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I didn't think I would have to say this, but I'm only interested in women... single available women. So if you aren't female, don't message, don't add me to favorites, and respect my choices. |
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I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm as good once, as I ever was. |
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Looking for a partner here is a lot like fishing... some days the big ones just aren't biting, no matter what bait or lure you use. That's when you know it's either time to go fish somewhere else, or just call it a day and go home empty-handed. |
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Dominance and romance are like peanut butter and jelly... sometimes they go great together... but sometimes? Sometimes you only want peanut butter... |
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Off to the movies at Regal... only one person could get me to see Minions 3... and she has been asking since the first commercial for it... Later! |
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Give me a deep conversation or a passionate debate... over brainless beauty any day... Someone who makes me reconsider my long-held beliefs and challenges my mind is a person I can easily fall for. There is no doubt that I'm a sapiosexual. |
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It is past time for a new entry here... but life changes and sometimes there is no time for self and you must focus on the needs of others. And for now... I am mostly focused on giving my 6 yr old granddaughter a stable home... with stable friends... and a grandpa that adores her and always protects and nurtures her. This is your competition for my time, and a competition in which you can only hope to compete but not win. with that said
I am starting to refocus on the world around me, looking for someone that will not only understand the role a submissive plays in the life of her Dominant, but also understands the role she would play in a little girl's life... a very jealous little girl most times. If this isn't for you... no harm... no foul... but please be honest and don't waste my time or break a little girl's heart... that is unforgivable.
Well...the little princess wants her time before bed... perhaps I shall return later... it'll depend on whether the nightmares invade her dreams or not... two years now and still she has fear of being abandoned... |
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Submissive... only means that you are strong enough to let someone else teach you.... |
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The holidays are almost over... and I find the spiral into darkness is slowing as I refocus on a new year with new opportunities and possibilities. Not that I expect much to change, because change would likely require that I change and I don't expect I shall make too many changes in my environment willingly... I am still recovering from the last whirlwinds of change when I got a bug up my arse and moved from Ohio and all I knew... to Texas. Still... I needed a change and it was a complete change. I would like to say "Ladies watch out!" but more likely it will take entirely too much of any woman's time just to gain my passing notice. I don't intentionally mean to be hard and cold... but warmth, tenderness, and any hint of softness has long been gone and it would take a Herculean effort to return it... but I genuflect... Scrooge did change overnight... but in fairness, it took several ghosts to do it. I don't see any such ghosts in my future.
You have been forewarned, so there is no reason to feign surprise if you are ignored, forgotten, or simply dismissed... I don't claim to be nice. My only guarantee is the cold cruel truth... and that truth may not be what you want to hear........... |
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Someone said something that has started to make me think, and I simply want a woman's opinion... if a man visits your profile here, do you expect him to at least say hello? |
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Before anyone has to ask, there is no woman that has accepted me as I am. These words are as a whisper in the wind, a dream of things that I hope and desire. They are my promises....
To that woman that would consider me as her partner, her friend, her lover and her master... I shall cherish you... cherish you as the woman you are. Not only are you submissive and responsive to my every need, but you are also warm, intelligent, caring, and sensitive. I am not perfect, but I shall try to act wisely and in your best interests in all things. If I falter, I shall find my path again and apologize to you. I shall always guide, teach and support you in reaching your goals. I shall help you be all that you can be.
I am patient and kind, knowing that all things take time, but do not mistake my kindness for weakness. If you fail, I fail as well. I am unused to failure and do not accept it lightly. I shall continually push you forward and be there should your steps falter.
When I become angry, I step back and regain control, before rationally dealing with the source of my disappointment. I do not act in haste or with malice and will always listen, before I decide what must be done. My actions will always be to correct and rarely to punish. My intent is to build you up by always encouraging and never belittling.
I am open and honest, endeavoring to build trust in me. I never want you to fear me. I realize who and what I am, and will never use my dominant nature to make you feel small or inferior. You are submissive and hold the true power and strength in our relationship. I am Dominant, and without you, I am lessened. I am only a shadow of what I can be. I will treasure you, knowing that without you, I am little more than unfulfilled desire.
Lastly, I promise to love and cherish you, not only because you are mine, but because I am also yours. I shall always cherish the light in your eyes when we are together. I am for you, and you are for me.
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Happy birthday to me...
Happy birthday to me...
Happy... um... fuck it... what's so happy about it.... |
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I have finally found peace... and I refuse to let anyone fuck it up.... |
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Some days I'm the knight... some days I'm the dragon... guess it's up to the brave to find out which... |
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Hmmm... so if your picture(s) look like they were taken in a hotel room... what am I supposed to think? That you're a girl I want to meet? Please... think about the image that you project...
And if you want to be sleezy and easy? Just keep going to the next profile... I'm not the man you are looking for... |
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When you have someone special... and you lose them... it hurts... and sometimes you never get over it... I'm having one of those kind of nights... please take care of those you love... and always let them know just how much you love them... |
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I am an ENTJ...
ENTJs are natural born leaders. They live in a world of possibilities where they see all sorts challenges to be surmounted, and they want to be the ones responsible for surmounting them. They have a drive for leadership, which is well-served by their quickness to grasp complexities, their ability to absorb a large amount of impersonal information, and their quick and decisive judgments. They are "take charge" people.
There is not much room for error in the world of the ENTJ. They dislike to see mistakes repeated, and have no patience with inefficiency. They may become quite harsh when their patience is tried in these respects, because they are not naturally tuned in to people's feelings, and more than likely don't believe that they should tailor their judgments in consideration for people's feelings. ENTJs, like many types, have difficulty seeing things from outside their own perspective. Unlike other types, ENTJs naturally have little patience with people who do not see things the same way as the ENTJ.
ENTJs are very forceful, decisive individuals. They make decisions quickly, and are quick to verbalize their opinions and decisions to the rest of the world. The ENTJ who has not developed their Intuition will make decisions too hastily, without understanding all of the issues and possible solutions. On the other hand, an ENTJ who has not developed their Thinking side will have difficulty applying logic to their insights, and will often make poor decisions. In that case, they may have brilliant ideas and insight into situations, but they may have little skill at determining how to act upon their understanding, or their actions may be inconsistent.
The ENTJ has many gifts which make it possible for them to have a great deal of personal power, if they don't forget to remain balanced in their lives. The are assertive, innovative, long-range thinkers with an excellent ability to translate theories and possibilities into solid plans of action. They are usually tremendously forceful personalities, and have the tools to accomplish whatever goals they set out for.
yeah... come find me! lol |
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I found this on another profile... and it made so much sense... especially in today's world...
"Although i agree that endless e-mails and chatter is time consuming, i do not and will not talk to anyone on the phone until after an initial meeting has taken place. then and only then will i speak on the phone, once we've both agreed we wish to pursue our interests together." -- ciaobella69
I have two children at home... and I wouldn't dare put them at risk of a stranger... maybe it's my savvy, but you can find anyone with a telephone number... |
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For those of you that follow... yes... I got a year older today... |
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Okay... Most women do not think it is acceptable to befriend them, or to even "admire" them without at least speaking to them once... So what makes it different for me?
I would appreciate some kind of acknowledgement of my existence, some brief form of introduction, or even a simple "hello" before you add me to your list of favorites. Did you forget that I am a Dominant male and you are supposed to be a submissive female? Did you get lost somewhere on your way? Approach properly or not at all... it really does not stand you in good stead to take free liberty with me... |
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Am I perfect? No... Will I ever be perfect? Never...
But... I will be undeniably perfect for one special person... the woman whose heart, mind, and body I hold close to my own.... |
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Perhaps women will learn in time that not all men are attracted by their girly parts... some men want to see a face... and preferably a face that is wearing a smile... |
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Are you curious?
Is it time for you to indulge in your darkest desires?
Do you wonder what how intense something can be?
Are you ready for me to take you to places you've only dreamed of going?
I am:
Disciplined not disorganized
Outspoken not rude
Confident not cocky
Precise not variable
Intelligent not conceited
Expressive not closed
Happy not medicated
Creative not conforming
Imaginative not dull
Spiritual not religious
Artistic not artsy
Chivalrous not entitled |
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There are many, many submissives here, and I will not randomly contact you, unless I am extremely impressed with the way you present yourself. And nudity, although interesting in shape and form, does not impress me. Feel free to contact me if you believe you are exceptional and deign that I have missed notice of you... |
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I think it is time for another break... Sometimes I just don't "get it" and maybe I need to step back and try to understand. For those that have offered friendship honestly and sincerely, you know where to find me... for others? well... the jury is still out, and maybe you will be found guilty and wanting...
When you chase the light,
Be careful when you catch it.
For it just may burn your fingers... |
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I have returned... if only for a short while to once again regain my direction. The last year has been a year of more changes... and I find myself back where I started with one more mistake notched into my belt.
Perhaps the next time I find someone, if... I find someone... it will be a forever thing, and not a "just until I find someone better" thing. I am not perfect, but I am patient and will work with you to make you into all you can be... and into someone that I would be proud to call mine...
And to those who have not forgotten me... I shall share my writings with you once again... the stories of passion and pain... of lust and lost... and of a Man and his woman... |
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Even if I don't find someone... I'll still be happy with who I am and with my friends around me... I'll make the best of what life gives me. |
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Sometimes you need to stop and look at the road ahead of you to see where it is leading you... it is the only way to know if you need to turn around and walk back the way you came... |
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A good man knows...
How to respect what he is freely given…
He knows when she needs his support…
He knows when she needs his heart…
And He knows when she needs to be reminded that she belongs only to him...
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