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** Been Single for awhile, just haven't updated in awhile Update; 8/10/2016** I have been in
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** Been Single for awhile, just haven't updated in awhile Update; 8/10/2016**

I have been in this lifestyle for going on 32 yrs, since I turned 13, active since 18 (to preserve the safety of any partners I might play with, legalities-wise) and I'm familiar with just about ever subset out there. I've run munches, play parties, had more than one girl at a time, just played, scened, I am good with a flogger, and shibari, hypnosis, and psychological dominance, using things like pavlovian trigger conditioning to get a deeper understanding of My partners.
I also have many non-BDSM hobbies, including reading, drawing, role-playing games (played since age 7) Dancing, and singing karaoke (they call Me Doc, all around Springfield)

I am suffering Kidney Failure, and going through dialysis 3 days a week. I am on disability and combining My medical issues, financial issues, and being single has Me kinda depressed at times, I apologize if I might bring you down, I try not to. I'm an avid gamer and karaoke singer, and that often serves to cheer Me up, its good to have stress relievers and hobbies as anti-depressants, beats medication all the time.

Although I've come out quite vocally as a supporter of Poly relationships, as My medical issues increase, I must admit to being able to handle only 1 girl right now. I still think Poly is the natural state for humans, but a responsible Poly Dom knows there is work involved, and if they can't do the work, if they can't handle more than one sub, then they shouldn't try. I still have no jealousy issues, and will always make sure any girl I have gets what she needs, EVEN if that means allowing her to play with someone else for whatever reason (she likes girls, has a fantasy about 2+Men/gangbangs, wants to do some kind of play I'm personally not into or capable of, etc...) as long as I can trust My girl, and who she may be playing with, IE NO LIES, I'm fine with this, I'm secure enough in Myself to trust a girl I would collar to be honest and forthright with Me.

Reactive Dominance: New term I've been using for awhile, describes a style of Dominance where the Dom reacts to the pleasures and needs of the submissive in play...the submissive doesn't run the show, however, the Dom gets release and pleasure by the reactiveness of the submissive, so if she's enjoying, He's enjoying, and thus can vary the play types within the given limits of both partners. For instance, if My partner doesn't like needles, then I wouldn't get any pleasure out of using needles on her, with a partner that loves needles, and shows it, I would love to do this edge style play...a Reactive Dominant can do a lot more edgy play styles, given a submissive that is into them, while still fulfilling the Dom's needs. 

I AM A REACTIVE DOM, A DaddyDom, a Psychological Dom, and a Primal(Predator/Alpha) just to name a few roles I play in the lifestyle, the main 4 roles in fact. I have been in a Gorean style relationship, 1950s household, TPE/TPX, Master/pet, Vampire/childe, etc... I love the serious side of the lifestyle, but I also love the role-play side of things...roleplaying doesn't make the lifestyle a game, it just keeps it spiced up, and taking on another role can allow some extra 'freedom' from anxiety for those doing the role...when a sub becomes a 'pet' they can often express themselves more freely then in their more human guise **End Update**

<EDIT> Just got KIK: GamerSeuss

Journal Entries:
8/11/2014 10:45:23 AM
for updates on My medical condition, check here:

But general synopsis: I go to the Surgeon on Monday to see how much of My right foot/leg I will get amputated, and when the surgery will occur. 

4/30/2014 8:01:45 AM

I'll never understand the 'submissive' with the immediate gratification fixation. If you don't answer them right away, they are being ignored, but if they take a minute or two to answer you, then it's fine....doesn't that seem screwed up to anyone else?


I'm a flirt, I flirt like I breath...those who know Me know that. I also do not and will not take another online slave...that is another thing that has aggravated Me of late. I want someone who is real, someone I can touch and who wants to touch although I'll flirt, and might even play some online, I want it clear that I am NOT looking for an online romance. I want to be able to touch the one I love, and I want them to want to be with Me. We spend time not only doing lifestyle things, but vanilla things as well. Enjoy watching movies/TV together, just snuggling, supporting each other when we go through medical things (of which I have many)


Just ramblings I guess...things that get on My nerves. If I could be with the one I love, I could be happy all the time, no matter what things happen in My life, medically or otherwise. I need to feel that the person I'm with is real, and that means I need to see their face and touch their skin once in awhile...doesn't have to be often, just gotta know that they are there.


~Skin Hunger~

Touch Me, make Me feel your need,

Make Me ache inside,

Make Me know you love Me so,

don't even try to hide,

Feel caresses upon your skin,

Feel our pulses begin to race,

come with Me through skin on skin,

to a dreamlike special place,

feel the hunger, feel the fire,

feel the burning, primal desire,

feel the need, and want I feel,

because this love for you is real,

I want you, I need you, understand,

and express it with the touch of My hand!


~Seuss (May 4th, 2014)

My the 4th be with you (Happy Star Wars Day)

4/3/2014 5:26:51 PM

Depression easily overwhelms you...things like medical issues pile up, and being alone only magnifies the issues. Your friends who are there for you are the ones that stay through this bought of depression, and more importantly the ones who try to snap you out of it. It's easy for even the nicest person in your life to become Toxic, bringing everyone down with them.

I know I've been this toxic person to many of My friends, and for that I apologize. For those who don't know the details, I'm been fighting with medical issues for the last 3 years now, culminating last may in full on Kidney Failure. Add to that I've been single and it has depressed Me no end. Not just single, but no play partners either to relieve some of the frustration (although that's not always a bad thing, you should never Flog in anger or frustration)

I am trying to be more positive in life. The medical issues are still there, but I'm valuing those in My life that stand by Me through these issues. I DO have love in My life, even though it is often from people I don't get to see on a regular basis. 

The lesson here being love who you can, and make the most of that love. I'm not talking about going out and online collaring every girl/boy in site or accepting online in substitution for realtime...although that can actually work for some, so don't knock it if it works for them, or you....but value those who do care for you, regardless of how far away they are, how often they can see you, and be there for the trials in their lives too.

1/17/2013 10:41:42 AM

Ever get one of those days, when you've been talking to someone, seem to be getting along fine, then they block you, out of the blue? You wonder if its something you said, if they hit the block button by accident, if they were cheating and their other found out and told them to block you, or someone hacked their account and blocked you. The internet is such an uncertain medium.

10/6/2012 12:11:24 AM

Just to clear something up. If I add you to 'favorites' as the system calls it, I may or may not like something on your profile, but the reason I'm hitting favorites is to mark that I have seen that profile, so if, a year down the line,I come across it again, I know its one I've read before, and not a new profile.


CM doesn't have a system for doing this, so that is how I use the Favorites/Admirer feature personally. No offense is meant, and No, I won't take you off My list, no matter how nicely or argumentatively you ask/demand it, because that would defeat the purpose of the system in the first place.


Favorites/Admirers' list is for the person doing the viewing, the Friends' list is for the person being viewed, which is why you have a say in being added.


Just thought I'd clarify that.


Seuss (lordseussmd on YM)

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