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ArkhosErebos

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I'm not interested in men, or paying for services. I have one partner. She's not into everything I am and knows and is very comfortable with me seeking someone else. May be interesting in being involved as well. I'm focusing on working on myself right now, but I welcome new people, conversations etc. I am intelligent, talented and creative. I am eclectic in all aspects of my life. I am not into a particular role. I am Dominant and a sexual sadist, so I enjoy control and some level of punishment/torture (spanking, slapping, choking, humiliation). I've had a variety of experience in the lifestyle, though nothing so far as necessitating contracts. I'd like to explore different types of D/s dynamics. Looking for someone with specific interests or willing to explore anything. To me, BDSM is as much or more mental and spiritual as physical, with the physical aspect a consequence, catalyst an ancillary outcome. It is about expansion and evolution. Dominance is defined by the dynamic. Different relationships demand different approaches, from nurturing to exacting.

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5/12/2016 12:02:12 AM

Some things I enjoy to varying degrees:

 

1940/50s household (everything to do with it)
 24/7 (everything to do with it)
 Age play
 Anal sex
 Anonymous encounters (everything to do with it)
 Art erotica (everything to do with it)
 Asphyxiaphilia (giving)
 Ass play
 Ass to mouth (giving)
 Ball gags (watching others wear)
 Ballet boots/shoes (watching others wear)
 Bare bottom spanking (giving)
 Bare handed spanking (giving)
 Bdsm (everything to do with it)
 Behavior modification (everything to do with it)
 Bellydancing (watching)
 Belt spanking (giving)
 Belt whippings (giving)
 Ben wa balls (watching others wear)
 Big tits
 Bimboification (everything to do with it)
 Biting
 Blindfolds
 Blow jobs (receiving)
 Blushing
 Body modification (everything to do with it)
 Body worship (receiving)
 Bondage
 Bondage art (everything to do with it)
 Bondage equipment (everything to do with it)
 Boots
 Boot blacking (receiving)
 Boot licking (receiving)
 Boot worship (receiving)
 Boss/secretary
 Braces
 Branding
 Breast bondage (giving)
 Breast spanking (giving)
 Breast/nipple torture
 Breasts
 Breath play
 Bruises (giving)
 Bullwhips
 Burlesque (watching)
 Business suits
 Butt plugs (watching others wear)
 Caging/confinement
 Candle wax
 Caressing (giving)
 Chains
 Chaps (watching others wear)
 Cheerleading uniforms (watching others wear)
 Chocolate
 Choking (giving)
 Clit spanking (giving)
 Clit torture (giving)
 Clothespins (watching others wear)
 Clover clamps (watching others wear)
 Cock milking (receiving)
 Cock worship (receiving)
 Cocksucking (receiving)
 Collar and lead/leash
 Collars (watching others wear)
 Consensual nonconsent
 Control
 Corporal punishment (giving)
 Corset cinching (watching others wear)
 Corset training
 Corsetry
 Corsets (watching others wear)
 Cosplay
 Costumes/dressing-up
 Covert bondage
 Crawling (watching)
 Crops
 Crying (watching)
 Cuckold (giving)
 Cunnilingus (giving)
 Cunt torture (giving)
 Cyber sex
 D/s
 Daddy daughter roleplay
 Daddy/girl
 Damsels in distress
 Deep throating (giving)
 Defilement
 Degradation (giving)
 Depilation/shaving (giving)
 Dildos
 Discipline
 Doctor/nurse play
 Dollification
 Domestic servitude (receiving)
 Domination (giving)
 Double penetration (giving)
 Douching
 Edge play (giving)
 Electrical play (giving)
 Emotional masochism
 Emotional sadism
 Enemas
 Erotic literature
 Erotic photography
 Exhibitionism
 Eye contact restrictions
 Face fucking (giving)
 Face slapping (giving)
 Fear
 Fetish models
 Fetish wear
 Fingering (giving)
 Fire play (giving)
 Fisting (giving)
 Flirting
 Flogging (giving)
 Freckles
 French maids
 Fucking machines
 Gagging/choked by cock (giving)
 Gags (watching others wear)
 Geeks
 Geisha
 Genital torture (giving)
 Glasses
 Goth
 Grooming
 Hair
 Hair bondage (giving)
 Hair pulling (giving)
 Hairbrush spanking (giving)
 Handcuffs (watching others wear)
 Handjobs (receiving)
 Hentai
 High heels (watching others wear)
 Hot oil massages
 Human doll
 Human furniture
 Humiliation (giving)
 Humor
 Ice cubes
 Impact play
 Impregnation fantasy
 Infidelity
 Intelligence
 Internal enslavement
 Interracial sex
 Japanese bondage
 Kicking (giving)
 Kidnapping roleplay
 Kitten petplay
 Kneeling
 Lace
 Latex
 Leather
 Legs
 Librarians
 Lingerie
 Lipstick (watching others wear)
 Lycra/spandex
 Maid
 Maid uniforms (watching others wear)
 Makeup (watching others wear)
 Making home movies
 Male authority
 Martial arts
 Masks
 Masochism
 Master/slave
 Masturbation
 Medical play
 Medigiving)
 Metal
 Military
 Military uniforms
 Mind fucks
 Multiple orgasms
 Music
 Mutual masturbation
 Necks
 Needle play
 Nipples
 Nudity
 Nun/priest play
 Nylonlegs & feet (watching others wear)
 Obedience training (giving)
 Objectification
 Online play
 Oral sex
 Ordered to masturbate (giving)
 Orgasm control (giving)
 Orgasm denial (giving)
 Otk spanking (giving)
 Outdoor bondage
 Outdoor sex
 Pain (giving)
 Panties (watching others wear)
 Pantyhose/stockings (watching others wear)
 Petplay
 Petticoats (watching others wear)
 Phone sex
 Photography
 Piercings
 Pigtails (watching others wear)
 Pin-ups
 Pinching (giving)
 Pirates
 Play piercing (giving)
 Play punishment (giving)
 Polyamory
 Porn
 Posture collars (watching others wear)
 Power exchange
 Predator/prey
 Predicament bondage
 Pressure points
 Protocol
 Punching (giving)
 Pvc
 Remote-control devices
 Restraints (watching others wear)
 Riding crops
 Rimming
 Role play
 Rope bondage/suspension
 Rough sex
 Rubber
 Sacred sexuality
 Sadism
 Sadomasochism
 Satin
 Scarf bondage
 Schoolgirl
 Schoolgirl uniform (watching others wear)
 Scratching
 Seduction
 Sensation play
 Sensory deprivation
 Sensual domination
 Sensual play
 Sensual/slave dances
 Sensualism
 Service (receiving)
 Service-oriented submission
 Sex
 Sex online
 Sex with strangers
 Sexual objectification
 Sexual slavery
 Shackles (watching others wear)
 Shaving
 Shibari
 Shoes
 Silk
 Single tail whips
 Skirts (watching others wear)
 Slapping (giving)
 Slave bells (watching others wear)
 Slave tattoos (watching others wear)
 Slavery
 Sluts
 Small tits
 Smoking
 Smothering (giving)
 Spanking (giving)
 Speech restriction
 Spiritual bdsm
 Spitting
 Spreader bars (watching others wear)
 Squirting
 Stockings (watching others wear)
 Strap-ons
 Submission
 Subspace
 Superheroes
 Swallowing
 Talking dirty
 Tattoos
 Teacher/student
 Tearing off clothing
 Tears
 Teasing
 Threesomes
 Tit fucking (giving)
 Tit slapping (giving)
 Total power exchange
 Touching
 Toy making
 Toys
 Transformation
 Triple penetration (giving)
 Uncut cock
 Uniforms
 Vampires
 Velvet
 Verbal humiliation and degradation (giving)
 Vibrators
 Victorian lifestyles
 Vintage lingerie
 Violence
 Voyeurism
 Wax
 Webcams
 Whipping (giving)
 Whips
 Writing erotica

 

Apparently l3reeding is not allowed... hahahaha.


5/11/2016 3:48:58 AM
My Favorite Poem

The beginning is fairly well known, but here is the full text:

Ode
Arthur O'Shaughnessy

    We are the music makers,
    And we are the dreamers of dreams,
    Wandering by lone sea-breakers,
    And sitting by desolate streams; —
    World-losers and world-forsakers,
    On whom the pale moon gleams:
    Yet we are the movers and shakers
    Of the world for ever, it seems.

    With wonderful deathless ditties
    We build up the world's great cities,
    And out of a fabulous story
    We fashion an empire's glory:
    One man with a dream, at pleasure,
    Shall go forth and conquer a crown;
    And three with a new song's measure
    Can trample an empire down.

    We, in the ages lying
    In the buried past of the earth,
    Built Nineveh with our sighing,
    And Babel itself with our mirth;
    And o'erthrew them with prophesying
    To the old of the new world's worth;
    For each age is a dream that is dying,
    Or one that is coming to birth.

    A breath of our inspiration
    Is the life of each generation;
    A wondrous thing of our dreaming
    Unearthly, impossible seeming —
    The soldier, the king, and the peasant
    Are working together in one,
    Till our dream shall become their present,
    And their work in the world be done.

    They had no vision amazing
    Of the goodly house they are raising;
    They had no divine foreshowing
    Of the land to which they are going:
    But on one man's soul it hath broken,
    A light that doth not depart;
    And his look, or a word he hath spoken,
    Wrought flame in another man's heart.

    And therefore to-day is thrilling
    With a past day's late fulfilling;
    And the multitudes are enlisted
    In the faith that their fathers resisted,
    And, scorning the dream of to-morrow,
    Are bringing to pass, as they may,
    In the world, for its joy or its sorrow,
    The dream that was scorned yesterday.

    But we, with our dreaming and singing,
    Ceaseless and sorrowless we!
    The glory about us clinging
    Of the glorious futures we see,
    Our souls with high music ringing:
    O men! it must ever be
    That we dwell, in our dreaming and singing,
    A little apart from ye.
    We are afar with the dawning
    And the suns that are not yet high,
    And out of the infinite morning
    Intrepid you hear us cry —
    How, spite of your human scorning,
    Once more God's future draws nigh,
    And already goes forth the warning
    That ye of the past must die.

    Great hail! we cry to the comers
    From the dazzling unknown shore;
    Bring us hither your sun and your summers;
    And renew our world as of yore;
    You shall teach us your song's new numbers,
    And things that we dreamed not before:
    Yea, in spite of a dreamer who slumbers,
    And a singer who sings no more.

5/8/2016 11:42:45 PM
I just thought this might be a fun sort of reference:

(I especially like the pdf results https://bdsmtest.org/resultpdf.?id=1878384 )

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
100% Master/Mistress
99% Dominant
99% Owner
98% Degrader
96% Rigger
95% Sadist
89% Daddy/Mommy
89% Voyeur
83% Non-monogamist
79% Brat Tamer
79% Experimentalist
58% Primal (Hunter)
58% Ageplayer
36% Exhibitionist
16% Vanilla
7% Switch
3% Girl/Boy
2% Pet
1% Submissive
1% Masochist
1% Degradee
1% Brat
0% Slave
0% Rope Bunny
0% Primal (Prey)

See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=1878384

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 Age: 25
 Fairfield, California