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BigBadHowler

Friends:
I am happily owned and not looking for anything else at this time.   I am a person first and a submissive second. If I can't connect with you as a person, if we can't be friends, I am not going to connect with you as a submissive. And that would just be a tragedy, no?   Anywho....   Hi! Welcome to my profile. I am a quirky, quiet, silly submissive male, seeking a female dominant who is intelligent, creative, and a good person. I am open to meeting people from all different backgrounds, but those are my essential prerequisites: intelligent, creative, and a good person. I am a sapiosexual and a semi-brat. In order to submit to you, I need to respect you. Intelligence is a fetish of mine. Creativity is a fetish of mine. That's just the way it is, and I certainly don't expect everyone to have the same fetishes as I do.   I'm a bit of a geek, and I am always delighted to find a domme who can connect me more deeply to geek culture as well: Magic: the Gathering, fantasy and science fiction literature, that sort of thing. I am an avid reader, and hope my domme will be as well.   Extra points if you are a creative writer. I think reading someone else's writing is one of the most intimate experiences a person can have. Think about it. The act of reading involves permitting an outside consciousness to enter your brain and direct your thoughts, taking your imagination and your emotions into the palm of their hand. How hot is that? Maybe that's why I enjoy BDSM as well.  
10/23/2016 6:34:42 PM
This is up in my journal as well, but for those of you in the peanut gallery who prefer starting with the journal, I am currently interviewing with a Mistress. Please send me suggestions for sexual challenges or humiliating tasks I can perform, which might earn me a meeting in-person. Thank you!
11/24/2015 5:19:40 PM
What does it mean when I know I'm aroused by submissive/slave females, but also know that I'm not a dom?
mistress4u2luv
 
 Age: 47
 Liverpool, United Kingdom