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| I am a slave who can switch with 18 years of BDSM experience and enjoy masks, foot worship, bondage, and verbal humiliation. I am monogamous and seeking the same in a Mistress.
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What you do affects your friends and family
When you do stupid shit, like smoke cigarettes, excessively drink, or do hard drugs, you're not just hurting yourself mentally, physically, and emotionally. You're hurting your friends' and family's mental, physical, and emotional well being. If you care anything about them, you'll stop. Most people are selfish and only care about themselves without really caring about themselves. If you want to throw your life away that's your sad right, but you do not have the right to make anybody feel guilty or pain for your stupidity. I call this terrorism of loved ones.
~ Black Socks |
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How to handle rejection
No matter how terrific a guy you might be, you will be rejected a lot on Fet or CS. Most people are stupid and not serious. Never take it personally and don't drag the conversation on. Send a message. If she doesn't respond, send another after a month. If still no response, send one more message and politely ask her why she may not be interested. No matter how nice you are, some women are miserable assholes with no manners and they will block you for nothing. The block button is to be used only to stop harassers, not to block somebody simply because you don't like the color of their eyes, but try telling these women that. As a guy, you need to understand that making a connection here or on CS takes A LOT of time and effort. Most inquiries will be a waste of time full of rude replies, unanswered questions, and polite letdowns. But no matter how many times she rejects you, keep it classy and be a gentleman. Resist the temptation to straighten her ass out, no matter what she said. Just delete the conversation and move onto the next one. If you're really a terrific guy, eventually you're going to hit pay dirt, but don't be stupid, break the rules, and have the Caretakers delete your account, or you may miss the chance.
~ Black Socks |
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Fetlife is a social-networking AND dating site
That's right. Fetlife is a social-networking AND dating site. Period. Anybody who thinks Fet is not for dating is a moron. Plenty of people use it for dating every day. And why would anybody intentionally be against dating somebody from Fet when they themselves are a Fetlifer? Talk about a hypocrite. What you're really saying is you're a loser and not good enough to date me, which would also make yourself a loser for being a Fetlifer, too. I'm a phenomenal person, and I use Fetlife for dating. Not everybody on the Internet is a loser. Yes, many, many people are, but they're also offline all around you, and there are a few keepers out there, too. It's not fair to let the losers ruin it for us winners. It's never wise to intentionally limit your chances at finding love, a good friend, or a kink partner. So why would somebody use Fetlife for dating? They're a very private person who does not attend munches and doesn't know any local kinksters but are trying to find a kinky partner on a kinky site.
~ Black Socks |
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Never mention your exes to your nextes
I absolutely hate when a woman compares me to her ex-boyfriend and says you remind me of my ex, or my ex was into that. I am not your ex. I am a hell of a lot better. Focus on us and stop setting us up for failure.
~ Black Socks |
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The foolish female
"The woman who is so lucky as to gain the King's attention but rejects him and instead chooses to complain of his brilliance and success is not a Queen. She is a fool."
~ Black Socks |
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Is there something wrong with me for loving these taboo things?
If you're like me and get turned on by thoughts of stalking, blackmail, kidnap, r_pe, home invasion, and robbery (all play), and have ever asked yourself, "Is there something wrong with me for loving these taboo things?", the answer is no. Millions of people have them, but not everybody discloses them. They turn you on because you associate the dark words with photos, movies, videos, and art that play over and over again in your head, and you have attached positive feelings to those sadistic visions. For every negative, there's a positive. For example, being kidnapped or r_ped by an unattractive crazy stranger is not sexy. It's scary and torturous. However, being consensual-nonconsentingly kidnapped and r_ped by your partner is incredibly sexy and romantic.
Many of us like to act bad, but that doesn't mean we really are. It's like a movie. We're actors and actresses playing a role. Once the scene is over, we snap out of character, and you'd never know we were the same person.
~ Black Socks |
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Dumb things Dommes say
I won't share a pic with you.
Real slaves have no limits.
I want a real loser and somebody with no personality, character, or backbone.
I want a human toilet.
I require tribute with your first or third message.
I hate bad grammar and spelling, but mine is no better.
I say I'm intelligent when I'm really incompetent.
I think I'm really a Goddess because I said so.
If you think you're a smart person, than BDSM is not for you.
You must follow my rules even though you're not my slave.
You must call me Mistress, Goddess, or some other power title when I'm not your Owner.
This is all about me and the hell with you.
A true slave doesn't need or want anything except to please their Owner.
I don't use safe words or safe objects.
I don't have sex with my slave.
You're exactly what I said I want, but I'm not interested.
You're too smart to be a slave.
You do whatever I say, no matter how stupid it may be.
I don't use Skype, Yahoo Messenger, some other IM client, or speak on the phone.
I can't be bothered to read a few paragraphs of well-written info.
I really wanna make this whole D/s thing happen, when they disappear.
I expect complete effort but am lazy as can be.
I don't do anything online, yet here I am online.
You live too far away. You sound perfect for me. You could be my perfect partner, and even though you could visit or relocate, or I could do the same, I'm not smart enough to find out.
I really like you, but I need months of alone time.
You didn't answer my question, when you answered it in your last reply.
Don't waste my time, but I'll sure waste yours.
I'm not interested after just one message.
I don't check my messages, or go to my website or somewhere else to contact me.
Don't ask any questions, just answer them.
I don't want money, but there's a fee for this and that.
I don't use Fet or CS for dating.
I don't accept friend requests from people I've never met in person.
I don't meet anybody in person.
I won't talk on the phone.
You will give me your banking info, including username, password, and credit/debit card numbers.
I love to see you suffer and eat crumbs for me, while I take all your money.
You need a professional Domme.
You sound great, but I'm not interested.
I'm this way or into this thing and I'm looking for the same, even though you sound exactly like what I'm looking for.
You're too smart and successful to be a slave.
I will strip you of your name, dignity, clothes, thoughts, identity, personality, and past so I can reprogram you into a complete dummy, like me.
I demand you send me a face pic with your first message, or it will be unread and deleted, or not replied to, when I myself do not have a face pic on my profile, or even offer to send one in return.
I will trash talk you, but I am a coward and will block you so you can't fight back.
~ Black Socks |
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Tell me
Tell me...
You'll wear a black ski mask, not lots of make-up.
You own me, not love me.
You'll gag me, not kiss me.
To sniff your feet, not perfume.
I'm your slave, not boyfriend or husband.
You'll humiliate me, not romance me.
You'll lock a collar around my neck, not put a ring on my finger.
You'll dress me in a gimp uniform, not a business suit.
You'll order me to do something for you, not ask me to do it.
It's time to r*pe me, not make love to me.
You'll tie me up, not tuck me in.
You'll hit me, not hug me.
You'll yank my leash, not hold my hand.
You'll ask me to crawl to your pretty feet, not run into your arms.
To eat from a dog bowl on the floor, not a plate on the table.
You'll kidnap me, not date me.
You'll stalk me, not like me.
You'll enslave me, not marry me.
You'll break into my house, not knock on the door.
You'll pull my hair, not run your fingers through it.
You'll buy me shackles, not jewelry.
You'll hold the key to my cock cage, not my heart.
You'll spank me, not thank me.
You'll wrestle me, not cuddle me.
To get in my cage, not the bed.
You'll wrap me around your pretty little finger, not give me the middle finger.
You'll blindfold me, not look into my eyes.
You'll control my orgasms, not ask me to cum.
You'll use your strap-on and peg my ass, not squeeze it.
Obedience train me, not tell me how to treat you.
You'll mold me into your perfect pet, not the kind of man you want.
You'll take what you want, not ask me for it.
You won't give me a choice to say no, you'll blackmail me.
You'll control all aspects of my life, not to get control of my life.
You'll rob me, not give me presents.
My penis is too small to please you, not my penis is big enough.
I'm your servant, not stud.
To go make you a sandwich, not have me ask you to make me one.
You'll keep me hidden, not flaunt me.
You'll never let me escape, not you're free to leave anytime you want.
~ Black Socks |
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| Age: 42 |
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