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I am a Dominant bisexual single woman interested in meeting submissive men or women. I am not looking for a string of one night stands, ideally would like to meet someone who is interested in a TPE relationship. I am looking for a relationship that can turn into something committed, but that comes with time, trust and getting to know each other. I will not make promises that I'm not sure I'll keep. I strongly believe in being honest with my partners, and if I discover I have been lied to "Hell hath no fury" and all that. Although I believe in being honest with my partners, I am a HUGE believer in being discreet?in regards to everyone else. I am actively involved in my local BDSM community, but I have a professional job and a conservative extended family so discretion is a non-negotiable point.? ? I am STD free, tested regularly, and only play with others who are STD free as well. I have a long list of interests regarding kink, and am open to many different things. I have a strong sadistic side and enjoy exploring it with a partner who enjoys it as well. I am not a switch at all. I do NOT have a submissive side. I enjoy rough play, humiliation, sensual domination, many different aspects of the BDSM lifestyle.? ? I do NOT post face pics online due to my job and extended family, but I will be happy to exchange photos with you once I am sure you are real. If you are interested send me a message and we can discuss whether we might be compatible. I am a plus size woman, but neat and put together. ? What I'm ultimately looking for is someone who will live with me in a 24/7 TPE relationship. I expect to continue to work, and I expect them to also contribute financially. They must pull their own weight in that regard. I want someone who will be my partner in life, both vanilla and kink. Someone who has compatible or complimentary interests OUTSIDE the lifestyle, but who always respects my position as their Domme. I will treat them with the respect they deserve for their service, and I expect them to participate in events within the kink community. If you want to spend your life chained to the bed or in a cage, you are NOT who I'm looking for. I don't want someone who is just fantasizing behind the screen of their computer. I want someone who wants to live this in real life, and who is able to consider how a 24/7 TPE relationship works on a daily basis. ? I list myself as bisexual, but I understand that people have different ideas about what that means. For me it means that your body, your gender, is pretty much irrelevant. I care about who you are on the inside much more than the shell you live in. Looks aren't important to me at all, the only issue for me when it comes to the physical is that you have mobility. If you are so heavy that you have difficulty walking, that isn't going to work well with my interests. For me "chemistry" is more about compatibility than anything else. Gender, race, size...not terribly important to me. ? Which leads to the issue most people care about regarding my orientation. I tend to be serially monogamous. Mainly because I have limited free time to maintain serious relationships, so I invest my free time with the person I'm currently with. I'm looking for a long term, hopefully a life-long relationship. If I was in a committed relationship I would still scene with others (I sometimes play with friends) but there are limits to what I do with casual play partners. Would I be open to poly down the road? Possibly, but my primary relationship would always come first, and it would be discussed and negotiated in advance. I don't generally like to share when it comes to someone who is mine, so it's unlikely that I would allow my submissive to play elsewhere. But I have learned to never say never. ? I would like to be clear about something. I'm not being arrogant when I say that I get a lot of messages on here. I think it's less about me as a person or me as a Domme, and more about me being a woman who might have sex with someone or be their fetish delivery system. (As a friend puts it.) If you want to get a response from me, don't send a "hi, how are you" message. It's extremely unlikely that I will respond. What about me caught your attention? What are you looking for? What common interests do we have? Do you have hard limits that aren't on your profile? If you want a response, send me a note that shows you made an effort. I'm not a grammar Nazi, I won't freak out over a misspelled word. But show me that you think I'm worth a personal note rather than the "hey, how are you" that you sent to 30 other women. ? One final note: ?If you have a blank profile (or very minimal) it's HIGHLY UNLIKELY that I will respond to your message. ?I put significant effort into my profile because I'm serious about finding the right person. ?If you can't be bothered to put in any effort at all, or only enough to write a few lines, ?then I don't believe that you're serious and I won't waste my time on you. FILL OUT YOUR PROFILE AND INTERESTS LIST, PEOPLE. ?

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6/15/2015 10:39:22 PM
I just updated my age again, just FYI. :)

9/24/2014 4:12:48 PM
I will be out of touch for a few days, I'm in school right now. I may make a brief flyby to check my messages but I won't be able to send responses until early next week in all likelihood. So if you see that I read your message but didn't respond please don't feel offended. :)

9/21/2014 9:03:14 AM
I recently updated my profile to reflect what I am looking for at this point in my life. I corrected my age since the site doesn't automatically do so. So don't look at my sign up date and make me older than I am, lol. But seriously, I would love to talk to someone who is serious and knows what they want, and who can carry on a conversation. If I take the time to respond to your message and ask you several questions, don't send back 2 sentences and only answer one question. I am not interested in providing masturbatory material, I want to get to know you. Please don't waste my time.

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KinkySchoolGirl
 
 Age: 21
  Maine