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	I am a possessive sadist, who enjoys controlling the environment around me (and it is a necessity for my work). If you want to understand that more, I am INTJ and a Scorpio (and it allows mental entertainment when I am experimenting on someone). It is not enough to discipline a slave into doing what I want, and how I want the slave to do it, but to make the slave think and feel the way I desire. I enjoy indulging my curiosity on how well someone can endure pain before passing out. I take pleasure in crawling into a slave's mind and finding all they desire, and all that terrifies them the most, and using that terror as both a club, and a surgical tool, to carve away the slave's sense of self or just to expose her to what she hasn't known about herself (either way gives me a mental rise). Anyone can give a good fuck, but there are not many that take the time to learn a slave so completely that he can have her jumping from being touched by anything, or leave the slave shaking uncontrollably from just a sentence or two. Very few out there seem to take the time or patience to properly crawl into a slave's mind to find everything deliberately forgotten or hidden. It seems a lost art in mental bondage. In the long term, I'm actively seekin a slave that actually has training/education in being a 24/7 domestic slave who is capable of cooking and cleaning to my specifications. Take note, that any mammal with functional digits can be trained to cook from a recipe, but a real cook can change the recipe to vary the flavor without losing texture, consistency, or quality of the recipe. I prefer a slave with some skill in landscaping or botany, but it is more imporant to find a slave who is self-motivated to ensure the home is handled with precision. If needed, I can go into greater detail in this area. What am I Not looking for? I am Not looking for little boys, pretending to be women online. I do not mind actual females who are timid or faint of heart. They can be fun to torture in the short-term but only while chained and unable to flee. The slave will prove she is whom the slave claims to be. The slave will prove the skills she possesses, and will prove the details on her profile, before I make any consideration. About me: Dominant 100% Sadist 93% Experimental 50% Bondage 29% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 14% Masochist 14% Vanilla 0% Switch 0% Submissive 0% An unending number of slaves claim to want older, and more confident dominants, but many do not take the time to adjust the bulk mail filters to allow for older dominants to send mail. Those slaves need to grow a brain, learn how-to, then take the time to adjust the mail filter settings to account for what you are looking for on this site. Another issue is that there are different aspects of personality that separate a submissive from a slave. Most are within the personality and thinking process. I use these traits in identifying the differences between a submissive and slave. Read, identify the differences, and learn which set of traits is truly in your personality. Traits of a Submissive: While a submissive does find fulfillment in serving another or others, it is not her sole purpose in life. A submissive may find fulfillment, enjoyment, or bliss being in a particular environment or situation where she fulfills her own desires (a Pet, a Farm Animal, a Domestic, a Cum Hole, Pain Slut, Torture Victim, etc) while she is fulfilling the desires of her Dom/Master. A submissive may not always know what she looks for, desires, needs, or fears. A submissive may subconsciously alter her wants and needs to because she is consciously (or subconsciously) running, or hiding, from the truth about herself. A submissive may have hard limits of what they will not do, or allowed done to the submissive. A submissive may also have masochistic tendencies and need a cruel or abusive Sadist that will not be concerned with her wellbeing (or at least not appear to be concerned with her wellbeing). A submissive may lie, or hide secrets from her Dom, or is incapable of being in a situation where she must remain open and honest at all times. A submissive often has desires she wants to try, and may seek a Dom that will fulfill those desires. Some may seek a Master for long-term fulfillment of those desires. A submissive may reserve the right to make decisions about her future (short-term or long-term). Some are better at self-preservation or decision making than others. A submissive may walk away (or escape) from her Dom/Master, because a submissive does not possess the desire or security of being owned by another. A Submissive often tends to seek varying degree of short-term relationships. Whether consciously knowing it, or whether it is a subconscious desire. In either instance, a submissive ends up drawn to what will turn out to be a short-term situation. Often Doms use a submissive for different aspects of sex, or other Basic Uses. In this type of environment, either the Dom or submissive may end the relationship to seek different indulgences or for fulfilling other wants or needs (or either just grows bored with the situation). Traits of a Slave: The primary desire of a slave is to be useful and have purpose for her Owner or Master. An owned slave who is useful is complete, where an unowned slave feels less than whole, or is missing her other half. A slave finds fulfillment, enjoyment, and bliss in serving others, and being useful to her Master. At the same time, a slave finds security and comfort being owned, controlled, and monitored by a Master. Some slaves can receive a set of regular tasks and left unattended or ignored, others do not possess the capability (due to lack of intelligence, education, or attention span). Some slaves have the ability to be dominant to other slaves in a household. Often these make useful head slaves to keep other slaves organized, trained, and can audit the work of other slaves to ensure they meet the desires of their Owner. A slave may also have masochistic tendencies and need a cruel or abusive Sadist that will not be concerned with her wellbeing (or at least not appear to be concerned with her wellbeing). Some Masters can be that uncaring, but most Owners may want the masochist for long-term abuse and must have some concern with the slave’s long-term wellbeing. A true slave does not lie, hide secrets from her Master, and often prefers a situation where she can live openly without fear of her past, or needing to hold back if the Master wants to be informed. When unowned, most slaves usually end up making bad decisions regarding themselves or the direction of their future. It is not surprising as most slaves need guidance, or a controlled environment where their only decisions they make are what will be best to fulfill their Owner’s wants or needs. While some slaves never consciously grasp this aspect, most (if not all) slaves desire a responsible Master to ensure the slave’s long-term usefulness, health, and welfare; while the slave lives out her life to fulfill the Master’s wants and needs (both short and long-term). Slaves do not have hard limits, but the more responsible Masters will take the time to discover what a slave fears (or dreads) to do, and what may stir the slave’s hopes. Not every slave enjoys the thought in being used in certain ways, and enjoys Masters that identify those aspects in a slave. As for you, some of you desire long-term ownership, some are only looking for short-term play, but for any submissive or slave to be noticed, she needs to include some particulars in a profile. Both a slave and submissive should include not one, but multiple pictures in different settings and environments (including casual). Most Masters prefer seeing a slave in both real environments, as well as posed positions. Too many just put up a posed picture (including weakling guys pretending to be a different female). Including both types of pictures (including your collarspace name in one of those) helps separate your image from fakes. The slave or submissive should include a list of skills/abilities/training/education that would benefit a Master/Dom for both short-term or long-term use. The slave should include a list of training/education to maintain the Owner's home while he is at work, or what training the slave has that would be useful as a supplemental income for the Master. Any baboon can be taught to dust and vacuum/sweep a home that is already clean, as maintenance is far easier, but a slave needs to prep her Master's next day clothing, change out winter/summer apparel for her Master. The slave must notice and monitor potential household issues and report these to her Master with a desire for how it should be resolved, identify water damage, or drafts that may present issues during the winter. Essentially more than sweep and vacuum. Also, any idiot can cook from a recipe and instruction, but it does take skill and understanding of cooking to effectively substitute ingredients (such as ones the Master dislikes or may be allergic) while keeping texture and consistency of the recipe. If the slave or submissive specifies a desire to be a pain toy, she should include what regular experience the slave has for pain/abuse. If the slave or submissive specifies a desire to be a sex toy, victim, hucow, etc., she should include latest/frequency of STD/HIV checks, as well as previous experience (if any) and in what environment. Most slaves neglect to include if she has any children, as many Doms only use a slave for short-term, they do not care if a slave has children. Masters will want to know in advance before deciding if the slave is worth the keeping, especially if the Master ends up being responsible for the children too (as some Masters have children already and do not want more, while others do not consider it when deciding on long-term ownership). The slave should specify if she is able to be bred, as some Masters may want future offspring (if the slave proves useful for other regular household tasks), or to produce future slaves to be raised trained and sold. Not including any of these, makes the slave only noticeable by short-term usage Doms, and younger Masters only looking for short-term usage. Most long-term Masters tend to prefer the slave identify how the slave will benefit the slave's Owner both short-term, and long-term. Now that you have been educated, move your sorry excuse for a waste of flesh, and update your profile to avoid anyone wondering if that posed picture was from a magazine, and if the profile is pre-fab. You want to be noticed so your future Master may find you useful. And remember to spell better, and use some measure of proper grammar. How you type is often as important as the content, for those of us that are looking for long-term slaves.

3/5/2014 10:16:04 AM

A disappointment is finding out a masochist professing to enjoy the extreme, starts begging for a session to stop after only ten minutes into the session. I did not have time to enjoy letting out my darker side before the begging started, and then she passed out before I finished removing the attachments.

If the rest of the pain sluts and extreme masochists on the site are as thin-skinned, or overly sensitive to sensory stimulation, I may not see any enjoyment from the screams of agony, or the whimpering silence from those attempting to endure an entire session.

10/22/2013 1:54:25 AM

Too many slaves seem to have delusions that they have no vulnerabilities or fears (the submissive as well). Expose one to the more obvious, and they cower and hide in order to reaffirm their self-delusions again. How can a submissive expect to grow or improve when she would rather remain trapped behind those fears and hide behind delusions than work on overcoming those fears? While it is a source of some entertainment, I really need to keep score of how many are too meek but try to appear daring until they face the truth.

So timid, so useless.

8/9/2012 2:58:34 PM

I had several inquiries about people wanting to be able to identify a fake from a real person, so I wrote up a little step-by-step guide to help you find the truth from anonymity behind the keyboard. It will provide you with methods to verify if the person you are talking to is providing real information, or if they are a fake. It offers different options to verify another’s geographical location (Country, State, as well as County and City depending on the information). I also provided detail instructions on how you can search for a person with minimal disclosed information (without paying a penny) to verify the information they give you. I even included an example on verifying the truth and finding a fake.

I’ve not gotten feedback on whether it is simple enough to use, or if I need to dummy it down more, but once I have sufficient feedback, I’ll provide a link so people can use it as a reference source. With a little luck, this will aid in cropping out the fakes as they pop up and start interacting with people involved in the lifestyle.

Do I have any additional sacrifice willing to read the pages and provide feedback while trying out the information to see if they are actively talking to a real person, or if they are receiving false information from someone?

8/6/2012 2:44:14 PM

It is amazing how many people want an honest dominant, but are less than honest with a dominant. Too many are concealing what part of the planet they actually live on, and going out of their way to avoid being detected. Also, too many people trying to work being a submissive as a business.

Some of the easier signs to identify those hiding the truth. If they do not have a webcam or access to one. If they are not willing to send a picture of themselves through any instant messenger. If they will not receive a picture of you through any instant messager. There are other ways to trace the accuracy of a person information, but these are the easiest.

Why? Sending a file (including a picture) allows a direct connection between you and the other person (it doesn't matter who sends it). With the direct connection, the other person's IP address can be discovered, and that can be used to identify the general geographical location on the planet. Webcam stream can work in a similar fashon, however the webcam will also give the person a look at who is behind the keyboard (to ensure it is the person who they claim to be). If you are reading this journal and want to learn how to verify the real people from the fakes, send me a message, and I'll fill you in with the details.

Many "businesses" looking to exploit people, will avoid sending images through instant messenger. They will press to send the image through email in order to hide their actual location from you, as well as hide the fact that they are a business not a real person. Lately, I've come across too many claiming to be female slaves, but no information on their profile, or that they provided directly to me, was anywhere close to the truth. As discouraging as it can be, I'm still hunting for the right domestic slave, or caged victim to torture.

8/14/2011 4:32:03 AM

It is amusing, but not surprising, how many women seek domination but cower out from the simplest of mental tasks (like disclosing a little about yourself to see if you are what I'm looking for). It just means another person to ignore, and one less potential.

What becomes a little surprising is how many people claim to be women, and want to be on your IM contacts in order to spam java code at you, to turn your IM into an email spam setup. There are easy ways to spot you no matter how good a programmer you think you are.