What's Up With This Guy? - - -
The content of this may change as my world changes. If you find yourself reading this, you can assume it's updated and accurate.
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I've been meaning to write this for awhile now, but my fears and inhibitions have always managed to get in my way. I finally decided that it's really the responsible thing to do, so here's the list of rules that my wife and I have decided upon for my playtime with other people.
A quick note of explanation, yes I am happily married. Yes my wife knows about what I do and yes she is happy for me to get my kicks with other people. My relationship with my wife is the single most healing, nurturing, empowering and loving relationship I have ever experienced, and that includes my relationships with my family and friends. My wife is the most important person in my world and as such, she trumps everyone and everything. She is my hero. She's also just a kick-ass rockstar of a person who improves the world around her. In case you're curious, yes she is magical.
We've discussed my extracurricular activities in great detail and have come up with this list of rules that both of us are quite happy with. The list has changed, grown and shrunk over the years, but this is the current version. So, if all this hasn't scared you away, let's go check'em out together, shall we?!
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1. I cannot kiss you on the mouth. You cannot kiss me on the mouth.
2. I cannot go down on you, even with a dental dam. I would prefer you not to go down on me, I genuinely don't like it.
3. I cannot penetrate you, with any part of my body.
I would prefer not to be penetrated by you or by any proxy or agent of yours. This isn't a rule my wife and I have discussed, it is a hard limit of mine.
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That's it! Wow, looking at that list I can see why I was afraid to post it. I mean, that's just how it is, and I don't want anyone to operate under any false assumptions when dealing with me, so it's really important that this finally got posted.
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