Me for weeks BACK OFF or I will block you.
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Hope everyone had a Blessed and Peaceful Yule!
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Update: we've found a wonderful local 'babygirl' (AB); now a part of Our lil leather family :-) and... I want more than 1
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Happy Anniversary pet!
It's been 1 year and one day since My boy (atypicalsub) first wore My collar of intent. It's been a crazy up and down journey but an amazingly wonderful one. |
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Happy June-teenth!!!! (please look it up or ask someone if you don't know what this means) |
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Happy June-teenth!!!! (please look it up or ask someone if you don't know what this means) |
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A minor rant about lesbians that don't like m2f trans:
How can you say that a trans woman can't call herself a woman ... remember 50 years ago when they said the same thing about lesbians? that you couldn't be a 'woman' if you didn't want cock... that you had to look, dress and act a certain way to be a woman... Remember coming out? What a relief it was to finally be yourself and be accepted. Do you want to take that away from another person?
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To all subs/slaves that wish to 'apply': your first email to Me must at least contain the following information -
1. why did you contact Me in particular? be specific & honest .. even if you're just sending the message to lots of Dommes in hopes of getting a reply.
2. your 'level' of experience and type of experience, i.e. on-line, real-time, live-in, etc.
3. your views on Female Supremacy.
4. your hard limits and whether you enjoy watersports.
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I got this email from someone calling himself whitepowerisbest
"you are a niger , only fit to be a slave , come serve me bitch"
If you're going to try & insult Me, at least get the spelling correct! |
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I am not a pro-Domme; I don't want any involvement with blackmail; I don't want, expect or accept tributes. If you contact Me with this in your email, you'll be blocked. |
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Happy Friday the 13th!!!! |
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Tonight, I had a friend over. She was so impressed with My live-in's housekeeping & behavior, She said he behaved like a perfect "geisha."
I'm so proud of him! |
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I've been having trouble with the invite function for the Group; please be patient. |
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Some random thoughts:
My boy and I had a lovely evening last night. his punishments were thorough and very satisfying. I suggest if you're curious about the kind of Mistress I am, read his journal entries (atypicalsub). he cried this time ... the 1st time I've pushed him to tears. Mmmm, I loved it - and yes I tasted as much of them as I could. This was especially important from him as he simply doesn't cry.
The bond between Mistress and sub/slave is wonderful; the way trust grows, allowing the relationship to move deeper and closer even than many vanilla relationships I've seen.
I'm not looking for one-night playing. I've done it and it's fun but the true richness of a D/s relationship takes time to develop, to mature. |
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To all subs/slaves that wish to 'apply': your first email to Me must at least contain the following information -
1. why did you contact Me in particular? be specific & honest .. even if you're just sending the message to lots of Dommes in hope of getting a reply.
2. your 'level' of experience and type of experience, i.e. on-line, real-time, live-in, etc.
3. your views on Female Supremacy.
4. your hard limits and whether you enjoy watersports.
BTW to Me, oral service is not a chore, nor does desiring to do that make you a sub/slave. Oral worship is earned, a gift, not a chore. |
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I'm starting a BD/SM discussion and social group for CNY called Salting Crimson's Moon. Send Me or My live in, atypicalsub, a note with Yyour email address and Yyou'll be sent an invite to the group site (it's a free group, but invite only). Hope to see Yyou there! |
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I don't usually do this type of thing, however, some fool caling himself a Dom under the nicks Klammer and BlackSlavesOwner sent Me emails. The first saying "show me your black pussy". I told him to show Me his pathetic dick. The next day he so very cleverly disguised himself under another nick, yet not changing any other profile info, he tells Me to "lick my feet bitch"
Hmm, what else can I say ... wow, what an idiot.
To the "Doms" - I'm not impressed by you, your cock, your muscles, or your attitude. I do not find them stimulating, arousing or interesting; at best I find them amusing. If you're not man enough to be polite and considerate .... fold your message in 5 corners, lick it and stick it where the sun don't shine. Just don't contact Me. :-) |
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Again, your desire to eat My pussy for hours does not make you a sub/slave. It just makes ya another guy that wants to eat My pussy. |
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MMM, tonight My live in boy bled for Me for the 1st time. Yes, I ran the blade across & into his flesh and savored each drip-drop of blood on My tongue ... it was magnificent for both of Us... and I took lots of pics :-)
check out his journal entries (atypicalsub) ... they're very informative ;) |
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My boy is here! and here to stay! |
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My new pet, atypicalsub, visited for 2 weeks ... such a wonderful 2 weeks. his worship is so genuine and beautiful and he's so obedient! (and he makes a very pretty gurl too). he's already realized that his limits are really My limits, slowly bending to My desires... just the way it should be.
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To all subs/slaves that wish to 'apply': your first email to Me must at least contain the following information -
1. why did you contact Me in particular? be specific
2. your 'level' of experience and type of experience, i.e. on-line, real-time, live-in, etc.
3. your views on Female Supremacy.
4. your hard limits and whether you enjoy watersports.
BTW to Me, oral service is not a chore, nor does desiring to do that make you a sub/slave. Oral worship is earned, a gift, not a chore. |
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BTW, I'm usually in male submission or interracial lash |
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"There are few things as satisfying as turning a man's ass into a pussy... My pussy." - Me |
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We had another fabulous weekend with devin! she was given a temporary collar. It's so cute, with tags and everything ... just in case My pet is lost, lol. |
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By the way, whiteslaveboy is Mine! |
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I'm happy to say I've been meeting more cool folks on this site. It really just takes time and effort to weed through the b.s. |
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I recently spent a few days with devin from CM. she drove all the way from IN; it was worth it for all of U/us- she's wonderful! I just adore her **keeping My fingers crossed**  |
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If Yyou're a male Dominant or anyOone under 21, Yyour emails have been being filtered into My bulk mail folder which I don't check very often. I'll be getting back to Yyou. |
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To all subs/slaves that wish to 'apply': your first email to Me must at least contain the following information -
1. why did you contact Me in particular?
2. your 'level' of experience and type of experience, i.e. on-line, real-time, live-in, etc.
3. your views on Female Supremacy.
4. your hard limits and whether you enjoy watersports.
Also, to Me, oral service is not a chore, nor does desiring to do that make you a sub/slave. Oral worship is earned, a gift, not a chore. |
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Happy Birthday to Me!  |
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I recently met with subrina-cd, she belongs to MistressBethy. Tthey're both wonderful and I'm so happy for them! BTW, subrina is TALL! |
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I haven't been on-line at all for almost a month. I'll get back to P/people as soon as I can. |
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Some Rules
1. I don't use or involve Myself with subs/slaves that are cheating.
2. I will not call Yyou after just a couple emails.
3. I don't do one-night-stands or do the "meet me in a hotel for a quickie scene"
4. For male slaves - If I own you, I won't supply you with females to have sex with.
5. Yyou will have to meet and pass My Wife's inspection as well as Mine. |
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Mistress is back after the killer flu and another big deadline. I'll be returning emails and phone calls ASAP. |
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Ah, chastity, a subject near and dear to Me. Why do I use chastity? How do I use it? Why do I love it? Answers:
1. For tgs/sissies/bois/males: First and foremost, I don't want to be bothered with their genitals in general. Chastity keeps them out of the way and out of My sight. And although a well trained slave would not touch what has become Mine without permission, I do enjoy the extra edge of control it gives Me. Placing the lock on and hearing it click in place ... a beautiful sound, makes Me shiver in delight. I control their main organs of sexual delight - their sissyclits/cocks and their minds. I also enjoy it when I take the device off after it's been on for awhile and their sissyclits/cocks can't get hard for a bit ... it gets used to being in a certain state and it takes awhile to get them back to normal, lol. Finally, it makes them have to sit when they pee, which further humiliates them.
2. For females/tgs/butch bois: I don't usually keep them in chastity. I like them to be able to pet their pussies continuously, but not orgasm until I allow it. I want them a constant state of sexual arousal, wet. And trust Me, I'm very good at determining if they've cum or not! I may occasionally use it as a punishment for them or if We're having a party or attending an event.
Overall, I love chastity because of the control, plain and simple. |
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This subject continues to crop up and irritates Me. If Yyou're on CM, Yyou're trying to meet like-minded folks, right? So why don't Yyou complete a profile? At least check some of the "interests" sections! When I go to chat rooms, I look at Aall profiles (or at least those I don't know) and make conversation (or hit on you, lol) partially based on that. A cyber sub/slave throwing her/himself at My 'virtual feet' means nothing and it means less than nothing if you've not taken the time to fill out a form ... make some effort. It doesn't have to be poetry. Also, I don't know about other Dommes/Doms on this site, but when I see a blank profile, it tends to send up a red flag. It makes you look like a fly-by-night-looking-for-a-quickie-Domme-masturbation-session-type person to Me. And feel free to ask Me questions when Yyou write Me. This is a two way street.
I've seen a number of sub/slave profiles that refer to themselves as "dirt, worthless, shit" etc. Don't contact Me if you feel that way about yourself or your submission. I treasure My subs/slaves and you should treasure your submission as well if you want to be owned/ruled by Me. Even as a Domme, I see true submission of oneself as a gift ... a wonderful gift you give to Me which I exploit and use, cruelly, sensually, sadistically, powerfully ... and completely. Isn't that lovely? *cruel grin* (insert evil laugh here, lol) Wouldn't you like to be consumed by that? ... Almost drowning in it ... mmm, just think of it ... o, the torment, the joy, pain, ecstasy, warmth, acceptance, fear, lust, tears .. so much more. *happy sigh* |
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I don't generally accept private chat invites from Ppeople I've never chatted with or exchanged emails with already. Especially, if Tthey don't have a completed profile. That kinda bothers Me in general - how else am I supposed to get to know Yyou without some sort of introduction - but particularly with the chat invites. Also I will rarely private chat with male Doms. If I ignore or reject Yyour chat invite, please, try contacting Me via CM email. And don't ever pm Me in a chat room w/out My permission first: I hate that.
Also, I am still under the weather and these lovely random rain/snow storms are definitely helping (insert sarcasm). |
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I've been asked by a some how I treat My female slaves and what I expect of them. I am sadistic, cruel, kind, loving with them as well, but more forgiving and kind, and they are allowed more orgasms than bois/sissies, LOL.
I expect the same from a female slave as I would a male slave: submission to My/Our will.
However, they will always be held above male subs, even sissies. |
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My on-line chatting and email will be spotty over the next few days. I'm recovering from a kick-ass flu. |
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Ok, I'm going to try to clarify this one more time. When you send Me an intro email, please, don't try to impress Me but do try to make an impression. Remember, the email you send is the first impression I will get of you (that and your profile if you've completd it). If it shows no thought, is full of mistakes, is just 1 or 2 sentences, just repeats your profile or journal, you will not make a good impression on Me. And you won't be considered. I get lots of emails, many of which I ignore because the writers aren't making an effort. If you can't make an effort with an intro email, how can I expect you to make the effort to be My slave, to work hard to please Mistress and Syr? Think about it... BTW, I've been very busy lately, be patient! |
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My internet connection was down from 10/15 until today. To A/all those that emailed Me, I wasn't ignoring Y/you!!! I'll be getting back to Ppeople ASAP. |
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Things did not work out with philawhitesub, in a D/s way, but I've made a cool friend. Have any questions about either of Uus, feel free to ask the Oother, and be respectful... Wwe do still talk *hint hint* |
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If you send Me an email, please don't just repeat your profile, or worse, a journal entry. That pretty much tosses you to the bottom of the consideration pile. |
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Just got back from a very productive trip ... met up with a very good boi, a yummy piece with the id of philawhitesub on CM. |
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whoa, this is so weird. CM has a new option that allows Yyou to select that Yyou're a couple. So I checked that and it automatically changed Me to male and wouldn't let Me register as Female, though it still had Me as a Lesbian, lol. |
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So very tired of fakes and time-wasters, when I should be concentrating on sincere people. |
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Please, when Y/you send an email, tell Me more about Y/yourself than a/s/l and that you want to serve Me or participate in play somehow. I need to get to know Y/you first, right?  |
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Another lil tid bit, when sending an email, take the time to check Yyour spelling. I'm not going to beat you for poor grammar (or will I?) but a good 1st impression helps, and it shows thoughtfullness. |
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Well it's been about 2 weeks since I joined this site. It's still working pretty well for Me. A little advice though, subs/slaves, fill out your profiles with more than just a few words/sentences. I want to know more about you!
Also, I'm not a professional Domme; this is for pleasure only - as Bjork says "I'm only into this to ENJOY!"
Another thing, yes My wife does know about this - I'm not cheating and I'd prefer it if Y/you aren't, either. |
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well, I haven't been on this site all that long but I'm finding it interesting. I really wish P/people would review My profile before inititing contact! I'm NOT looking for cyber BDSM: this is a tool to find what I need. |
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