Closed for maintenance.
I will try to be as clear as I can. I'm real. I'm looking for real life. If we get into any type of a relationship it will be a very short time before I ask you to talk on the phone or otherwise show that you're who you represent yourself to be. Should this be too onerous for you, I will be more than happy to accept a, "Sorry- not interested," in exchange for not taking up my time. If that's not clear enough, we wouldn't be a good match, as you would obviously be too stupid to be my partner.
Until that call, etc, I'm going to assume that you're likely lying to me for your own reasons. Not a hit on any individual, just a reflection of the fact that more than 90% of the people I interact with here lie on a consistent basis to me.
I'm into controlling and humiliating my partners for their happiness.
Here's the thing. I'm an asshole. I enjoy doing things that make you shudder, stutter, and want to sink into the floor, especially when I'm making you humiliate yourself. It's what turns me on, and I will push to see how far I can go with you. Having said that, my priorities with respect to bdsm are my partner's safety, my safety, my enjoyment/pleasure, my partner's enjoyment/pleasure, in that order. You will be protected from harm, if not from degradation. I've been on the net for many years, and while I've made many dear friends online, I'm looking for a partner or partners in real life - so if we start chatting, expect a request for, at a minimum, a voice conversation within a week or so. I have several interests, but they're better shown through chatting.