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Hello, :) I'm Layla, 21, and I've been a submissive for about five years now. Learned the lifestyle on a 3D world where a Dom took me in and taught me the Gorean ways. I've broken away from that lifestyle a bit and have entered just the basic BDSM lifestyle. I've done mainly online relationships but have done some real stuff with local Doms. I've also mainly been with Dom's but have experimented with Domme's as well. I've learned a lot in these last four years, a lot of different styles, ways of how Dom's work and a lot about myself. :)
I'm looking for a Dom/Domme in the age range of 22-37. Online for the moment until I've gotten to know the Dom/Domme and will discuss meeting in person. So looking for someone possibly who lives in the same state or a state pretty close. Lately, unfortunately I've been slightly too busy for the lifestyle and anything to do with it. But I've been craving it and wanting it for quite some time now, so I'm getting back into it and becoming daring and signing up for this website. (Which I would have never done before.) I'm masochist, fun, feisty, lovable, adorable, person with lots of energy, happy, adventurous, spontaneous and will test your limits. I enjoy great conversation with other people so don't hesitate to shoot me a message. Thanksss! :) Layla. <3

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5/12/2012 5:53:24 PM

How I'm feeling... 

I desire to be perfect. Someone telling me I am perfect just the way I am, doesn't work. I have to be perfect in my mind. I am a perfectionist.  Any task I am given, it has to be perfect or I am disappointed. When I paint, it has to be perfect or I don't like it. 

I grew up not perfect at all. Far from perfect. Baby fat, no makeup, no style, not even myself. Now that I'm old enough to take my life into my own hands, I want to be perfect.

I need to be perfect. I desire to be perfect. I will be perfect.

(when I say perfect. I know, no one is 'perfect'. I'm talking about being perfect in my mind, in my eyes.)

It's a mental issue. Haha :P

-Layla <3


2/26/2012 4:19:54 PM

So, if you have messaged me and I didn't respond back.. I technically did respond I just didn't type it out. I have noticed that I do that a lot. If some says "Hello, how are you?" I'll just say my answer out loud and move on. Or, "You're adorable." I'd be like -click out of it- "thanks." Bahah, I don't do it to be mean... I'm just either not interested and I have a million other messages like that, that I need to delete. Or I just don't have the time. Soooo please forgive me. :P (wow that sounded really cocky, didn't mean for it to.. ><)

Well things in my life are starting to turn around. I have major plans that I have (sort of) set in place for this year. I'm suppperrrr excited and can't wait to start fresh, new and be back to my normal self. And get out of this stupidddd overnight job. It's killing me, mainly my social life.. (hey! that's important too.. number one, I'm a girl and number two I'm 21 so having any social life for so long SUCKS) :P So I'm really excited to just get things rolling, just need to learn a little thing called commitment. Heh... 

That's my update! 

(still am wanting to do that tour at kink.com ;D So still in hopes for that!)

Take care everyone! 

 

-Layla <3

 

 


1/26/2012 6:13:40 PM

BDSM lifestyle is not just about sex. So many times I see or hear about this lifestyle being all about the sex. Having a Dom and submissive relationship requires a lot of things. Patience, trust, time, care, love, honesty, learning, teaching, finding likes/dislikes. I don't like seeing people who are just like 'Looking for a Dom/sub relationship, sex, sex and sex.' 

Most people look at the BDSM lifestyle as just a kinkier sex. Bondage, maybe some spanks here or there then lots of sex. 

No, a Dom/Domme is a protector, parent-like, therapist, teacher. They care about their sub, learn to adapt to their personalities, about their subs feelings, their day, their problems. 

It's a relationship, not a booty call.

Submissives accept their place in this relationship. The learner, the one who cares for the Dom/Domme, has trust in them, trust that the Dom/Domme will mold them the way they think is right and the way they want. They have faith the relationship works, they work hard, struggle through things they didn't think they could get through, someone who works hard, works through the struggle, pain and someone who has patience. Trust and patience is def. the big key here for a submissive. 

The submissive (possibly talking about the beginning and start of the relationship) shouldn't be waiting and anxious for the sex. The submissive should be anxious about the collar that he/she will be receiving from their Dom/Domme. 

Receiving the collar. That's the greatest moment in a Dom/sub relationship. Not the sex. (even thought that's a nice part to it as well :P)

That's my opinion.. I guess I was feeling a little emotional tonight. 

I'm anxious to get into a relationship, just wish I wasn't in the circumstances I'm currently in now. Oh well, the time will come when I'll be available. Andddd, like I said before.. I'd love to be on the Upper Floor on kink.com. Heh, gosshhh what I would do for the confidence to go on that. x.x It'd be amazing.

That's another thing. I'd love to find someone (Dom/Domme) who would help me get over these stupid little things I have about myself. Like my lack of confidence, my insecurities, my anxiety, my lack of trust in people, my lack of commitment.. Okay, maybe they're not just 'little' things. Hehe ;P

Well, that is all folks!

Have a great night/day everyone. :)

 

Layla, <3

 

 

 


1/12/2012 11:13:58 AM

So I'm getting some messages telling me that I could possibly be banned because of complaints that I'm a man. -.-

 

Sorry to burst your bubble, but last time I checked.. I had a vagina and breasts. I'm not going to be posting my vagina and boobies everywhere just so I can prove that I'm a girl. You can believe or not, your choice.

 

Anywaysssss... so I'm absolutely in love with kink.com it's 'The Training of O' and The Upper Floor. I would love to be one of those girls, but unfortunately.. I have a little thing called insecurities and no confidence

 

I have those moments where I'm just like "Fuck it, I'll do it." But still in the back of my mind, those stupid little voices consume my head and I change my mind. -.- 

 

Soo, I think I'll just stick with going to the tour of The Castle that they have there.. wish I had someone to go with though. and plus it's suppperr far. But I'll get there, some day. :P

 

But, that is all. ^^ Take care everyone, till next time. ;D

 

Layla <3.


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