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I am Miss Elle of Glasgow. I am both a lifestyle and professional Mistress with over 6 years experience in the lifestyle. Being a sadistic Mistress is My true calling in life and I am happiest when inflicting My will on some pathetic creature who craves it. I have a small but content stable of lifestyle slaves and am not looking for more at the moment. However, if you serve Me loyally and faithfully for a whole year as a session slave then you may be allowed to ask to join My stable. Be warned though, your pathetic little cock will spend most of its days locked in chastity if you become part of My stable! Amongst other things, I offer the following services; chastity keyholding, foot worship, CP, Humiliation, bondage, sissification, feminization, online & real life sessions I know you want to get in touch with Me now that you’ve read this far, but perhaps you are feeling a little unsure of what to say in order to get My attention. So I'll make it easy for you. I want you to write Me a short essay, short but comprehensive. I want you to write a reasonable amount under each of the following headings; About me, Why I would like to serve a Professional Mistress, Fetishes I am interested in, Limits I have but would to be pushed beyond when Mistress feels I am ready, Two of my most secret fantasies. I expect about two paragraphs (two paragraphs, not just two sentences) for each subject. Once I have read your essay I will decide whether to speak to you further about your desire to serve Me. I will NOT answer one liners, or messages which have not provided at least a minimal response to the essay headings. At the very least your message should contain the word POISON if you hope to get any sort of reply from Me.

I do NOT offer or require sexual services in My sessions,
so don't waste your time or Mine by asking!


For those who have asked - yes, I have a website, a blog, and Amazon wishlists. I will happy to pass the details on to anyone includes the word CAFFEINE in their message.
10/5/2013 2:46:50 AM

Sad news about Violate folks.  For those who don't already know, it will no longer be hosted at The Big Joint venue and will now on;y be held at Ivory Blacks on the third Saturday of each month.

 

I haven't been to that particular venue as yet and certainly wont make it this month, but if it is on in December I still plan to make it my Christmas night out ... stuff the works party night LOL.  A dodgy dinner and silly party games are not my idea of a good night out when I can be in my corset giving a flogging or caning instead :D

 

OH!! And before I forget ... this is ONLY for those I have already sessioned with or spoken to for aaaages ... I am taking advance bookings for 25th Nov-7th Dec (except for 5th December, got dentist and will be in no mood to play lol)

9/25/2013 11:48:40 PM

Well surprise surprise, the would be chastity guy was yet another fantasy filled time waster.  

 

Not to worry, I have enough fun with those I already play with regularly.

 

 

9/15/2013 9:14:05 PM

If all goes well I should have a new chastity sub to tease and torment by the end of the week.  This one claims to have a PA and will be using a Lori tube device.  But we'll see what happens.  He could well be like so many others who claim to crave my control ... a fantasising little time waster.  Fingers crossed though as this one also claims to be good at DIY lol.

 

8/9/2013 12:28:52 PM

Soooo looking forward to Gay Pride in Glasgow tomorrow!!  Almost finished packing my bag with the outfit I'm going to be wearing (any excuse to dress up lol) and just about to throw in the last of the bits n bobs I'll need.

 

Should be a good day, as long as it stays dry and not too breezy ... wearing a tutu, so strong breeze would not be handy lol

6/30/2013 6:03:04 AM

Happy as the proverbial pig today  :)   Got my new 2Tb hard drive installed and now waiting for Windows to update (should be done by the time I go to work tomorrow at this rate lol).  Good to have my PC back!

6/22/2013 9:15:04 PM

New entry up on my wordpress blog if anyone wants to go check it out ... I'm on there as misselle72, bet you would never have worked that one out eh lol.  Sarcasm is a poor substitute for beating the shit out of someone, but since that's not possible online one has to make do!

6/22/2013 9:04:07 PM

Said it before and it looks like I need to say it again... 

I do NOT add people as friends if I have not at least spoken to then for quite some time!  

If you want me to add you as a friend on here you will either need to be a friend in real life, buy me a drink at Violate, been played with by me at Violate, served me online, done a couple of sessions with me, or at the very least been in regular contact for a couple of months.

Random friends requests will get rejected!!

6/22/2013 11:35:20 AM

Just found this on Mistress Review website "A small gift is a good way to introduce yourself and make a good impression. It really is the thought that counts and any gift will be appreciated by a professional Mistress. If you would like to really treat your Mistress then take a look at her "wish list" (most mistresses have a wish list on their web sites)and choose something to suit your budget and her wishes. Think of the pleasure you will have choosing her some expensive lingerie or perfume."  

Pity most subs don't seem to realise that simple fact.

6/19/2013 12:54:56 AM

Ready for the grand unveiling? What do you mean it depends whats getting unveiled??  My website of course!!  That beast of burden that I've been slogging over when I could have been flogging helpless hapless idiots like you! :-p

 

So, anyone who wants the link to see my handy work will have to ask nicely  

6/18/2013 1:18:18 PM

OMG!!  How long does it take to pixilate  a few pics??? Fecking ages!  That's how long!

 

For a start there are over 70 pics in total, then I need to sort through and see which ones I want to use, then go and pixilate all the ones with faces/identifying marks.  

 

And all so I can share them with you lot!!!

 

Do I hear a "thanks for all the effort you put in Mistress Elle"?  No.  All I hear is "when will there be more pics Mistress?" 

 

GRRRRRRR!!!!

6/17/2013 1:49:25 PM

Just uploaded a couple of new photos from my recent photo shoot.

 

Oh and for those who voted on the ebay shoe poll a few nights ago, option 2 won ... but didn't arrive in time for the photo shoot  :(

 

6/12/2013 10:12:13 AM

Okay folks, think fast...

quickie vote!

The new shoes I had on order to go with my new corset have sold out, I only just noticed the email … really should check that account more often lol.

So, I’m eyeing up 3 new pairs on ebay and I am going to let you lucky folks vote for which ones I will bid on.

Click to see

Option 1


Click to see

Option 2



Click to see

Option 3

Vote fast, time is running out on the first auction!!

6/12/2013 5:35:45 AM

Interesting opportunity for those of you who fancy themselves as creative.   I am looking for some new material for my website.  Read my blog for more information.

6/9/2013 3:16:39 AM

I saw this cool little video

today and immediately thought of half the guys I talk to on here LOL

Sorry if it offends anyone, but lets face it, it's soooo damn true!

6/7/2013 1:38:51 AM

The sun is shining, the caffeine is chilling (may the Gods bless the creators of Relentless!), ClassicFM is playing in the background (something from the Nutcracker suite I think ... how appropriate) and it's a beautiful day to be alive and well!

I'm not spending all day sat here though.  Just going to spend about an hour tinkering with my site then heading out for a stroll along the beach to take in some of this glorious weather while I have the chance.

Could do with someone to clean the sand out from between my toes after my stroll, but I wont let that spoil my day  Cool

5/24/2013 11:46:49 PM

Hello again folks!  Kiss

Been giving some though to revamping My site before I come out of what feels like retirement lol.  It will be aimed more at my Pro side of life Money Mouth and I wanted to know what sort of things to you, the viewing public at home and elsewhere, actually look for when you look at a Pro Domme website.  I'm not on about those who just like to browse the gallery section and have a little free wank Tongue Out , I'm on about those who seriously look in search of someone to make a booking with.  

Why is it I'm never satisfied with my site as it is, no matter how much work gets done on it???? lol  

I'm not a perfectionist, I'm not!   Okay, maybe just a little bit of one  Cool

5/10/2013 2:19:05 AM

Since the lovely admin people here are working so hard to keep all the fakes and scammers off this site *ahem* and have seen fit to delet most of my blog links on here and threatened to close my account if I persist in posting links to it, I'll just copy and paste the latest couple of entries ... surely there is no harm in recycled blog entries!


Soooo, the big question is…

Has absence made the heart grow fonder, or has it been a case of “out of sight, out of mind”?

I know from the messages I receive from my followers/fans/whatever on CM that I have been missed by some at least, in fact some were even worried about me … wasn’t that sweet of them? Little arse kissers!

Anyway I thought I would let you all know that I am still alive and kicking, when I get the chance. I have simply been taking some time out to deal with boring vanilla stuff. Yes, even the great Miss Elle still has real shit to deal with from time to time lol.

I still attend Violate every second month and am looking forward to seeing some of you there in June. I will be there with a friend of mine (Miss Luna), a ‘nilla friend (who I suspect might not be as vanilla as he makes out after the last time I took him up), and one of my slaves (who is dues to receive his first public caning that night). I wish I could dress up in the ComCon theme of the night, but, since I can’t find a suitable outfit for the character everyone says I would be most like (Harley Quinn), I strongly suspect I’ll be in my usual mix of satin/lace/leather/velvet. I would love to go in my beloved jeans, Doc Martens, and baggy t-shirt lol, but I would spend the whole night outside if I did that … and that would be no fun at all.

I make no promises as to when the next update will be, but I will certainly try to make it a lot sooner than this one!

As always folks … have fun and play safe x


you lot are spoiled

Two blogs in the same week … you lucky lot lol.

Just a little quickie to announce my first visit to Rebound this Saturday. Yes, Miss Elle is finally going to Rebound! I’ve finally given in and agreed to go up and check it out. I’m looking forward to meeting up with a few familiar faces as well as meeting some new ones.

I’ll be taking up Miss Luna and my usual slave escort … and a bottle of Malibu lol. And the first one to slag me off for drinking Malibu and Diet Coke is going to get a flogging ;-)

See you there!

4/6/2013 9:23:41 AM

Ok, change of plan ... found a problem with the corset so changed my whole outfit lol.  If you have been paying attention to my pics you will still be able to spot me though  ;-)

4/6/2013 5:45:39 AM

Time for some for some much needed R&R tonight at Violate!  Been a stressful and hectic few weeks and I want to say thanks to all those who missed me while I was absent from the WWW.

Everything will be finalised this weekend so I am going to just kick back tonight and enjoy myself.  Not sure if I will play or not but I might take My bag of tricks (got a bag like Mary Poppins me lol, but mine looks nicer) and see how I feel.

Oh and if anyone feels like buying me a drink they are more than welcome to do because boy do I need it!!  Feel free to say hi even if you don't wan to buy a drink ... I wont bite you  ;-)   I'll be in a long black velvet skirt, and black satin corset.  Thinking about wearing my hair down this time for a change.  Might be hanging around the bar tonight as I'm bringing a friend who isn't sure how he feels about going through to "the back room" yet lol.

 

3/17/2013 2:03:42 PM

Going to Glasgow to play tomorrow for a couple of hours with an old sub of mine.  Should be fun, and will certainly be a nice little breather from all that's going on at home just now!

I'm thinking about treating Myself to something nice on the way home but I want you to guess what it is.  Let's see how many of you guess right.  

Here are the options...

  • some new voiles for My boudoir
  • a new computer game
  • some new nail polish
  • some Yankee candles

Let's see how well you know Miss Elle by now!  Wink

2/27/2013 11:40:53 PM

I don't get this place!  you put up an add full of hints ant tributes, wishlists etc and you get people contacting you claiming to want to serve ... either financially or not. 

But when you put up an add stating that you are looking for a partner they all run a mile and head for the hills ... except for those who have clearly not bothered to read the profile, because they do not match the specified criteria. 

Where are all those so called genuine guys now then, eh???  And no, I'm sorry, but having a face photo or going on webcam does not prove your intentions are genuine.  All that proves is that you don't mind your face being linked to a BDSM website.

2/25/2013 11:22:41 PM

Updated profile. 

It should even be admin-friendly this time lol

2/19/2013 11:23:29 AM

Oh my god!!  Just had my knuckles rapped by admin on here for posting links to my blog! WOW!

Guess I must have pissed someone of somewhere ..... again!  Kiss

 

2/8/2013 8:48:07 PM

Happy Birthday to Me, Happy Birthday to Me, Happ.... oh to hell with it!! I'm too feckin tired lol

2/2/2013 2:01:05 AM

Will be at Violate in Glasgow tonight with my slave and a friend, feel free to say hello if you see me there.  I think I'll be wearing my leather trousers and purple satin top, if I change my mind I'll let you all know  :-)

Oh, and I'll have my bag of tricks with me should anyone feel brave enough to play  ;-)

1/2/2013 11:04:24 PM

A public safety announcement .... (click here)

12/8/2012 3:08:24 PM

I'm curious, are men basically ALL pricks, or is it just the ones I like that turn out that way?

12/8/2012 7:19:46 AM

"the person asking wanted to know if women still expect to have the male pay for the date, even though their own preference was to go dutch."

Read more here...

12/7/2012 9:26:11 PM

"...cool outfits of both the staff and the gentry,  and the fact that the Mistress of the house got to dish out orders and punishments!"

Want to know what I was talking about? 

Well click here then!

 

12/6/2012 4:14:19 AM

This only really works with subs that can be trusted, or if you have expensive technical equipment which allows you to do it through the internet … if only I had that kind of set up!!

However, I am lucky enough to have a couple of subbies that I can trust.

One of which I recently had an interesting phone call with ...

 

Read the rest of the blog ...

... HERE!

11/14/2012 1:14:28 AM

For the benefit of those who don't read My blog (shame on you!!) ...

My Christmas wishlist!

 

11/13/2012 2:35:07 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/13/achoo/

11/12/2012 1:11:01 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/12/thats-better/

11/9/2012 9:03:25 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/09/its-here/

Finally!!

11/9/2012 4:35:47 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/09/bad-parents-good-dommes/

11/6/2012 1:36:20 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/06/rant-time/ 

11/6/2012 9:06:02 AM

Ok seeking advice again ...

Lokoing for a good free photo editing program.  Currently using Picasa 3.  Good enough, but I need to go online to use a couple of the features I use regularly, namely the blurring out of specific areas.

Does anyone know of a program that will allow to me to use a range of features without having to go online to do it?

And while I'm here...

looking for advice on Flickr.  I know I can upload pics for free etc, but I want to make sure I hit all the right buttons to make sure that they are not available in regular searches.  I don't want anything "offensive" to upset those of a delicate nature out there in 'nillaland lol.

11/6/2012 7:41:50 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/06/hmm/

11/6/2012 3:09:20 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/06/that-bitch/

Photos of gemma's new Violate outfit

11/5/2012 12:51:15 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/05/test-results/

11/4/2012 3:22:56 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/04/damn-it-janet/ 

11/4/2012 2:20:26 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/04/a-few-words-from-rachel/

11/3/2012 7:55:35 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/03/its-nearly-that-time/

11/3/2012 3:09:48 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/03/almost-last-minute-desperation/

11/3/2012 2:11:25 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/03/tis-not-fair-i-tell-ya/

11/1/2012 10:48:43 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/11/02/new-dress/

Oh, and I added a pic of gemma in the strait jacket and isolation hood to the previous post.  Enjoy!

10/31/2012 4:44:02 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/31/question-about-lights/

 

10/31/2012 2:08:08 AM

Have you any idea how hard it is to try and hunt down a specific site so that you can buy a specific flogger when you have no idea of the sites name since the one you got was a gift and you are no longer in contact with the person who gave you it????

I could be here all day at this rate!!

So why am I putting Myself through this nightmare?  Am I secretly an emotional masochist?  Nope!  I want to get an identical flogger to one I already own so that I can try and do some Florentine flogging before December Violate.  Really need two floggers the same weight at the very least, but I want them to be exactly the same floggers. 

gemma has offered to let Me play with her at the club, even though I've warned her I will have had a couple of drinks before I get there ... I have another Christmas do the same night but will be slipping out early to go to Violate.  So I want to make it a night to remember!

10/30/2012 3:33:42 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/30/change-of-plan/ 

10/30/2012 1:55:00 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/30/willow-rod-tested/ 

10/29/2012 3:24:15 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/29/new-shoes-nope-new-coat/

10/28/2012 4:36:14 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/28/more-photos-2/

10/22/2012 12:18:53 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/22/oh-how-mature/

10/16/2012 4:15:45 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/16/im-knackered/

10/15/2012 9:59:24 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/15/product-testing/

I need help!  Save the sarcastic comments to that one lol.  I need help testing out a new cane from a company that wants feedback on it.  Who's up for it??

10/15/2012 3:45:25 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/15/new-photos-2/

 

10/14/2012 2:21:08 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/14/i-hate-holidays/

 

B O R E D ! ! !

B O R E D ! ! !

B O R E D ! ! !

 

OH! Did I mention I'm bored?

10/11/2012 1:11:03 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/well-can-you/

The photo says it all!   :-)

10/10/2012 6:08:28 AM

Been fiddling about with My blog and About.Com page during My lunch.  Been trying to smarten them up a bit and make them look a bit neater.  Also changed My twitter details, but still to upload a pic there.

Check 'em out and let Me know what you think.  Any better?

10/10/2012 1:35:50 AM

Want to know what I do when I'm not at work or dealing with you lot?  Read on McDuff, and the rest of you...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/10/a-day-off/

10/8/2012 11:41:37 PM

Blog heading says it all really...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/09/october-violate-aftermath/

10/5/2012 1:41:52 AM

A bonus blog entry...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/05/omg-how-sad-am-i/

Includes a picture of a most unlikely Domme lol

10/5/2012 12:39:11 AM

Where have all My lovely little foot freaks gone??  Have the nasty scary sissies scared you all away??  Well let's face it some of them can be pretty scary.  Hairy chest in a nice satin bra???  No!!  Just plain WRONG!!

Anyway, I want My foot worshippers back, I miss you.  My poor little piggies are feeling neglected  :-(


Oh and if anyone here is going to Violate in Glasgow tomorrow night, feel free to say hello.  W/we should be easy enough to spot, gemma will be wearing a PVC lockable maids dress for a start lol.  Still not sure what I'm going to wear!

Anyway, W/we would both love to see you there!

10/5/2012 12:35:14 AM

A bit of frivolous Friday fun for all My little freaks...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/05/tfifriday/

 

10/4/2012 12:09:42 AM

Good news on the diet/exercise front...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/04/maybe-this-time/

Not before bloody time lol

10/3/2012 9:52:17 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/10/03/violate-time-again/

 

Help Me dress gemma for a night out.

9/29/2012 3:29:17 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/29/heres-to-will-wright/

madiga noboo!  And if anyone actually understands that I'm fucked lol.

9/27/2012 11:22:00 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/28/50-shades-of-red/

lynne's shopping trip

9/27/2012 2:53:59 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/27/genuine-vs-fake/

here we go again!

9/26/2012 11:31:14 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/27/lets-go-shopping/

sissy on the loose later!

9/26/2012 12:35:17 AM

Define "later"  :-)

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/26/as-promised/

9/25/2012 1:54:15 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/25/bottoms-up/

and more to come later :-)

9/24/2012 12:38:25 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/a-little-something-extra/

a little video in there for your amusement if you have a account.

9/24/2012 8:17:34 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/a-quiet-weekend-away/

Tomorrow I have a little visual treat for you all, yes, I have more photos!  :-)

9/20/2012 1:36:11 AM

In conclusion...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/20/what-a-night/

9/18/2012 12:35:25 AM

I'm running late today, so if you have contacted Me over the past couple of days i'll get back to you tonight as I just simply don't have time at the moment.

But to keep you amused in the meantime...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/18/so-who-did-better-on-the-forced-bi/

Enjoy!  I know I did  ;-)

9/13/2012 3:28:43 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/13/bored-bored-bored-again/

Well I am!!  :-(

9/11/2012 11:29:30 PM

I laughed out loud in the middle of the street when I read the text about this one...

 

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/12/cant-take-that-bitch-anywhere/

9/9/2012 5:05:56 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/09/gemmas-in-trouble-again/

9/5/2012 11:41:14 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/05/customer-services-skills/

Apparently Mine are questionable, so it would seem.

9/4/2012 4:51:38 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/04/gemma-needs-a-cock-to-suck/

This shit could just be about to get interesting ;-)

9/3/2012 12:10:22 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/03/wheres-the-pod/

Which version of the film do you prefer, just out of curiosity, '56 or '78?

9/2/2012 1:34:42 AM

By yon bonnie banks, an' by yon bonnie braes ...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/09/02/by-the-bonnie-banks-of-loch-lomond/

8/30/2012 3:31:15 AM

Like the title says, quit your bitching!

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/30/quit-your-bitching-bitches/

8/28/2012 11:49:37 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/29/inappropriate-pics-on-bdsm-sites/

Am I the only one to have a problem with this?

8/24/2012 9:39:06 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/25/minds-wandering-again/

8/23/2012 10:45:42 PM
Going to work early sucks! And that's official! Thank the Goddess I'm on holiday next week. Lots of lazy mornings planned :-)
8/21/2012 9:32:07 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/22/shapewear-sissy-sub/

yes katie, it's you I'm on about  ;-)

8/21/2012 12:14:44 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/21/im-baaaack/

Hello boys (and girlies), I'm baaaack!

8/18/2012 12:17:52 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/18/leave-of-absence/

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/18/a-few-new-additions-to-my-amazon-list/

8/16/2012 10:36:39 PM

Well I tested the headset

that anonymous bought Me.

8/15/2012 11:42:24 PM

Will whiny cunt ever learn?

What do you think?

8/15/2012 12:39:14 PM

I got soaked!

And it’s not funny!  I don’t mind a bit of rain but that was ridiculous  :-(

8/14/2012 11:07:47 PM

gemma’s boring business trip

Being the kind soul that I am (stop that laughing at the back of the class, whiny cunt) I set a simple little task for gemma to ease her boredom while away.

Click on te link and read all about it, as well as having a girlie giggle at the photo  ;-)

8/14/2012 10:55:46 PM

My poor little feet!

8/14/2012 12:47:22 PM

Now, you all know I love it when you buy Me gifts to show your affection and devotion, but I really like to know who is buying Me them as well.  So who bought Me the headset??

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/14/a-new-admirer/

8/14/2012 9:53:29 AM

Want to know what it's like to experience long term chastity from a slave's point of view?  Read this and perhaps it will shed some light on the matter.

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/14/excerpts-from-a-slaves-email/

 

8/12/2012 10:19:30 PM

Well it's been a while, but I've just had yet another tosser think I will add him to My friends list just because he sends Me a friend request!

I'm not sure how many times I need to say it, but I positively will NOT add anyone unless the they have served Me in some way, or I have at chatted with them for a reasonable period of time.

 

8/12/2012 8:20:22 PM

I was going to change the title of this next blog entry when I realised what I had actually put since it was pretty much a case of thinking out loud, but what the hell!!

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/13/pity-gemma-isnt-here-for-me-to-jump-on/

8/12/2012 2:40:22 PM

Another CM journal exclusive!  God I’m spoiling you lot tonight lol.

First off, if any of you want to be considered for the blog photos I want you to include the words “For Mistress Elle” in the picture.  This can be written on your body (NOT your cock, it wouldn’t fit on such a small space), or on a sheet of paper and placed in the picture.

Now the main reason for this entry ...

I have a collaring anniversary coming up and My little slave asked Me an interesting question.  It wants to know if there are any anniversary traditions, such as those with wedding anniversaries etc.  I personally have no idea, but I would love to find out if any of you have any ideas/experiences of this.  This will be O/our first anniversary although it has served Me for just over two years now.

8/12/2012 1:35:20 PM

For a change here's an entry that contains no links to either My blog or My websites, or anywhere else for that matter!  This one is just for you lot ... aren't I kind?

Following My recent fun with whiny cunt I a looking for new photographic subbies that want their 15 minutes of fame.

Let Me just point out though that I will not be taking photos of anyone unless they book an evening session!  What I am after is photos that you will take of yourselves and send them to Me to use on My blog.  Feel free to send some for My own personal amusement as well though as I need a good laugh when gemma is away.

Be imaginative, be creative ... do NOT just send me photos of your pathetic little cocks in chastity devices.

Those who impress Me will be shown on the blog in due time and will have a little text written about them to go along with it.

So what are you waiting for?  We all know how attention seeking you little subbies can be, well here's your chance!

 

8/10/2012 5:04:59 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/10/oh-heck/

Oh calamity! Woe is me!  or something like that  :-)

8/10/2012 2:32:23 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/10/1-down-2-to-go/

I know a certain little chicken-shit who won't be checking this entry LOL

8/9/2012 1:01:37 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/09/photo-of-my-pussy/

A very personal photo indeed  ;-)

8/7/2012 10:39:40 PM
Looking like another beautiful day here in sunny Scotland! And for a change I mean it lol. Hopefully it will still be sunny when I finish work. I'm always in a better mood when it's nice outside. Having said that, I also enjoy a good thunderstorm :-)
8/7/2012 9:19:43 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/08/stocks-photo-from-august-violate/

A little piccie from the weekends outing to Violate for your amusement.  Enjoy!  :-)

8/7/2012 6:39:10 AM

A little bit about how gemma got on with her public initiation at Violate ...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/07/violate-aftermath/

8/7/2012 6:27:27 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/07/another-day-another-attempt/


For those who have been asking about how I'm getting on (or not as is the case) with My diet.

And to those who have asked why My last blog entry link came up with a bunch of numbers ... I have no idea!  The only thing I did different was type it on another computer, but I'm not sure if that would have affected it, or why. 

8/3/2012 2:57:33 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/03/322/

8/1/2012 11:57:35 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/08/02/another-day-another-photo/

Getting it done before I leave for work today in case today is anything like yesterday!

7/31/2012 4:13:35 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/31/oh-kinckers/

pretty pink panties on a big baby

7/30/2012 12:34:59 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/new-pics-of-whiny-cunt/

A pic a day keeps the cretin away LOL

7/27/2012 11:52:08 PM

Looking forward to Violate next weekend  :-)

I'm looking for a few brave souls to volunteer for a caning when I'm there.  As well as a couple of lovely little foot freaks to ease My tootsies as I'll be wearing heels all night, and I hate having to wear heels for more than an hour or two.

If you want to say hi and/or be of use to Me in any way on the night drop Me a little introduction on here so I know who you are first. 

7/24/2012 9:42:39 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/24/baby-pics/

7/21/2012 1:39:12 AM

Getting excited about August ... I'll be taking gemma to the Glasgow Violate for her first public outing!  W/we will be meeting up with a friend of mine and her sub, Redstriper and his fem sub, and also a snivelling little whiny cunt from on here who is desperate to meet up with Me in person (been chatting on here for ages).

If anyone else wants to pop along and say hello you are more than welcome.  Oh and as a point of interest ... I'll be taking My canes with Me, but be warned, since I'll be playing purely for fun I call the shots ... so don't offer your ass to Me if you can't handle pain!! 

I'll also be up for some foot worship if anyone wants to smother My tootsies with kisses or a foot rub.

4 August, Violate.  Google it for directions and dress code etc if you've never been before.

7/20/2012 10:03:13 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/20/bloody-ebay/

I know someone else who will be thinking "bloody ebay", but for a different reason lol.

7/19/2012 9:24:34 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/19/nowt-as-fickle-as-folk/

7/18/2012 2:40:08 PM

Quick question ... does anyone on here use IMVU?  I've been told by a friend that I would like it, but I'm not sure how many people actually really use it for chat since I have never been asked if I'm on it other than by the few vanilla contacts I still chat to.

7/16/2012 11:40:32 PM

I know I said I wasn’t going to post any more direct links here, but since a few people seem to be having trouble accessing the blog without the direct links ...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/17/pretty-in-pink/

7/13/2012 9:51:24 PM

New post up on wordpress ... got a few pics of gemma up, and one of a cute/funny cat.  I'm not sure how to add pics to entries on here, but if you want to see a power hungry cat that made me think "Mr Tinkles!!" then go check my blog.

7/10/2012 12:09:12 AM

Decided not to just stick another link in for my wordpress blog.  There is a new entry up, if you want to know exactly what it says go check it out.

But in essence it explains to those who seem to think I'm contradicting myself why I am not.

The main "contradictions" I get accused of from time to time ...

  • "no sex in sessions" yet I openly describe how gemmaf and I have been pretty 'intimate' ... fully explained in the blog entry.
  • "no sessions at home" yet I have a second maid who I will soon be training up as a sissy ... fully explained in the blog entry.
7/3/2012 5:42:21 AM

I've added a new pic on here, one of me taking gemma a walk in the woods at the weekend.  I'll get her to add it as her profile pic I think.

7/3/2012 4:56:46 AM

Just had some fun spending someone else's money.  You can read about it here ...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/shopping-spree/

7/3/2012 2:12:51 AM

Okay, that's part one up ...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/weekend-away-part-one/

7/3/2012 1:29:46 AM

Just writing up my wordpress blog entry about the weekend gemma and I had.  It's already massive and I haven't even finished describing the night we arrived at my friend's place yet lol.  I think I might just split it into two entries.

Oh, and for anyone looking for sessions I am at home all day today for online sessions

, and can do real life sessions on Thursday (although I'm still available every evening, except Wednesday, subject to the studio being available).  As usual I require 2 hours notice, and tribute to be paid in advance for online sessions ... 24 hours notice for real life, 50% deposit to be paid unless you book using the booking form on my website

.

7/2/2012 1:00:28 AM

PayPal links now working on my site at http://misselle72.moonfruit.com/


 So dig deep and start donating to my home & lifestyle improvement fund  :-)

 

6/28/2012 4:06:28 AM

Completely updated my list of interests on here for those who missed my A-Z ... or those who were too damn lazy to read it  :-P

There will be a change of venue for the Friday night pedicure this week as I will be visiting friends down in Dumfires & Galloway.  However, gemma will still be painting my piggies with whatever colour wind the most votes this week.  But due to the fact I'll be leaving in the afternoon I will stop counting votes at noon GMT in order to pack the nail polish in with the rest of my stuff.

 

6/26/2012 12:51:34 AM

The paypal buttons don’t work (yet) so don’t bother moaning at Me about it, I’m working on it. Apart from that ... here is My little site explaining more in depth about what I do in terms of online/distance domination.  Enjoy!

 

http://misselle72.moonfruit.com

6/26/2012 12:26:15 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/gemmas-induction-to-service/

Read all about gemmaf's first night as My sissy maid.

After she had completed her duties she was allowed to paint My toe nails as a small reward.

she will have another chance to show her worth when W/we go visiting My friend at the end of the week.  she will be expected to serve as personal maid to Me as well as domestic maid to My friend, and waitress to both of Us. 

Fun, fun, fun!  ;-)

6/24/2012 10:59:10 AM

Getting gemma to take me to the cinema tonight.  Quite looking forward to it, I do love going to the cinema which is something outside of D/s that we have in common.

Right, I'm off to get ready, I'll be back online tomorrow, so if anyone wants an online session let me know as I'll be available all day.

6/23/2012 5:46:23 PM

My latest little late night rant ...

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/24/interesting-tips-on-how-to-feel-less-tired-at-work/

6/23/2012 4:47:15 PM

Okay, it seems some people need to be taught how to approach a Mistress online. 

  • No messages that do not contain proper sentences
  • No messages which do not begin with a proper introduction
  • No messages that are disrespectful
  • No messages which indicate you have only looked at the photos and not even read the profile content which someone has taken the time and made the effort to put there!!

 

Example of what not to write -
"hey there, nice feet"

How that simple statement should have been written -
"Good evening Mistress, i just wanted to let you know that I really like the photo You have of Your feet.  They look amazing and a slave would be honoured to be at the feet of a Professional Dominatrix such as Yourself.  Respectfully your, (your name here)"

Much better, and more likely to get a reply.

6/22/2012 11:02:32 AM

All the votes are in and counted ... purple it is!

And for those of you brave enough, or just plain curious enough ... I have some free time next week if anyone wants to book a session or take Me to lunch/dinner.  So far I have nothing planned for Monday (all day), Tuesday (all day), Thursday evening, or Friday lunchtime, Sunday (all day). 

The same days/times also apply for those looking for online sessions with the addition of Thursday daytime, and Friday morning.

6/22/2012 12:52:02 AM

Just to let you know, the highest vote so far is for purple polish tonight.

6/22/2012 12:08:54 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/21/a-colourful-combination/

6/21/2012 11:45:41 PM

Oh and a little reminder, votes need to be in by 6pm tonight for the Friday Night Pedicure polish colour :)

 

6/21/2012 11:42:30 PM

Why is it that despite my website clearly stating "NO WITHHELD NUMBERS" some morons seem to think I will answer the phone when they withhold their number??

I get almost as many withheld number as I do genuine calls, and it is seriously starting to piss me off!

READ THE FUCKING INSTRUCTIONS!!

I didn't go to all the effort of creating a contact page just for it to be ignored!

6/20/2012 12:17:18 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/20/well-its-official/

What a slut gemmaf is LOL

6/18/2012 12:44:14 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/18/new-photos/

6/18/2012 12:14:30 AM

New pics up for anyone who's interested.

6/17/2012 7:22:51 AM

Can someone tell me what this is Latin for ... dolor te liberum

 

6/17/2012 5:18:43 AM

Holy shit!!  Americans have to eat fake haggis because the good stuff is illegal!! 

Well, well, you learn something new every day after all LOL

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/17/omfg/

6/17/2012 4:59:38 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/17/life-can-be-a-bit-of-a-bitch-at-times/

I have been told by a certain sub on here that the link I sent him to my little blog wasn't working for him, no matter what he did with it.  Well, dear whiny cunt (since that what your Mistress insists on calling you lol) try clicking the links on my journal here (right click on the link and select open in new tab or new window, that way you won't lose your current page), they seem to work just fine, and since no one else has reported any problem with it I think you are just being simple minded about it and a bit of a technophobe  :-P

 

6/16/2012 11:44:35 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/16/fathers-day/

6/16/2012 12:04:28 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/16/p-is-for/

Caffeine kicking in ... WOO HOO :-D

6/15/2012 9:10:22 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/16/i-need-caffeine/

Caffeine, a frying pan to the back of the head, whatever!!  I NEED SLEEP!!  My body hates me, I'm sure of it  :(

6/15/2012 1:08:45 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/15/diet-day-16/

 

Oh and by the way the winner so far for the Friday night pedicure nail colour is red.  You still have time to get your votes in though!  What colour do you want to see on my toe nails?

6/15/2012 12:49:04 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/15/o-is-for/

New addition to this entry, a little something extra I didn't put in the original entry on here.

 

6/14/2012 12:17:51 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/14/another-little-story-for-you/
Possibly of interest to CDs, TVs, sissy subs etc

Enjoy anyway!

6/10/2012 2:27:21 AM

Been giving some further thought to my 'ideal' personal slave.  Can't think of a suitable way to incorporate it all into nice neat paragraphs right now but I have made a list of desirable traits;

  • Non smoker
  • Light drinker
  • Aged 35-45
  • Slim to average build
  • Servile *willing to agree to do anything, however demeaning, that somebody wants*
  • Good personal hygiene
  • Employed
  • Own car (or company car that can be used for personal use)
  • SINGLE
  • Not recently separated - I don't want someone who is going to go running back to their ex 6 months into a relationship
  • Must share similar vanilla interests, as well as most kinks
  • Must be tolerant (at least) of animals
  • Must not judge people on where they live or what they do for a living – such things are often temporary and/or circumstantial
  • Must know that a good slave is intuitive to its Mistress’s needs & desires, and does not need to constantly be told what to do.

Hopefully this will cut down the number of messages from completely inappropriate males offering their devotion to me ... when they clearly haven't even read the profile!

6/10/2012 12:34:23 AM

Being taken out for lunch today.  It's been a while since I've been taken for a meal by a sub, I do miss it.  I used to go out for dinner with subs quite frequently, this will be the first lunch though.

When I mentioned going for a meal with subs to someone I was chatting to they seemed quite surprised.  They seemed to think it was not the done thing for a sub to ask to take a Mistress for a meal.  Personally I can't see why.  After all it means she doesn't have to do any cooking or cleaning up, she gets waited on, she doesn't have to pay ... why would any Mistress complain about it??

I think as long as the little maggot/bitch realises it's not a date then there is no problem with it.  I personally see it as just another way for a sub to show his/her appreciation or admiration of the Mistress. 

So, who's taking me to dinner next??  ;-)

 

6/10/2012 12:27:36 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/10/j-is-for/

6/9/2012 1:13:29 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/09/pink-piggies/  with pics!

6/9/2012 1:39:45 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/09/h-is-for/

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/09/i-is-for/

Double hit today since I didn't have time yesterday.

Oh and by the by, I expected better results on the toe colour fun last night.  Was seriously disappointed by the poultry number of votes received!  I was thinking about making this a regular bit of fun on Friday night, let you lot pick a colour for me to adorn my toe nails in ... but if there isn't going to be enough interest I won't be bothering to have a little fun with you lot.  I will give you all one more week, but if I don't get better results next week that will be the end of it!

Of course if you really want to suck up and impress me you could always buy me a new colour to paint my nails in.  I have a few nice colours on my pedicure Amazon list ... http://www.amazon.co.uk/registry/wishlist/2WBNB8DG7U0S0

6/8/2012 10:47:40 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/08/toe-colours/

Little bit of Friday night foot fun  :-)

 

6/7/2012 10:46:45 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/08/my-ideal-subslave/

6/7/2012 9:51:26 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/07/been-decorating/

Well someone has to do it!

6/5/2012 1:01:34 PM

Bored ... bored ... bored!!!

Oh, and pissed off .. my laptop is on it's last legs I think .. display driver keeps acting up (or so it keeps telling me via the little pop up that comes up after my screen goes black) and I don't even know if that can be fixed, if it would be worth fixing or if I'm just as well giving the thing a decent burial in the wheelie bin lol.  That's a joke, I know you don't put electrical appliances in the bin before anyone starts moaning about the environment and all that stuff.

So it looks like I'm back to using my PC, even though I was thinking about giving it to my daughter and just using the laptop. 

Thinking about getting netbook/notebook type thingy (mini laptop) ... anyone got one, are they any good?  I am about half way to saving up for one (though I was going to treat myself to a nice new wardrobe with loads of storage space for my shoes lol).  Really need something portable though and can't afford a new laptop, not a proper one anyway.

6/5/2012 7:04:54 AM

http://www.amazon.co.uk/registry/wishlist/3SMTE2OBDGD6X  Shoes, boots, tights, socks

6/5/2012 6:15:22 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/05/e-is-for/

For those who missed the original posting on here

6/4/2012 2:18:51 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/04/food-trampling/

Looking for suggestions.

6/4/2012 1:07:31 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/04/diet-day-5/

Scales are going in the right direction again ... until my next day off no doubt lol

6/3/2012 5:27:18 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/03/c-is-for/

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/03/diet-day-4/  not done so good today  :(

 

Working on a website for little old moi! I hope you lot can read good, because there are no pics for it yet lol.  Although I could perhaps use some of the ones I've put on here ... hmmm, it's a thought.

 

6/2/2012 2:04:08 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/02/cup-cake-photos/  the before and after pics of my cake trampling :-)

AND ...

I've uploaded a couple of new pics to my profile on here as well. 
I really need to find something better to do on a Saturday night!!

6/2/2012 11:00:32 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/02/foot-and-food-fun/

Let the Jubilee celebrations begin lol

6/2/2012 2:31:03 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/02/b-is-for/

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/02/diet-day-3/

And there's a new tweet @LE_UK

 

6/1/2012 10:48:43 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/01/jubilee-pedicure/

A bit of Jubilee fun  :-)

Another bit of Jubilee fun ... I would love to see pics of subs who perhaps 'draw' something in hot wax in red, white & blue. 

5/31/2012 11:14:54 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/01/a-is-for/   slightly edited version from the one I posted here

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/06/01/diet-day-2/  for those that are interested

5/30/2012 11:49:12 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/05/31/we-have-lift-off/

5/30/2012 1:03:27 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/diet-is-a-four-letter-word/

5/28/2012 11:47:58 PM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/05/29/well-that-was-interesting/

5/28/2012 3:53:13 AM

Will be posting this on my other profile but thought I'd put it on here as well since I sometimes get asked for sessions despite my profile text saying this is just for chat ...

 

I will be available for online/webcam sessions this evening between 7-9pm.
If you wish to serve me tonight you must submit your request before 6pm listing your kinks/fetishes, what time you would be available to serve, and any toys/outfits etc that you have available to use.
My webcam has video only, no audio.  I do not have a mic for skype or yahoo chat, so you will either have to phone or put up with me typing.  
Tribute will be paid via Amazon gift certificates only!  This is non-negotiable, so don’t waste my time asking!  Yahoo chat only is £1 per minute, webcam, £1.50 per minute, phone call £1.70 per minute (plus your standard network charge).  Tribute must be paid in advance, but do not pay anything until I confirm your booking!!  Booking must be a minimum of 10 minutes and a maximum of 30 minutes.
You will be given my email address once I confirm your booking.

5/28/2012 2:23:54 AM

Miss Elle is now on Twitter!  Hey I'm catching on to this technology stuff lol!

@LE_UK

Tweet tweet!!

5/28/2012 1:35:04 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/05/28/a-new-addition/

5/28/2012 1:34:34 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/2012/05/27/tied-up-in-knots/

5/28/2012 1:32:30 AM

Just stood on a bit of cold pasta that must have fallen from the pot while I was preparing my lunch (I take it to work with me), and naturally I thought of you lot ... my lovely little foot worshipers.

It got me thinking about those who like to see food trampled by a woman ... what sort of foods work best, from your point of view?  I have to admit the cold pasta felt weird, especially when I squished it between my toes and the ball of my foot.

I'm open to requests for foot photos you know  ;-)   So let me know what you would like to see and if I'm in a nice mood I'll maybe oblige you :-)

5/27/2012 7:18:06 AM

Finally got a sole pic up, in colour, for all you little foot worshipers who were begging me to show some sole  ;-)

 

5/27/2012 6:22:22 AM

Thanks to all those who offered the links to online translation thingys, but I tried three different ones and got three different translations for the exact same phrase!!

Does anyone on here actually know Latin??

Hell at a push I suppose someone who speaks Italian might even be able to help, since it has it's roots in Latin and all that ... maybe worth a shot???

5/27/2012 4:10:11 AM

Anyone on here any good with Latin translations?

I'm looking to have something translated into Latin, but I'm afraid I never was any good at it at school.  Contact me if you can help me out  :-)

5/27/2012 1:40:36 AM

A couple of new blog posts on my wordpress thingy.  There's a link at the top of my profile :-)

5/26/2012 12:17:38 AM

Ok boys and girls (mostly boys though since no females have expressed interest in the A-Z), here it is ... the last entry of Elle's Personal A-Z of BDSM!

Are you ready for it??

Here it comes.  Don't blink or you might miss it ...

Z is for ...

Zentai; in short ... top to toe in skin hugging material, usually lycra.  There are some wonderful zentai suits out there ranging from flesh coloured to metallic, and even patterned.  In it's own right it is a fetish for those who want to be naked, but not get arrested for public indecency lol.  However it can be used for a variety of reasons, especially if worn without the hood/headpiece.  It can be a useful way for you to hide any skin imperfections you might not want a Mistress to see if you are paranoid about them.  It is also a great way for hairy guys to achieve a smoother base for some sissy outfits without having to shave all over.
Not to mention how wonderful the sub feels (to a Mistress) when encased in smooth and silky lycra.  Not quite as good as nice smooth naked skin, but not a bad substitute ;-)

A good way of creating a living doll is to use a zentai bodysuit, get a doll face mask, dress up dolly and voila!!

Zzzzzz; after a hard going or late night session   :-)

 

The End!!

:'(

5/25/2012 11:59:09 PM

After some 'discussion' with a sub on here I have decided to add the following item to the "Y" entry, as yet another "to do" item, for the distant future, unless you want to bring your own to a session, because I am not lugging one around on and off of trains!

Y is also for ...

Yoke; used widely in mediusually bent over) and passers by would throw rotten fruit & veg (or worse) at the victim.  The other common version was that which was just worn around the neck and the victim would be dragged along, publicly paraded through the streets in order to be publicly disgraced, and again have various substances thrown at them.
Nowadays you can of course still get the wooden variety, if you have the money or the skills to make your own.  But you can buy cheaper (if less aesthetically pleasing) variations.  Hell you could even make your own with a collar, wrist cuffs and a pole of some sort to attach them to!
But which ever version you go for, unless the collar and cuffs are detachable, it's not going to be an easy item to transport on buses or trains  :(

5/25/2012 10:07:39 AM

Y is for ...

Yelling;  something I don't do in sessions.  If I have to resort to yelling to get you to obey then I have lost control of the situation and the session will be  terminated.

Ok, yelling was  desperate attempt to fill in "Y", but it's better than ...

You; because without you I would have no one to play with xx

Pass the sick bucket for that last entry lol.

5/24/2012 1:35:40 AM

X is for ...

eXecution; okay okay, but you try coming up with something for "X" lol. 
I have access to a working set of custom built gallows, and can simulate a hanging scenario, which is great fun.  When I do it I combine breathplay, basic rope bondage, and mind games.  As with the waterboarding, it's the psychological impact that's the key with this one.  So although you won't actually "hang by the neck until you be dead" , you try telling your brain that when you have the hood over your head and you feel that noose going round your neck  ;-)

This next one was a suggestion from a sub I spoke with a while back ...

X-rated; since a lot of my personal preferences seem to be very much x-rated in some sense or other.

 

5/23/2012 8:48:13 AM

New dragon canes finally arrived!!  Just need a willing bottom to break them in on!  Form an orderly line and wait your turn  :-D

5/23/2012 4:49:22 AM

W is for …
Willing Victims;  where would I be without them??
Watersports;  ugh! Here we go again.  Ok, I do a little bit of watersports, but if you’ve read my entry for Urine you’ll already no I don’t do it direct from source.  I am quite happy to leave the room and pee into a glass or bowl for you to drink or lap it up though.  For me it’s so much you drinking my piss that I find a sexual turn on, it’s more the power rush I get from it that does it for me.  The fact you are doing it because I tell you to do it.  I wonder what else I could get you to do just to keep me happy.
Waterboarding; surprise surprise this is not on my to do list, this one has already been ticked off ;-)
Proper waterboarding is done with the victim strapped or secured to a board, preferably inclined, the face is covered with cloth of some sort (although I recently read of cellophane being used, be still my beating heart lol), and water is poured over the face to simulate the sensation of drowning.  
This one is a bit of a mind fuck to say the least!  The brain goes into overdrive as the water starts to run over your face, trickling up your nose and into your mouth.  Ever had a fear of drowning?  Fancy facing your fear?  
This one can be improvised.  As long as the victim is securely immobilised and laid down flat you can still get the same basic effect.  Might not be up to Guantanamo Bay standards, but it works!!

Now here’s a thought … combined waterboarding with watersports???  
I feel an experiment coming on if anyone's up for it!!

5/23/2012 2:38:05 AM

Just been trying my hand at creative writing lol.  Well I must be well and truly bored today that's all I can say!!

Stuck it on my wordpress thingy so go check it out if you're as bored as I am.

 

Right, time to get on with the A-Z ...

5/22/2012 6:43:57 AM

http://misselle72.wordpress.com/

 

Any tips on how to get the best from wordpress will be much appreciated.  Just discovered it and it looks like fun, but I'm a blogging virgin  ;-)

5/22/2012 1:53:17 AM

V is for ...

Violet Wand; another form of electric play.  Not one I own personally, but I have had the pleasure and enormous fun of using one a couple of times in the past and it's definitely going on my wishlist to Santa this year lol.
Most commonly these devices have glass tips, and some are designed to produced colours other than the traditional 'violet'.  They can also have metal attachments which the sparks 'fly' off.  All versions are wonderfully pretty in my opinion.  For those who haven't seen one ... remember the old van der graph machines your science teachers used to love shocking you with at school?  well the sparks that came off of the globe are similar, but nowhere near as many or as pretty .. but you get the basic idea (hopefully).
There can be small marks left from use of a violet wand, but these are generally no worse than what looks like a small rash.  I have used it on married subs before who couldn't be marked, and no one has ever complained of being caught out by it.  The marks are very small, and do not always appear.

Violence; adding this one in for personal reasons. 
The dictionary defines violence as the use or threat of physical force to injure or damage a person or property. 
I wanted to write something intelligent and defensive about our type of violence and that which is so widely reported on the news, but I find words fail me at the moment.  I have a huge swell of emotion when thinking about how shunned we are by society, but I seem to be unable to put the emotions into suitable words.
Whether we are the ones who like to inflict the pain, or the ones who like to receive it, we should not be made to feel like we are social outcasts, or criminals.  We are simply different.
Some of the more 'fun' kinks, the lighter kinks, have been seen as more acceptable of late ... furries, foot fetish etc, even mild spankings have all been popularised (or perhaps that should be sensationalised) by the media over the past few years.  Yet a caning or flogging which leaves the sub with whelts, marks, and broken skin for days on end is still seen as extreme and perverted.
I'll end this entry here because I can feel the emotion taking over and the words are starting to make less sense.  But I had to get it off my chest.

5/20/2012 11:54:46 PM

U is for ...

Urethral sounds; I sometimes worry that my 'to do' list is bigger than my 'have done' list.  Will go over this A-Z when it's finished and count them up to make sure I'm wrong lol.
Urethral sounds are rigid rods, usually steel, which are inserted into the male (or female) urethra.  It should be noted that the sounds for each gender are different sizes.  You can of course get different sizes for males, but the ones designed for males are far too big for females and would cause internal damage.  If you are ever considering buying them the sizes are the same as looking at needles ... the bigger the size number, the smaller/thinner the actual sound or needle.  So do not make the mistake of buying the smallest numbered size ... unless of course you want some real pain ;-)
They can be used to slightly stretch the urethral tube, or if attached to an e-stim or possibly a TENS unit, they can be used for electrical play as well.  Tried to talk the ex boyfriend into that one when he bought my E-stim for Christmas but he threw a subbie tantrum and listed it as a hard limit.  Spoilsport!!

Urine; from a bowl or a glass perhaps, but not direct from source.  I have no sexual interest in this type of play (and yes, I will be listing it again under watersports lol), but it is fun to watch you lap it up when made to do it.  I suppose my interest in it is the fact that I can make you do it, rather than I want you to do it.  

5/20/2012 1:53:24 AM

T is for ...

Teasing; does this really need explaining??  Although having said that I suppose different people find different things to be teasing.  It can be something as simple as a bit of online flirting ... not that I would know anything about that one ;-)  Or it can be leaving a couple of extra buttons undone on the blouse to reveal a bit more of your assets when you know someone is watching, or it can by out and out physical ... hands running over someones skin (or over their clothes if they are still dressed) and lingering a little longer than necessary.  Moving close enough so that bodies touch, scent can be taken in, hot breath can be felt ... then moving away.  It can even be telling them something you know will get them excited, telling them that if they can get to you they can have what they want, even though they are restrained and can do nothing about it ... always a good idea to make sure they can't actually get out of the restraints before trying that one though lol.
Of course the joy of teasing is that is entirely up to the dominant if they deliver on any of the 'promises' or suggestions made when teasing.  So it could be teasing and the jackpot afterwards, or it could be tease and tough sh*t afterwards.  Life's a bitch ain't it??

Torture; mmm, lovely thought for a Sunday morning :-)   What am I talking about??  Thinking about torture puts a smile on my face any day of the week!!

In my opinion this covers anything which the 'victim' finds uncomfortable, painful, or mildly distressing. Much of what goes on in BDSM is actually legally classed as torture, especially if taken to extremes.  Bummer!!  And even more shockingly, in some countries the so called victims of BDSM tortures can actually be charged as well, even though they gave consent for the alleged abuse to take place!  But I wont tell if you don't  ;-)

Tattoos; Love them!  I only have two myself but would love more.  I also like looking at them on other people.  And something else I noticed a few years back while dating a guy that was heavily tattooed, the texture of the skin feels different when you lick it  ;-)   Either that or his skin was just weird lol.
I digress.  In a BDSM sense tattoos can be used to mark someone as your property/slave/bitch/whatever.  They can also be used as a way of letting those in the know see your inclinations.  It can also be used as a form of body modification within the scene.
My advice when getting one, whether it's through choice or under orders, is always go to a professional.  I don't care if your mate or Dom/me knows someone who will do a great job on the cheap ... there are too many health & hygiene risks to consider.  Always go to a respected professional.

Tawse; ahhh memories.  Or maybe that should be NOOO!! Memories!!  I am of an age where I can remember getting sent to the Headmaster's office for misbehaving in class.  Mine was a nasty piece of work. I wonder if he was a Dom?  Although in my experience from the men I've dealt with he's more likely to have been a sub in private life lol.
I'm digressing again ... too much wine last night.
The tawse is an excellent bit of kit.  Good heavy leather, can have two or three tails, a brutal bugger!  For those who have never seen one (come see me in my office after class lol) imagine a belt, a heavy leather belt of about 21" (an average length) where one end is split into two or three tails.
I personally own two as well as having access to more at the dungeon I use for sessions.  My big one is about 21" of heavy black leather, has two straight edge tails.  My other one is smaller, about 14"  (was advertised as handbag size lol) lighter tan leather, smooth on one side, natural on the other side, and has two curved tails.  The big beast is great for naughty bottoms (take that any way you like), and the smaller one is great on hands and feet ... and occasionally on other small areas  ;-)

Tease & Denial;Same as the teasing entry ... but with a snowballs chance in hell of getting anything nice at the end of it.

Thumb Cuffs; very useful little bit of kit.  Yes, I know I prefer rope, but there is something to be said for the cold harshness of a bit of solid steel.  I actually quite like steel implements, and chains & padlocks.  Thumb cuffs are like a smaller version of handcuffs, which obviously go over the thumbs.  This is excellent for making sure wriggly little Houdini type subs don't undo all my lovely rope work  :-)   It's not cheating, it's insurance lol.
Another good thing with thumb cuffs is that they are easily portable, pocket size even, never mind handbag size :-)  Great for taking on a day out or trip to the cinema etc. 

Tie & Tease; see 'teasing', I can't be bothered typing any more ... need to go find some paracetamol lol

5/19/2012 12:38:59 PM

Just been shopping online and bought myself 3 new dragon canes!!!   Can hardly wait to try them out :-)

5/19/2012 3:04:33 AM

S is for ..

Sensual Sadism; I guess this one can mean different things to different people, and can also be different depending on the situation.  For me it is about the hint of something sexual or sensual without and sex actually happening.  It's about a closeness, an intimacy of sorts between the Domme and the slave.  It can be something as simple as longing look when I stare into the eyes of my victims while I 'torture' them, or a lingering touch when tying up the slave, or running my hands over their welts.  But whatever it is, it all helps to create an electrifying atmosphere ... without and E-stim box!!  ;-)

Sadomasochism; is described as a mix of "the sexual pleasure or gratification in the infliction of pain and suffering upon another person", and "the sexual pleasure or gratification of having pain or suffering inflicted upon oneself".  Sounds like a marriage made in heaven to me :-D 
My interpretation of it is the coming together of two individuals who mutually enjoy the infliction of pain, humiliation, or forced servitude.  And yes, I know that servitude has nothing to do with actual sadomasochism in the strictest sense, but as I said this is a personal interpretation and I often mix it all together with whoever I play with on a personal basis.

Sensory Deprivation; quite simply depriving you of one or more of your basic senses ... temporarily of course.  This is easiest done by use of a blindfold or hood which removes the use of sight.  It can also be done using ear plugs or special headphones which removes your use of hearing. 
Removing the sense of smell and touch is a bit more tricky in basic set-ups, but I'm sure there will be someone somewhere who can/has done it.  To a lesser extent suspension bondage or even basic bondage could be said to remove (or more accurately, restrict) the sense of touch/movement.

Sensation Play;or as I sometimes call it "masochism for beginners" lol.  Sensation play makes the brain think it is going to experience pain, when in fact it doesn't.  So you get a sensation of expectation, the build up to what might be about to happen, being kept on the edge.  For example having a cane (I'm not obsessed, honest) rubbed across your backside and perhaps even playfully tapped on it so you think you are going to receive 6 of the best even though you don't want/like it.
Having said that it can also be the light use of things like canes, floggers etc .. or the use of softer versions of them.  For example a horse hair flogger, or a fur flogger.  Both very soft materials but can still be used quite forcefully without causing any real pain, but the slave still gets the sensation of being flogged.

Sleep Sack;not one I have experience of but I do like the idea.  To put it in simple, easy to visualise terms ... it's like being inside a sleeping bag and being unable to move.  Usually there is sections for either feet or arms (or both), and the sack will fasten at the neck.  Some also have several straps that can fasten up the length of the body to restrict movement. 
I have often thought of trying to 'convert' a normal sleeping back over, although I think perhaps a sleeping bag liner might be better.  I might just buy a sewing machine and make one of my own!

Strait Jackets; Now this one I do have experience of ... no, I haven't spent time in one, although some people think I should!  I have used these for overnight bondage, prolonged bondage, and just for the sheer hell of it  :-)  My own one is made of cotton canvas, but they can come in pretty much any material. 
Works great with an isolation hood  ;-)

Strappado; one of my favourite positions.  For those who have been following this A-Z this is the basis for the position I mentioned in predicament bondage.  The arms are tied behind the back (usually at the wrists) and then the wrist are hoisted up forcing the slave to bend forward.  Opens up so many possibilities this one  :-)

Suspension Bondage; not one I've done yet, but it's on my to do list!  Any guinea pigs??
The slave is tied in such a way to make it possible to raise them off the ground.  Care must be taken with this one though so as not to cause actual harm.
So like I said, any guinea pigs??  ;-)

5/17/2012 11:38:50 PM

R is for …
Rope Bondage; I prefer this method of bondage because it allows me to be a bit more creative, and it is also a bit more intimate in the sense that you have to be fairly close to the person you are tying.  It is also a lot prettier than just a couple of leather restraints.  Not that I have anything against leather restraints, I wouldn’t own them if I didn’t like them lol, but I still prefer rope.  I think you can do more with rope.  It’s easily adaptable, more flexible and allows me to be more creative (and to improvise if things don’t work the way I thought they would lol)
Rough Play; this one is more for my personal play times rather than my sessions as it usually leads to (or is part of) sex.  It is quite simply rough play … slapping, hair pulling, scratching, biting, pushing, pulling, pinning down etc … all with the emphasis on force.
Ruined Orgasms; oh boy!!!  My favourite method of giving a ruined orgasm is to deny any physical contact (either from myself or the slave) as soon as I suspect he s about to orgasm.  However a ruined orgasm can also be achieved by suddenly talking about something boring and non sexual I.e. “do you think we need new curtains/drapes in here? I think we need to redecorate this room.”  Or by causing some sort of non-pleasurable pain … I always keep a cane or tawse handy for such occasions lol.

5/17/2012 12:38:21 AM

Q is for ...

Quickie sessions;many Pro Dommes off these for the likes of CP sessions, judicial-style sessions, or even foot worship sessions ... although personally I would consider a quickie foot session to be nothing more than tease and denial for me!!
I have seen some listing 15 minute sessions, or 30 minutes sessions.  Not a bad idea I suppose if you simply want to get in, get what's coming to you, then get back to work or catch your train home or whatever.

Queening;I think you all know what this one is already, but again for the benefit of those who don't ...
queening is where the Domme positions her most intimate parts over the subs face and he has the honour of being made to pleasure her orally.  She may require vaginal or anal satisfaction, but both can be achieved from this position, and it has the advantage of enforcing her superiority by being on top.  This is not something any respectable Pro Domme will do in a session, but many Dommes will be quite happy to do it in their own personal relationships. 
Speaking from a personal perspective ... not one of my favourites actually.  I seem to spend more time worrying about keeping my balance than enjoying the 'act' lol.  I prefer to receive my oral satisfaction while I'm nice and comfortable and lying down, or sitting on the edge of my computer chair, or the sofa, or anywhere else I can keep my balance easily lol.

Queening Stool; a queening stool is a piece of BDSM furniture which allows the Domme to take a seat and relax while being pleasured, rather than her having to squat or kneel over the subs face.  There are lots of stools available that allow a more comfortable experience when queening.  Some are quite luxurious (and pricey), but the most basic one I ever saw was a converted dining seat from which the cushioned 'seat' had been removed and the legs were sawn down to a suitable height.  Functional I suppose but I think I would prefer something with some padding, after all, the point of it is to be able to relax and enjoy the experience ;-)

5/15/2012 9:40:41 PM

P is for ...

Pain; yours of course!!

Paddling; I prefer caning (in case you hadn't picked up on that by now lol) but paddling is also good fun. 

Posture Collar; not as good as I was expecting these, but I have two now.  They are designed to restrict the subs head movement, and although they do it to an extent I was expecting a bit more restriction.  Maybe I just need to get one that's a bit higher, or one that actually covers the chin as well ... seen them, just can't remember where or how much they were.

Power Exchange; lets be clear on this one before I get all the nutters contacting me wanting to sign their life away ... I am NOT interested in TPE or 24/7 arrangements!!  The power exchange I am referring to is a temporary exchange of power, i.e. when a Domme and sub play together either on a casual/personal or professional basis, for an agreed length of time ... or with the exchange only extending to certain areas of the subs life, not the whole thing. 
Yes I enjoy having the power to control and manipulate, I'm female it goes with the territory lol, but I do not want it 24/7.  For me personally I would not appreciate it the same if it was there constantly ... I wouldn't get the same rush from it.  Good things in small doses  :-)

Predicament Bondage; I know someone who has been eagerly waiting this entry lol.  Calm down, get comfortable, no scratch that ... get uncomfortable and enjoy ;-)
This is where you have the sub in a bondage position that is uncomfortable for him no matter what way he moves.  My own favourite is arms tied behind the back and raised (try clasping your hands behind your back and lifting them up, you'll get the idea of what I mean), an anal hook inserted and attached to a pulley that can be raised to the correct height, ankles in spreader bars.  Sounds simple, but believe me it's effective.  Used this on a few subs and generally been called an evil bitch afterwards lol.  For a little extra impact to that position I sometimes tie the balls in such a way that they are attached to the spreader bar ... so if you try to stand up a bit to relieve the ass, the balls get it  :-)

Predicament Play; Similar to the bondage .. give the poor bugger a couple of choices but make sure they are both going to be bad for him and fun for me :-)  For example "would you like another month locked in chastity or 40 strokes of the cane my pet?"
It can also be something like making a sub hold something in a position that makes it difficult to do so, and punishing them if the drop whatever it is.  Or giving them a task which you know they will find difficult or highly embarrassing to do ... they have two choices, do the task or pay the price for failure to comply.

Poly Relationships; no experienced in this one before you ask, but I am curious at times.  Poly relationships basically mean that there is more than two romantic partners.  It is not the same thing as just sleeping around, or being a swinger.  The key point in it is love and romance.  The people involved in it must be in a proper relationship, not just sleeping together.  
I'm curious about it because I often wonder if I could do it.  I think it would amazing, but given that I am a jealous bitch myself I fully understand that it would be difficult for some men to be in that sort of relationship.  It's a nice thought though  :-)

Prince Albert Piercing; Had never given these any thought until I had a lover who had one lol.  For those who don't know what it is (what planet do you live on??)  it's a piercing at the end of the penis.
The only problem I've encountered with them is that they restrict the types of chastity devices that can be worn ... but it's not impossible.  My lover was kept in chastity most of the time and wore a metal curve device which was open at the end.

 

5/15/2012 1:50:44 AM

Added a profile pic to my little web page now, as well as link to my Amazon shoe list ... for those who want to know what sort of shoes I like  ;-)

5/15/2012 1:28:40 AM

O is for ...

Obedience training; bit of an umbrella this one.  Covers anything from attitude, behavior, dressing to please, positions, tasks/chores etc.  In general though it is the conditioning of a slave to do things the way the Mistress/Master wants them done.
My little bit of advice when you contact a Pro Domme asking to be trained, be specific if there is an area you fell you need training in.  When asking a lifestyle Domme/Mistress it is ultimately up to them what they train you in, but it might be helpful to let them know any areas you have already been trained in, or if there is any area you feel you need training in to be a better slave.  Don't worry about voicing an opinion, very few Dommes really want doormat slaves, but be respectful at all times.

Objectification; quite simply turning a person into an object, or more accurately treating a person like an object.  This can be something as simple and literal as using the sub as a piece of furniture, or it can be more complex and training them to think and accept that they are your object, your toy, your property .. rather than a free thinking human being.
Objectification, whether in simple or complex forms, is not something suited to those who need contact with their Mistress/Master.  The object is basically ignored .. do you walk around talking to or caressing your furniture??  If you do I'm sure there's a name for it somewhere lol.  Having said that it is a good punishment for those who do crave contact.

Orgasm denial; surely this one is self explanatory, but just in case it's not ...
The most common form is to keep a slave in chastity.  It is quite simply the denial of orgasms for the slave, despite the fat that the Mistress/Master will get all the orgasms they want.  A good slave might get rewarded with an orgasm once in a while, but if they have a mischievously sadistic Mistress she might only grant them ruined orgasms  ;-)
Orgasm denial works well with tease and denial, as long as the slave hasn't been denied for too long ... accidents sometimes happen lol.

Orgasm control; a bit more complex than straightforward denial.  Again it works well with tease and denial, the difference being that the slave is denied until I say "yes" when they ask for permission to cum.  It can also involve training to be aroused by certain things, or while performing certain tasks, but that is really better suited to a living environment rather than sessions as it requires more time, supervision, and guidance.

5/14/2012 2:29:18 PM
Not a proper website, just a bit of fun really . . . about.me/miss_elle Let me know what you think of my shoes :-)
5/14/2012 1:08:34 AM

N is for ...

Needle play; another one that is so far on my to do list, but I have found someone who can & will teach me this.  I have seen some wonderful photos of needle play where some really lovely images have been created ... some through the use of different needle (different sizes have different colour ends), and some through the marks left after wards on the body ... all works of art in my opinion though.  However that is the more advanced side of needle play, but I will be happy just using subs like voodoo dolls to start with lol.  Actually that's not an accurate description since the needles go straight in to a doll, whereas it's my understanding the needles goes through the skin on subs. 
I'm looking forward to learning how it's done, and finding a few willing human pin cushions!

Nipple torture; As with genital torture this can involve a whole host of things: wax, ice, needles, small floggers, pegs/clamps, pinching, biting etc.  But unlike genital torture one thing that is not safe on nipples (or anywhere near the chest area) is electric play. 
This can be dangerous as it's too close to the heart.  A general rule with electric play is not to do it above the waist. 
Some people have really sensitive nipples and that can be great fun.  I once knew a sub who would cum if you played with his nipples long enough  :-)

5/13/2012 2:47:57 AM

M is for ...

Mummification; Not the traditional, Egyptian style ... you will not be going home with your organs in canopic jars lol.  It is basically a case of wrapping the sub up so they look like like a 'mummy'.  Various materials can be used for this; cling film (plastic wrap), sheets, linen/cloth strips, bandages, or even plaster bandages.  My own personal preference is for cling film, and I have even combined this with other materials ... a cloth layer first then a layer of cling film to hold it in place and help define the shape, followed by a layer of duct  tape.  A pain in the ass to do time wise, but the end result was worth it.  I just wish I had taken photos.

Male submission; what's not to love about it??

Male Genital Torture; tempted to say same as above lol.  Basically CBT (cock and ball torture) and can be anything that causes pain/discomfort to the genital area including some simple bondage on the genitals, slapping, pinching, punching (not one that I do personally), ball stretchers, spiked parachute with weights attached, soft floggers, electric play, kicking, wax, ice, other forms of heat play etc. 
All I will say is that caution must always be used, we're back to the first S in SSC.

5/11/2012 9:31:58 PM

L is for ...

Long term (extended) bondage;  okay, clutching at straws again lol.  By long term I mean overnight, or even just a few hours. 
Now before the safety police jump on me overnight bondage is safe as long as you're careful.  There are many devices made for prolonged bondage, such as sleep sacks etc.  But since I don't own one of those yet what I have done in the past is used a straight jacket fastened secure enough so as to prevent escape but loose enough to allow some movement of the arms ... simply tying the ankles together, as well as the wrists ... padlocking a chain to the subs ankle with the other end attached to a bracket on the wall ... placing the sub in a locked box (which has adequate air holes) overnight.
The shorter version of just having them secured for a few hours could use any of the above methods, but could also involve pretty much any bondage position or technique as long as the sub is monitored regularly (every 10 minutes or so), and the position is changed or altered, depending on positions are being used.  For example hogties are great fun but not recommended for long term, but there's nothing to stop you using it as part of a series of positions during and long term bondage session/scene.

additional ... (because I forgot, again lol)

Leather; I actually didn't add this originally because it's not a fetish for me, as such, just something I like.  But had a few queries asking if there was some special reason it wasn't on the list.  Yes, I love my leather jackets, and my leather gloves.  I even like my leather sofa, until my bare skin touches it when it's cold lol.  But I do not have a fetish for leather outfits, especially not on subs.  for me subs should be naked, unless it amuses me to make them wear something specific.  Yes I own a couple of leather corsets, and my leather trousers, but not because they 'do it' for me ... actually I'm still trying to work out why I did actually buy them lol.

Lycra; this is like some of my other entries ... not so much something I'm into personally (I won't be prancing around in my control knickers for anyone lol) but there are a few good uses for it.  I'll be mentioning it later in the A-Z, in fact it will be the final entry.

And no, no latex.  Not a fan of it at all.

5/11/2012 11:35:16 AM

K is for ...

Kicking; don't go getting too excited, I don't do full force kick the crap out of you style kickings ... it's more  playful kick. For example; you're lying on the floor after taking a flogging, don't want to get back up ... and a not so gentle tap of my boot on your backside to encourage you otherwise :-)

and of course ... KINKY!!  Anyone who really knows me will agree I am definitely one kinky bitch when I get going :-)

 

Okay, okay, yes I was clutching at straws for K,
but at least there's something!

5/10/2012 12:06:07 AM

J is for ...

Judicial-style canings; I don't do a true Singapore caning, but I do something along the same lines. 
The similarities: Cold caning (no warm up).  24 strokes.  Heavy cane used with heavy or full force.   No escape from it until the 24 strokes have been administered (no safe words etc, so be very sure if you think you want this one)
The differences: Dragon cane used (not a pre soaked rattan cane).  The 'punishment' is pre agreed or requested by the 'victim' in the case of sessions.  In the islands that still practice judicial canings they are only used on criminals under 50, and juveniles receive canings with a lighter cane - I use dragon canes for all judicial and CP canings, regardless of age. 

However I use koboo canes on beginners, or those with a lower pain threshold.  Koboo canes are a lighter weight than dragon canes, and as a result they are not so severe, but  they can still leave a lasting impression ;-)
Incidentally, a pre-soaked heavy rattan cane will break the skin fairly early on in the punishment, usually before the 5th stroke.  It is rumoured that some prisons who use this soak the cane in brine.  But this is only rumours, although it is an interesting thought from a sadists point of view.

5/9/2012 12:54:32 AM

I is for ...

Isolation; can be something as simple as sticking them in a corner and leaving them there or ignoring them thus making them feel alone and isolated ... or it could involve the use of isolation hoods and bondage.  Isolation hoods are great fun but to get the best effect I would recommend using either ear plugs or earphones attached to a MP3 player/iPod.  If you're willing to spend the extra cash some hoods come with built in earphones and connector for MP3 players/iPods.  And as long as you leave the hands free enough to indicate a problem, a bit of tape over the mouth makes it a nice little form of mild breath play as well ... similar to the hoods.

Ice Play; just a  bit of good clean fun!  Anything as simple as running an ice cube round the nipples (or genitals) to inserting a ice lolly (not sure of American term ... popsicle?) into various orifices  ;-)   As with inserting anything anywhere precautions must be taken.  Safety should always be at the front of your mind when doing any play.

 

Okay, not much here today but at least I came up with something :-)   What you need to remember is that although there are other items that could be put an A-Z all of these items I mention here are things I either have personal experience of or at the very least have a genuine interest in.

5/8/2012 1:30:20 AM

Completely off topic here but I'm wondering if anyone can help me out ...

I'm having problems with Amazon just now.  I can view various pages no problem, but when I click on an item to view the description/details for it it never loads!  I've tried opening in a new tab, opening in a new window, using a different browser (I have IE and Firefox) ... still nada!  I can view items on my phone no problem but it has a small screen and is not ideal.  My OS is Vista if that makes any difference. 

Both browsers get updated regularly so I don't think it's a problem with out of date software.

 

H E L P ! ! !

5/8/2012 12:52:37 AM

H is for ...

Hogties; possibly the best known bondage position, and one that can be done using either leather restraints or rope.  There are always various methods of doing this one.  My own personal favourite is one which is done with rope and places less stress on the joints through the addition of a chest harness.  I prefer this one because the reduced stress on the limbs means that the subject can be left for longer periods, whereas traditional hogties are only really suitable for shorter periods or you run the risk of causing actual damage. 

Hoods; my reasons for liking hoods are similar to those for liking face masks but with the addition of they are more disorientating for the wearer as their vision is usually totally obscured.  Also, although their breath is not restricted as such there is a certain amount of fun to be had from the fact they are breathing in air they have already used, feeling the warmth of it hit back at them off the cloth, knowing that they might start to panic a little as their breath quickens.  Mmm yummy!

Humbler; this one is on my to do list.  the humbler is a wonderful device that restricts your movement almost completely.  It is basically like a vice which is shaped to fit round the back of your thighs and has a shaped middle section where your balls are secured.  So if you try to move quickly, or stand up your balls get ripped off :-)  Very useful for keeping you on your knees, where you belong.

5/7/2012 12:02:00 AM

G is for ...

Gallows; I'll assume we all know what gallows are, and what they are used for .. well traditionally anyway, although I dare say some places still use them for execution.  In this context however they are a great form of breath play, not to mention one hell of a mind f*ck!!  From what I've been told, the experience is enhanced for some through the use of a hood so they can't see what's going on ... but I think that's a general thing for a lot of people no matter what is actually happening.  Some brave souls though have said they prefer to see my face as I put that noose around there neck and pull the cord that releases the trap door ... something about a glint in my eye as I do it apparently  ;-)

Gags; very useful bit of kit.  they can be used to shut up annoying little chatterboxes, to muffle the screams of the wimps, or depending on the type of gag they can be used to keep the mouth open ... for whatever reason you might want a nice open mouth.

Gates of Hell; one of my first 'gifts' a few years back when I was new to all this.  There are different versions of this wonderful CBT toy ... most common of which is the leather strap and metal rings (usually 5), but the one I have has leather straps instead of rings.  This is quite useful as it allows for use on various sizes if you follow my meaning  ;-)   It also allows me to tighten it to my own liking.

Glove Fetishism; Not something I'm a huge fan of but I since I like wearing leather gloves, or satin gloves I don't mind if the person I'm playing with has a thing for gloves.  It has to be said though that the satin ones are easier for doing things in .. I'm on about tying ropes etc.  I find the leather gloves a bit of a handicap in that respect, but they are bloody good for face slapping!! 
Now that I think about it lace gloves might be ok for working in as well, but since I don't have any I wont be able to test that theory yet.

5/6/2012 2:00:14 PM

F is also for ... FORGOT lol,

Forgot to add  Face Slapping.  Surely that one doesn't need an explanation?!

5/6/2012 2:27:51 AM

F is for ...

Flogging; hitting/whipping someone with a flogger.  Simples! :-)  (That part will probably mean nothing to anyone outside the UK lol)
A flogger is like a whip but with multiple strands of various materials including leather, suede, bungee, or rope.  A flogger is different from a cat o' nine tails in the sense that the strands on a cat are usually knotted along the length  of it.  Bugger!  I forgot to include cats in the "C" entry.

Foot worship; Yes, I know it's basically a duplicate entry for artifism from the "A" entry.  Did I say there would be no duplicates???

Face Masks; I love masks for their decorative attractiveness (I have a fondness for Venetian/masquerade  masks), and for the fact they allow me to objectify the wearer.  It can make it easier to disassociate the person (sometimes a friend or lover) from the object (just a piece of flesh to be toyed with).  
I must admit I prefer hoods, but I do like masks so I decided to include them in this little list of mine.

Flagellation; can be done softly as a form of sensation play or can be done severely, as a punishment for instance.  Flagellation generally refers to flogging but can actually cover most impact play from caning to flogging to spanking/cobbing.

Florentine Flogging; very arty farty lol.  This is something that many of you will have seen done either in video clips or in clubs, and some of you may have even experienced it ... the art of flogging with two floggers at once.  One in each hand, usually identical floggers, and done with a rhythmic flow. When done with soft floggers this can help sensitise the skin to prepare it form something with more bite.  If done with heavier floggers ... oh boy!  ;-)
It's beautiful to watch, not as easy as it looks to do, but at the same time well worth learning.

5/4/2012 9:36:43 PM

E is for ...

Electrics (E-stim, TENS); Electro stimulation can be good fun, from my perspective anyway :-)  I personally own both a TENS unit and a dual output E-Stim box.  Both machines have attachments which can be added, although finding ones for the TENS is a bit harder (anyone got links to UK suppliers? I lost the little list I had).  You can either attach the pads, or insert the insertables, and let the fun begin.  A conductive gel placed of the skin prior to attaching or inserting will get better results.
I have also used a violet wand which was a huge amount of fun.  So pretty watching the sparks fly .. literally :-)

Edge Play; bit of an umbrella term that one.  It covers anything that is considered to be 'on the edge'.  In my own case it covers breath play, water boarding, and one which I just realised I missed off my "B" entry ... blood play/fetish.

Erotic Asphyxiation; see entry for breath play or basics.  Specifically, erotic asphyxiation involves restriction the breath of a partner during sex.  Whereas, basic breath play can be done without involving sex.

Eye Contact Restrictions; should be self explanatory.  You look where you are told to, and don't look at what you're told you can't look at ... usually the Mistress's (or Master's) face, or other part of their anatomy.



5/4/2012 1:42:29 AM

D is for ...

Discipline scenarios; basically the same idea as CP but with a little lecture included ... what you're being punished for, getting you to admit that you deserve it etc.  It's as close as I get to role play, and is one I only really do during sessions when they have told me prior to the session what they feel they need punished for. 
I also use it on my chastity subs from time to time when the need arises.

Device Bondage; not a major like but a like none the less.  This is where the sub is restrained to a piece of (usually) specialised equipment/furniture such as a chair or cross.

Domestic Discipline; more common in loving relationships than in sessions.  There will be basic rules and protocol in place and if there is any infringement of these rules then punishment will be required ... not for the sake of it, not for my own amusement, but in order to reinforce the rules and let you know that you have let me down in some way.  Whilst I see general acts of sadomasochism as a bit of fun when carried out among consenting adults, punishment is not fun, for anyone involved.  I don't lay down a set number of strokes/lashes/etc, true punishment isn't punishment until there are tears involved, no matter how long it takes.

5/2/2012 11:39:50 PM

C is for ...

Caning; a true passion of mine.  Nothing beats the feel of some newly raised welts still warm to the touch.

CBT; quite a lot of scope there, covers anything from spiked parachute to ball busting and a hell of a lot in between.  Some of it I like, some of it I don't, but in general CBT is a like.

Clamps; nipples, balls, anywhere I can pinch enough skin to attach a clamp (or pegs)  :-)

Chastity; what's not to like??  Own a man's penis and you pretty much own him!

CFNM; again what's not to like?  Clothed female nude male keeps you vulnerable, exposed, and if your body is pleasing it gives me something decent to look at if there's nothing on the television  ;-)

Clingfilm; (plastic wrap) so many uses!!

Corner Time; a good way of punishing a masochist lol, or very effective on those with abandonment issues.

CP; agin a 'cover all' term, covering pretty much any sever form of physical punishment.  My obvious favourite is caning, but I also love a good flogging.

Cobbing; I prefer this to traditional OTK spanking, although it can be done OTK as well.  Cobbing uses a paddle instead of a hand to administer the 'spanking'.

5/2/2012 2:18:44 AM

B is for ...

Bondage; most types, but I have a bit of a penchant for rope bondage.

Breath play; plastic wrap, plastic bags, pillows over face, gloved hands over face, hands/rope round throat etc.

Ball stretcher;

Bastinado; foot torture basically.  The soles of the feet can be tortured by various means, anything from excessive tickling to a reasonably good caning.

Belting; always new my old leather belt would come in handy for something other than holding my jeans up :-)

Blindfolds; anyone on here who doesn't know how useful & erotic blindfolds can be doesn't deserve to be on here lol.

Body bag; no it's not for when the breath play goes wrong!  It's useful for long term bondage/captivity, and to a lesser degree sensory deprivation.

Body worship; intimate and/or non-intimate depending n the context and who I'm playing with.

5/1/2012 5:02:16 AM

 

Ok folks, I've decided I'm going to list my A-Z of interests in installments on my journal, a letter a day.  It's not a complete A-Z, there may be a couple of letters missing if I can't think of something suitable.  But it gives me something to write if nothing else lol.

A is for ...

Anal/Ass play ... should be pretty self explanatory  ;-)

Anal Hook ... very useful little toy

Aretifism ... the love of feet, usually bare feet but sometimes in nylons, or even socks in some cases.  This is not something I like myself, but I love those who like/appreciate/worship the actual foot rather than shoes & boots.  Not that I'm adverse to having my shoes & boots licked clean of course  ;-)

 

goddesslana01
 
 Age: 20
 Waterbury, Connecticut