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I'm not interested in men, or paying for services.
I have one partner. She's not into everything I am and knows and is very comfortable with me seeking someone else. May be interesting in being involved as well.
I'm focusing on working on myself right now, but I welcome new people, conversations etc.
I am intelligent, talented and creative. I am eclectic in all aspects of my life.
I am not into a particular role. I am Dominant and a sexual sadist, so I enjoy control and some level of punishment/torture (spanking, slapping, choking, humiliation).
I've had a variety of experience in the lifestyle, though nothing so far as necessitating contracts.
I'd like to explore different types of D/s dynamics. Looking for someone with specific interests or willing to explore anything.
To me, BDSM is as much or more mental and spiritual as physical, with the physical aspect a consequence, catalyst an ancillary outcome. It is about expansion and evolution.
Dominance is defined by the dynamic. Different relationships demand different approaches, from nurturing to exacting.
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Some things I enjoy to varying degrees:
1940/50s household (everything to do with it) 24/7 (everything to do with it) Age play Anal sex Anonymous encounters (everything to do with it) Art erotica (everything to do with it) Asphyxiaphilia (giving) Ass play Ass to mouth (giving) Ball gags (watching others wear) Ballet boots/shoes (watching others wear) Bare bottom spanking (giving) Bare handed spanking (giving) Bdsm (everything to do with it) Behavior modification (everything to do with it) Bellydancing (watching) Belt spanking (giving) Belt whippings (giving) Ben wa balls (watching others wear) Big tits Bimboification (everything to do with it) Biting Blindfolds Blow jobs (receiving) Blushing Body modification (everything to do with it) Body worship (receiving) Bondage Bondage art (everything to do with it) Bondage equipment (everything to do with it) Boots Boot blacking (receiving) Boot licking (receiving) Boot worship (receiving) Boss/secretary Braces Branding Breast bondage (giving) Breast spanking (giving) Breast/nipple torture Breasts Breath play Bruises (giving) Bullwhips Burlesque (watching) Business suits Butt plugs (watching others wear) Caging/confinement Candle wax Caressing (giving) Chains Chaps (watching others wear) Cheerleading uniforms (watching others wear) Chocolate Choking (giving) Clit spanking (giving) Clit torture (giving) Clothespins (watching others wear) Clover clamps (watching others wear) Cock milking (receiving) Cock worship (receiving) Cocksucking (receiving) Collar and lead/leash Collars (watching others wear) Consensual nonconsent Control Corporal punishment (giving) Corset cinching (watching others wear) Corset training Corsetry Corsets (watching others wear) Cosplay Costumes/dressing-up Covert bondage Crawling (watching) Crops Crying (watching) Cuckold (giving) Cunnilingus (giving) Cunt torture (giving) Cyber sex D/s Daddy daughter roleplay Daddy/girl Damsels in distress Deep throating (giving) Defilement Degradation (giving) Depilation/shaving (giving) Dildos Discipline Doctor/nurse play Dollification Domestic servitude (receiving) Domination (giving) Double penetration (giving) Douching Edge play (giving) Electrical play (giving) Emotional masochism Emotional sadism Enemas Erotic literature Erotic photography Exhibitionism Eye contact restrictions Face fucking (giving) Face slapping (giving) Fear Fetish models Fetish wear Fingering (giving) Fire play (giving) Fisting (giving) Flirting Flogging (giving) Freckles French maids Fucking machines Gagging/choked by cock (giving) Gags (watching others wear) Geeks Geisha Genital torture (giving) Glasses Goth Grooming Hair Hair bondage (giving) Hair pulling (giving) Hairbrush spanking (giving) Handcuffs (watching others wear) Handjobs (receiving) Hentai High heels (watching others wear) Hot oil massages Human doll Human furniture Humiliation (giving) Humor Ice cubes Impact play Impregnation fantasy Infidelity Intelligence Internal enslavement Interracial sex Japanese bondage Kicking (giving) Kidnapping roleplay Kitten petplay Kneeling Lace Latex Leather Legs Librarians Lingerie Lipstick (watching others wear) Lycra/spandex Maid Maid uniforms (watching others wear) Makeup (watching others wear) Making home movies Male authority Martial arts Masks Masochism Master/slave Masturbation Medical play Medigiving) Metal Military Military uniforms Mind fucks Multiple orgasms Music Mutual masturbation Necks Needle play Nipples Nudity Nun/priest play Nylonlegs & feet (watching others wear) Obedience training (giving) Objectification Online play Oral sex Ordered to masturbate (giving) Orgasm control (giving) Orgasm denial (giving) Otk spanking (giving) Outdoor bondage Outdoor sex Pain (giving) Panties (watching others wear) Pantyhose/stockings (watching others wear) Petplay Petticoats (watching others wear) Phone sex Photography Piercings Pigtails (watching others wear) Pin-ups Pinching (giving) Pirates Play piercing (giving) Play punishment (giving) Polyamory Porn Posture collars (watching others wear) Power exchange Predator/prey Predicament bondage Pressure points Protocol Punching (giving) Pvc Remote-control devices Restraints (watching others wear) Riding crops Rimming Role play Rope bondage/suspension Rough sex Rubber Sacred sexuality Sadism Sadomasochism Satin Scarf bondage Schoolgirl Schoolgirl uniform (watching others wear) Scratching Seduction Sensation play Sensory deprivation Sensual domination Sensual play Sensual/slave dances Sensualism Service (receiving) Service-oriented submission Sex Sex online Sex with strangers Sexual objectification Sexual slavery Shackles (watching others wear) Shaving Shibari Shoes Silk Single tail whips Skirts (watching others wear) Slapping (giving) Slave bells (watching others wear) Slave tattoos (watching others wear) Slavery Sluts Small tits Smoking Smothering (giving) Spanking (giving) Speech restriction Spiritual bdsm Spitting Spreader bars (watching others wear) Squirting Stockings (watching others wear) Strap-ons Submission Subspace Superheroes Swallowing Talking dirty Tattoos Teacher/student Tearing off clothing Tears Teasing Threesomes Tit fucking (giving) Tit slapping (giving) Total power exchange Touching Toy making Toys Transformation Triple penetration (giving) Uncut cock Uniforms Vampires Velvet Verbal humiliation and degradation (giving) Vibrators Victorian lifestyles Vintage lingerie Violence Voyeurism Wax Webcams Whipping (giving) Whips Writing erotica
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My Favorite Poem
The beginning is fairly well known, but here is the full text:
Ode Arthur O'Shaughnessy
We are the music makers, And we are the dreamers of dreams, Wandering by lone sea-breakers, And sitting by desolate streams; — World-losers and world-forsakers, On whom the pale moon gleams: Yet we are the movers and shakers Of the world for ever, it seems.
With wonderful deathless ditties We build up the world's great cities, And out of a fabulous story We fashion an empire's glory: One man with a dream, at pleasure, Shall go forth and conquer a crown; And three with a new song's measure Can trample an empire down.
We, in the ages lying In the buried past of the earth, Built Nineveh with our sighing, And Babel itself with our mirth; And o'erthrew them with prophesying To the old of the new world's worth; For each age is a dream that is dying, Or one that is coming to birth.
A breath of our inspiration Is the life of each generation; A wondrous thing of our dreaming Unearthly, impossible seeming — The soldier, the king, and the peasant Are working together in one, Till our dream shall become their present, And their work in the world be done.
They had no vision amazing Of the goodly house they are raising; They had no divine foreshowing Of the land to which they are going: But on one man's soul it hath broken, A light that doth not depart; And his look, or a word he hath spoken, Wrought flame in another man's heart.
And therefore to-day is thrilling With a past day's late fulfilling; And the multitudes are enlisted In the faith that their fathers resisted, And, scorning the dream of to-morrow, Are bringing to pass, as they may, In the world, for its joy or its sorrow, The dream that was scorned yesterday.
But we, with our dreaming and singing, Ceaseless and sorrowless we! The glory about us clinging Of the glorious futures we see, Our souls with high music ringing: O men! it must ever be That we dwell, in our dreaming and singing, A little apart from ye. We are afar with the dawning And the suns that are not yet high, And out of the infinite morning Intrepid you hear us cry — How, spite of your human scorning, Once more God's future draws nigh, And already goes forth the warning That ye of the past must die.
Great hail! we cry to the comers From the dazzling unknown shore; Bring us hither your sun and your summers; And renew our world as of yore; You shall teach us your song's new numbers, And things that we dreamed not before: Yea, in spite of a dreamer who slumbers, And a singer who sings no more. |
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I just thought this might be a fun sort of reference:
(I especially like the pdf results https://bdsmtest.org/resultpdf.?id=1878384 )
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Master/Mistress 99% Dominant 99% Owner 98% Degrader 96% Rigger 95% Sadist 89% Daddy/Mommy 89% Voyeur 83% Non-monogamist 79% Brat Tamer 79% Experimentalist 58% Primal (Hunter) 58% Ageplayer 36% Exhibitionist 16% Vanilla 7% Switch 3% Girl/Boy 2% Pet 1% Submissive 1% Masochist 1% Degradee 1% Brat 0% Slave 0% Rope Bunny 0% Primal (Prey)
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=1878384 |
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Age: 25 |
Fairfield,
California |
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