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This is long, so get comfortable. The fact is, if you're planning something long term and serious, wouldn’t you want to know all you could about the person you're considering sharing a life with?
In a statement, what I'm looking for is a subbie wife. So that means no online or casual. I'd love for us to know more about each other. (seriously). No, I don't believe you learn to be friends after marriage, or after you commit to a relationship. If and when I marry, I want to marry my best friend, not some stranger.
If all you want to discuss is what I will do to you in BDSM, please move on. You should be interested in me as a person, first. We already know we have BDSM in common, and trust me, we'll be going into “intense” detail when that time comes, for it is a very necessary and important part that has to be focused on... that's why we need to know and be comfortable with each other first.
Alot of you don't seem to understand what I mean by “relationship”, so before you read on, let me help you -- definition of a relationship for me: it means growing, changing, and living through the good times, as well as the bad. It means loving each other even when it’s difficult. I want your tenderness and affection, your kindness, and your strength. I want to be there for you when you feel on top of the world, and I want to be there when your spirit is crushed. I want you to feel protected and secure in my love, and I want to trust you at all times. I want you to feel safe with me, and never to be ashamed to talk about your fears and weaknesses. I want to encourage you to stand up for your beliefs, and always to do what is right. I want us to stand beside each other as we go through life, together. Again, NO CYBER-LOVE PLEASE. You can't love someone you don't know. And you certainly can't trust them, and you definitely need trust for this lifestyle.
Hope this helps!
What I want is a monogamous relationship in which you are content being mine, and mine alone. I want a woman who likes to please her mate, in any way possible. A very affectionate person, one who can sit on a couch and have long make-out sessions, someone who isn't stuffy or conservative, who is stable and DDF, your thrill-seeking days are over. You're not overweight, have no dependents, like to stay in bed and play on cold rainy weekends. A woman who will come to the defense of her man at a moment's notice, if need be. One who is sensitive, kind and caring. I feel open displays of affection are important. I want a relationship in which we give to each other freely, in a Dom/sub setting, without conditions. When I'm in love with a person, I show it, and wish for the same from her. I want a very attentive person, romantic, very “touchy/feely”. I'm a Dom, but I'm a European man first, and this will be a relationship -- so yes, I do want romance. When people see us, they can see we're in love. I want a woman who will put my needs first, as I will hers... be attentive, and loves to kiss and touch. A woman who will spoil me with alot of little things, like always wanting to have my approval, who will not be afraid to share with me, show me her emotions, and is woman enough to let me do the same. I want a woman that will gladly go the extra mile, and takes pleasure in doing it. Someone that wants to be a submissive to a very loving, dominant man, who derives alot of pleasure from doing for her mate. I resent those that call this "kink" -- this is a lifestyle, the one I’ve chosen, that I think brings about a deeper kind of love and trust. Honesty and loyalty are very important to me.
Your age isn't important to me, your mental/emotional maturity is. I love women who are bi or at least bi-curious. It's very likely that, at some point, I will want to involve another woman, for training purposes... so yes, I do need this open-ness. There will never be any feelings for this other person, she'd just be a prop. I know people are different, so once I get to know you, I can tell you if you'd be domme or sub to her...
Are you still here ? Great ! LOL…
What you will get: I am a sensual Dom, I don’t do edge play. I like to sexually tease. The only pain I administer are spankings. I use paddles, belts, crops, etc... I do go slowly, to build up your tolerance. I do use humiliation, but not in a form that degrades, when we get to know each other, and we are into the the BDSM discussion phase, I'll shed a little more light on this. I'm very much into bondage, rituals and tasks… I'm creative and adventurous in play; boredom will definitely not be in our game plan. I'm very nurturing and caring, I love to really take care of my slave, in every way... to the fullest extent. I'm extremely careful, so you must do exactly what I say, or I will end it. I mean the whole relationship, no one gets hurt around me. I'm a man who knows what he wants. I'm a very strong man, confident in what I want, and have no problem in saying what I want, or how I feel. I can be very strict and hard at times, especially at first, until you are trained and learn how to serve me, then more of your boyfriend will appear again… but he will never overshadow your Dom.
BDSM in a lifestyle relationship has many many facets to it, and many do not understand this. I say this because I believe this kind of relationship has to be in stages. At first, communication; we get to know each other, just like any other couple. This is the stage were women misunderstand the most. Just because I’m being nice and kind doesn't mean I’m not a strict Dom. I don’t play 'net games, so I’m not going to put on some “dom” role for a total stranger -- you'll be treated just like any other person I'm meeting for the first time. The next stage is a little more difficult, especially for the first time subby. This is where we've decided to try this as a couple. This is where you'll have your “interview”, and we'll be discussing BDSM in great detail, and you'll be physically tested. This means our lives are basically split in two. We're still growing as a girlfriend/boyfriend, but now the Dom/sub relationship is entered into -- so you've got to be able to function in more than one realm. It’s kind of like being four different people. The third stage is when we have blended both worlds effectively together. This takes time ladies. Actually all the stages do. There is no set timing for these stages: could take a day, a week, a month, it depends on how we relate to each other. But if we're supposed to be in this for the long haul… what’s the hurry?
IMPORTANT INSTRUCTIONS: I'm open to inter-racial relationships -- in other words, please don’t bore me with what color/nationality you are. I'm not a piece of clothing, not something you pick to match the color of your eyes or hair, you should want to contact me because you think we can relate as people not colors. I hope that takes care of that!
HAVE A PIC FOR ME AFTER OUR INITIAL CORRESPONDENCE. Alot of women think being a “brat” is cute -- well I’m not into those either, it wastes alot of good training time. I detest constant arguing, bitching back and forth, and constantly being questioned or challenged on what I command. You want to be in charge? Become a Domme, and don’t bother me. I have much better uses for our time.
PS: it's starting to seem like the only true submissives/slaves on here are from outside the country. I will not be your means to citizenship in the USA !
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just finished another D/s photo-shoot...
I'm gratified, and grateful, to be in this great physical & mental condition, at my age.
thankful to my parents, for the superior genes they passed on to me.
more specifically:
my father -- who permanently instilled the European tradition of a Male HOH...
my mother -- who constantly reminded me to never take anything for granted...
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girls, if you need a tutorial on cock worship...
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http://catchafake2.blogspot.com/
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I'm usually amused, but sometimes annoyed, at how many fakes there are on here. I used to think that this lifestyle attracted people who were (or have become) self-aware, and possessing above average intelligence. If you're looking for online romance only, say so in your profile. Otherwise, stick to the vanilla dating websites -- there are plenty of flakes on them who will happily indulge your need for frivolous games and transient adventures.
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