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sir346
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HrdDriv
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mcboy52
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| Now live in Indianapolis, Indiana
First off I'm looking for a young slave
To all subs and slaves
I was recently asked by a HIV- slave about submitting to a HIV+ Master who wants to use him bareback. I told him DON'T do it. His life was not worth becoming HIV+ himself.
I also told him to find another Master who respects human life.
I MUST TELL ALL OF YOU the same thing. DON'T unless you have no value on your own life.
Second Have the courtesy to send some type of reply to show you're not a prick. Even something like "Sorry, not interested" would be cool for most anyone.
third, read my journals as they are pertinent.
If you're into anything "taboo" message me.
I knew about the D/s M/s thing since way before I should have and know what it's like to be an involuntary sub/slave. It's that experience that made me change roles in HS. I've been a DOM, into bondage and other
things from that time forward. Also since then I have been a strict MASTER/DOM. I know what I want and have my own ideas of what a D/s and M/s relationship should be. I will NOT change who I am for anyone.
I DO believe in Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). Defined in my journals.
First of all here's what I'm looking for...
A young male sub/slave who is Straight, Gay or Bi.
You must be honest, sincere, have the ability to earn your keep and be seriously
looking even if it’s for a play partner. I'm tired of all the flakes, liars and
people are here to just see who they can lead on.
If you're serious about the life/lifestyle and serving a DOM/MASTER then please
read on and feel free to message me. If you don't have a pic on your profile
SEND ONE.
You need to honestly be interested in the possibility something on going if not
permanent. You accept a codicil/poly household and the fact I am already married
to my man who is an Alpha sub.
BDSM to me is a lifestyle, One of which should be taken seriously to a degree as it involves a high level of trust on both the sub/slave's and the MASTERS part. since I take it that way, especially when it comes to ownership.
I much prefer a young or young looking male. A male who has a desire to learn to serve and try new things and to broaden their horizons, test and push his limits.
Sorry, I am NOT a sugar daddy nor do I desire to be. I’ll re-iterate You must
have a means of supporting yourself or at the very least helping in that
respect.
I do believe in polyamory and that a person can be with more than one person and have a great, loving and caring relationship with all involved.
Some things I'm into may not be for you but be assured I may decide to find
someone who can fill those needs/wants.
JUST BECAUSE I'M A DOM DOES NOT MEAN I'M A TOTAL TOP.
SOMETIMES I DO LIKE TO TIE OR PIN MY SUB AND RIDE HIM OR HAVE HIM FUCK ME.
When I do, I like it deep and sometimes hard and fast.
I'm NOT prejudice just have my preference of White or Hispanic/Latino guys only. But that does not mean I am not open to some others.
HARD LIMITS include scat, blood, needles, knives or anything crazy, or be
dangerous or harmful. This includes breath control.
I don't use drugs of any kind and this includes poppers, nor should you. If you
do use DON'T BOTHER.
I've been asked many times what I want and well in a perfect world it would be
someone with all the same limita and likes but since this isn't a perfect world
I'll respect your limits if you respect me and mine.
As for what I'm into and like...Here's the short list
Underwear
Jock Straps
Feet
Shoes
Sports Gear
Master/slave
Pup play
Watewrsports
Ass Play
Plastic Wrap
Chastity
Spanking
Dad/son(boy)
Bondage (Chain, Rope, Tape, Cuffs and others)
Some Military Uniforms
Flogging
Forced Hair Cuts
Shaving
Forced Feminasation
Orgasm Control/Milking
Forced Orgasm
CD/TV and FTM are all cool
There is more but you'll have to ask.
As far as sexual interests and other things also ask.
If you've reached this point, Thank you.
There is one last point to bring up.
For one to truly get my interest; a guy must be able to use proper grammar, punctuation and spelling before I will even consider being a friend, let alone being their Dom or Master. The ONLY exceptions would be a niece, nephew or a friend's son/daughter who is/are still in elementary school. At that age one cannot expect a full working knowledge of any language.
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WARNING:
Any institutions, individuals, or organizations using this site or any affiliated, parent or otherwise related sites for any purpose do NOT have my permission to use my profile, pictures, or information in any way shape or form. Such action will be considered a breach of privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
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To all who may message me; PLEASE have at least an 11th grade knowledge of English and use that knowledge. Don't spell words using numbers or use single letters for words, spell the things out. i.e. Do NOT use "u" for "you" or "PM" for "private message" |
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One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask us one question (TO my INBOX ONLY). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your profile and see what people ask you... |
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== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
95% Voyeur
93% Primal (Hunter)
93% Bondage giver
92% Dominant
90% Sadist
87% Owner
86% Non-monogamist
86% Daddy/Mommy
85% Master/Mistress
84% Brat tamer
82% Ageplayer
82% Experimentalist
78% Exhibitionist
62% Degradation giver
14% Vanilla
14% girl/boy
9% Brat
7% Primal (Prey)
5% All-Rounder
4% Pet
4% Masochist
0% Submissive
0% Switch
0% Degradation receiver
0% Bondage receiver
0% Slave
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=696234 |
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BDSM Difference between a sub and slave (A MUST Read)
Not many people seem to understand the difference between what becoming submissive is, and what a slave are. -- I'd like to dedicate this entry to clarify the differences to you and see where it goes from there.
Submissive person:
"A submissive is a person with an intense desire to serve that does so under some conditions. The conditions would typically include terms of service, length of service, which areas of the submissive' life the dominant does not get to control, what the hard and soft limits are when they play or just interact, and of course the safe word. In many ways the submissive controls play. Hard limits are activities that a dominant will not be able to indulge with the submissive. Hard limits broken would lead to the end of a scene, relationship or arrangement and a serious breach of trust. Soft limits are limits that can be broken, but only after it has been discussed with the submissive. These are things the submissive is not excited about doing, but will try if it seems to excite the dominant or causes some latent excitement and fear in the submissive as well. The safe word ends all play. The dominant has free reign as long as he or she stays within the set limits.
After a scene, many submissives go back to controlling their own lives. They slip in and out of the role of submissive in most cases. They continue to make their own decisions and even in a 24/7 situation will continue to control those areas of their lives that are off limits to the dominant. A submissive submits every time a scene starts or some activity where the dominant has been given control commences. The choice is hers or his every single time the dominant requires submission. A submissive can walk away from a scene because something is not working for them and completely slip out of role whenever they feel the need to discuss something about the situation with their dominant. This does not indicate a lack of the need to submit or serve though."
The Slaves:
"Now we turn to the slave - the consensual slave. The slave gives up all rights to make their own decisions, becomes the "property" of a Master or Mistress, takes on the limits of their Master or Mistress and does what is asked of them regardless of their feelings about it. Sometimes a slave will give up all rights to property of their own and will continue to work for the household, having to ask permission to use any money they earn. Slaves earn privileges and do not have rights. A slave submits once - when the collar is placed around his or her neck and when something is difficult, has to ask for help to accomplish it. Slaves are not kept in basements or locked away forever. They are strong people who have an intense desire to please another human being and now has the freedom to live that desire and not have to submit to anyone else but those chosen by their Master or Mistress. Taking on the limits of another means that slaves have to ensure that the limits of the dominant they are talking to matches theirs, as their only choice is choosing the dominant. It is responsible to make sure that the person does match them or their preferences.
Can a slave be sold to another? No, most Masters or Mistresses would never do that. Remember this is consensual slavery, a 24/7 arrangement with one person fully in control and another person obeying all the commands and wishes expressed by the other because both of them want this. There is often a lot of love involved in this type of relationship as well. There are mock slave auctions that are used as fund raisers in the community, and slaves would go and serve another man or woman for the evening, but they always go back to the person they chose to be with. Can a slave end a relationship? Yes, they can petition their dominant for release and no responsible dominant would say no if nothing could be done to heal the relationship."
"The difference between the two does not make one better than the other. I have seen countless submissives that serve as beautifully and perfectly as some slaves do and prefer not to be called slaves because of the negative connotation to that word. I have also seen many wannabe slaves struggle until they eventually found their place as submissives. It is difficult to devote one's entire life to another person but it is also incredibly rewarding." |
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Risk-aware consensual kink (RACK, also risk-accepted consensual kink) is an acronym used by some of the BDSM community to describe a philosophical view that is generally permissive of certain risky sexual behaviors, as long as the participants are fully aware of the risks. This is often viewed in contrast to Safe, sane and consensual which generally holds that only activities that are considered safe, sane, and consensual are permitted.
Philosophy
RACK's tenets are best described by a deconstruction of the acronym:
- Risk-aware: Both or all partners are well-informed of the risks involved in the proposed activity.
- Consensual: In light of those risks, both or all partners have, of sound mind, offered preliminary consent to engage in said activity.
- Kink: Said activity can be classified as alternative sex.
While "Safe, Sane and Consensual" (SSC) attempts to describe and differentiate BDSM from abuse in ways that are easy for the non-BDSM public to comprehend, RACK differs from it in that it acknowledges that nothing is ever 100% inherently safe. By acknowledging that what may be safe or sane to one person may not be considered the same to another, the RACK philosophy tends to be more inclusive of activities that others may consider as edgeplay. There is no "safe" or "not safe" within RACK, only "safer" and "less safe."
History
RACK was coined in reaction to dissatisfaction within the BDSM community regarding SSC. According to David Stein, the man who coined "Safe, Sane, and Consensual S/M" for New York’s Gay Male S/M Activists (GMSMA) SSC was only intended to be put forward as a minimum standard for ethically defensible S/M play, to establish a distinction between play between loving S/M partners and the public perception of sadomasochism which would be more accurately described as abusive behavior. Over time, as the phrase started spreading through the larger community and appeared on bumper stickers and T-Shirts, people started to associate "safe" with "risk-free," diluting the message. "Instead of asking people to think about what it means to do S/M ethically, and to make the hard choices that are sometimes necessary (if only between what’s right and what’s right now), many organizations today act as if these issues have all been settled, assuring us that sadistic or masochistic behavior not deemed SSC isn’t S/M at all but something else — abuse, usually, or domestic violence or poor self-esteem."
In 1999, Gary Switch posted The Eulenspiegel Society
's USENET
list "TES-Friends" proposing the term RACK out of a desire to form a more accurate portrayal of the type of play that many engage in. Noting that nothing is truly 100% safe, not even crossing the street, Switch compared BDSM to the sport of mountain climbing. In both, risk is an essential part of the thrill, and that risk is minimized through study, training, technique, and practice.
Variations
Not all members of the BDSM community adhere to one principle to the exclusion of the other. Some people subscribe to both mottos, using SSC as a description of the activities to any member of the general public, while using RACK as a description of the activities within members of a community. Still others define their own terms, the term PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink) in particular emphasizes the concept of taking personal responsibility for your actions, as well as an informed analysis of the risks. In some "old-guard" circles the term "Committed Compassionate Consensual" is circulated. |
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For those who need to learn the terminology go here.
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdglossary.html |
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I am one who feels that having a slave does not mean a Master should act like an ass and treat his slave like trash. Yes a slave is owned but a Master should be able to love him and when deserved reward him as well as the opposite. I do not believe that a slave should be treated as just a sex toy and that sex plays only a moderate part in a Master/slave relationship. I can be very strict and aggressive but I can also be a loving and caring Master who does enjoy the service, attention to detail, affection and other things that a slave can be capable of showing and in return I can show the same affection and appreciation of his service.
If you'd like to ask me anything I am willing to answer any questions as part of a dialog to find compatibilities. |
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For some this may be true others not so but in either case, I like it.
What is a slave? One persons opinion
A slave is a man with a special heart, that requires a connection with a Dominant Man or Woman for him to find completeness in life. Once a slave truly understands that his existence is more complete and fulfilled by being obedient to his Master/Mistress, everything else falls into place. A slave speaks in order to convey requested information or to request information about the Master/Mistress' intentions. Anything a slave is allowed to do for himself is a gift from his Master/Mistress, not a right, and this is a source of joy, not regret, because all pleasures are occasions to be thankful. When this aspect of the slave heart is understood, a slave starts to find peace in his life
by Madame Fiona.
Edited by Me adding the word Master and "One persons opinion".
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| Age: 25 |
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