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Hi there,

I hope everyone is finding what they seek. Life is too short to pretend to be what we arent. I have found a great partner, but we are still looking for friends for sure as one cannot have too many of those.

About me I am private, yet friendly. I value good conversation and friends.

In a play partner, I enjoy Someone who has both a caretaking and sadistic side. Who will spoil me with massages and make me feel oh so good, but who will also enjoy using me for their pleasure. Who will enjoy hearing me beg both from pleasure and pain. Any play partners must be comfortable playing with my guy there. He is straight, just fyi.

I am intelligent and loyal. You are too. The world around us would be surprised to learn of our desires. Select few will ever know. I value discretion and privacy.

I am not looking for games. Friends only would be fine. I am open to playing as friends but do expect a friendship that is more than just physical play. Be true to yourself and with others and hopefully you find what you seek.

It is interesting how often we skim through a list of interests and dont contact someone because there is or isnt a particular interest on there. Short of Hard Limits, I would be willing to do most anything my man wanted and expect him to do the same. I prefer the sub role but also enjoy switching.

Life is short. I have a man who makes me feel good about myself and lets me do the same for him. When two people who genuinely like each other put each other first, great things can happen. I believe that this philosophy should extend to my friendships as well.

I am not always perfect in this, but I am pretty good at it. I like having friends who I can be open about this side of me. Those I meet through work or church would never guess unless it is the random luck guess because I appear normal. Lol whatever normal means.

So what are my downsides? I can be cranky when hungry or overtired. Being sent to take a nap as discipline has happened before. Yes, I do flourish in a head of household domestic discipline relationship. I lived that way with my late husband and am doing so with my current man. I have been criticized before for this, but it works for me and helped make my marriage amazing.

I enjoy moderate bdsm to spice things up. What is moderate? Lol who knows... we can talk about that later but definitely more than a light pink. Back to the negatives. I have bad teeth which i intend to fix once I finish making repairs to my home. I do not let this interfere with me enjoying life or smiling, but I know that it is a downside. All I can say is it will be fixed.

Any questions? Please dont contact me if you are going to lie. It is a real downer. If you arent single etc just say so. I value honesty.

Thanks for reading.

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4/12/2018 8:42:36 AM
Six more days til tax season is done!! Have you filed your taxes yet?

3/31/2018 6:27:46 PM
So craigslist no longer offers personal ads.

3/29/2018 7:22:56 PM
Why is it that it seems easier to find a relationship as a Domme than as a sub?

3/27/2018 1:04:38 PM
So what does it take to be a true submissive? So many labels out there. I believe that I can be with the right man, but I can enjoy many roles. I just want to find a man who wants all the nilla and the kink. One who loves his God, family and America.

3/26/2018 7:09:23 PM
Today was a decent day. Not productive but good overall.

3/21/2018 5:04:19 PM
I have been messing up lately. Prob could use some help w that.

12/2/2017 1:20:02 PM
It can be frustrating to talk w someone gor a bit and they drop off. Im sure I have done this myself at some point. 

11/24/2017 4:28:41 AM
Really wish I had someone special. I have had a lot of stress lately and a sound spankig followed by cuddles would help.

11/23/2017 7:29:39 PM
So AFTER eating Thanksgiving dinner, I weighed myself. I am down to 230. It is not a huge change but I have lost 10 lbs each of the last 2 years. For health reasons, I should really be down a lot more.... But it is nice to see a positive trend. I have had a lot of stress lately and would enjoy somewhere warm w sand for a week or two lol. And winter is just starting. On the upside though, work keeps me busy while I wait to find my man, whomever he might be.

9/24/2017 7:16:57 PM
Men who see women as weak or inferior are overlooking treasure. Even if you believe in defined gender roles, one ought to appreciate quality when they have it.

9/23/2017 6:41:23 PM
I wish I knew the right things to do. I push people away sometimes bc i dont want to be hurt. Rather than looking at things from a positive side, I start looking at what isnt quite right. I dont want to be hurt but I think I have to overlook some things to get to know someone better. None of us are perfect.

9/4/2017 11:17:12 PM
Today someone close to me completely let me down. Not only did he fail to do what he promises, he wasted the time I had where I could figure out a plan b. Worse, he complained about me blowing up his phone. When you are hours late, it is not unreasonable for me to call. A valuable lesson was learned today. When my husband died, so many people promised to be there for me no matter what. Very few have followed through when i have asked. Im referring to things like changing my brake pads when I have a mechanic in the family or helping unclog a drain when I have a plumber in the family. My husband dropped everything he was doing to help friends and family so many times.... But now that he is gone, they cant be bothered. Needless to say, it is sad. Same people ask me to prepare their taxes year after year. Not happening next year.

8/31/2017 12:52:01 PM
What an emotional day!

8/29/2017 2:37:46 PM
Cowards send an insult as their first response and then block you so you cannot respond. To the one who feels I need to get a JOB lol I have worked for the same employer for 14 years and did 6 years in the army. I have no issues with working or supporting myself. I want a man to squish spiders at night. And if 2 incomes do make life easier than one, so much the better. I certainly am not looking for a man based on his wallet. I have never lived with a man that I did not marry and don't foresee that changing.

8/26/2017 8:26:35 PM
I am really craving a thorough spanking tonight. One that I cannot stop once started unless an emergency occurs. One where i can struggle and beg... The cries and tears continuing throughout and then more afterwards while I'm cuddled.

8/10/2017 8:57:00 PM
Sad tonight.

7/22/2017 6:12:16 AM
I have decided that perhaps it may be time to pay for one of those vanilla sites. Maybe I will find my guy on there poking around.... maybe he is hoping to stumble upon a nice, conservative but kinky lady to be his friend and more. I had a good friend tell me that guys wont take a girl seriously when he finds her on a kinky site. That they perceive them as not being the kinds of girls you take home to mom. Even though when they do find a sweet, vanilla girl many end up cheating if craigslist is any indication. I am astounded at how many unhappy at home, married men are on there. They make it clear they are cheating.... I will keep my man satisfied if he is willing to build our relationship and let mutual trust grow.

7/5/2017 9:44:08 PM
So... what are the things that many guys say interferes with compatability? I am looking for a serious relationship. I am not looking for casual sex. I have children. I am looking more for a best friend and kinky vanilla. I enjoy playing hard... been told it is too much and also too little. Who knows on this one. I think that is individual. I believe that God is important and I attend church regularly. I want a mate who will go with me. Those are the most frequent. Most of the time I think distance is a factor. 😀

3/4/2017 5:50:54 PM
I want to find a forever love. So many on here are looking for something temporary it seems. I get that... but to have kink, friendship, and vanilla intertwined would be heavenly.

2/27/2017 8:43:21 PM
For full disclosure, I can be a switch with the right person.... but if given a choice between the two roles, I am happiest having a stong and loving man to lead.

2/16/2017 11:15:03 AM
So, where does one go to find a relationship that will hopefully end in marriage that is kinky and yet wonderfully normal too? I am not a slave (except perhaps for a few roleplay hours), but am happiest with a man who will lead. I have switched in the past and still enjoy that, but if I were to choose one role, I am happiest being tied up, teased and spanked til I am begging from either pain or pleasure.

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XaileyForx
 
 Age: 20
  Washington D.C.