I discovered the D/s lifestyle roughly about 6 years ago. I have to admit I've always been curious but for the sake of My own pride wouldn't admit it in a prodominantly D/s or BDSM crowd or lifestylers. I being someone that originally sides with the underdog assumed all submissives or slaves were being abused although I found it "weird" that they were abused and allowed it. Instead of judging it and deciding to hate it. I decided to do research and truly experience it for Myself. So for 3 years I did. With the advice of other Top friends I'd made, I took on My first sub. I brought her to the chat place where I spent most of My online time. Trained her in My own way and became very close with My girl. We shared a relationship that was open and fully emotional, and mental for a long while. I discovered things about Myself. I am very strict and direct, but yet also very intune with others emotions and feelings allowing Me to also be affectionate when it was due.
I think it's important for all Tops to express both sides and not only the negative. Anyone with anger can attempt at being a Dom/Domme but thats not what it's all about. Infact it has nothing to do with taking control over someone's life. A true Dom/Domme knows how to manipulate the emotions and actions of a submissive to their benefit, but in such a way that the submissive is not abused but enligtened and in turn discovers things about themselves, suprised and always looking to new adventures.
I learned that not only was D/s apart of Me but that it was the best part of Me. It allowed Me to become open more so in My Real time about what I expected and needed from a partner. It helped Me step out of the boring vanilla life and since then I've never looked back. Over the years I've owned women and men.
What I'm seeking....................
I seek a emotionally devoted sub/slave one that is intune with his/her Mistress's mood and desires. One that learns quickly and likes learning new things. Takes pride in their belonging to Me , in their fragile hearts, being able to cry at My whim, and provide complete obedience and dedication. Someone that has experience in web design or graphics is a plus but not manditory. (Can be creative in their own way) I like for My slave to be creative like Myself. Speech restrictions, proper behavior and posture when addressing this Mistress or I will, not even acknowlege you. In a nutshell, I require...................... the best.
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