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?? I am only welcoming friends. :o)
?Egomaniacs need not apply. :oP
If you think that you are the best looking guy I have ever met... If you think that being you makes you right... If you think that you have the "heaviest equipment" or the greatest skill that I will ever come across... If your favorite sound is that of your own voice... Get lost. Your ego is just going to get in the way of a real relationship.
?? If you just called me a bitch or think that I am not submissive because I will not deal with someone who's "self esteem" exceeds reality, please know that it is because it is you I am talking about. Step back and re-evaluate.
??? I have been a submissive for as long as I can remember, because I was raised by a submissive mother. It did, however, take many years of vanilla abuse before I found out that there was an actual, established lifestyle that suited my every need. It really is possible to get the "abuse" that I crave, applied with love, consideration, and respect of sorts. I can dedicate myself, entirely, serve with all that I have, and not be seen as weak for all of my efforts.
??? I am a very active, very social person, who loves to have fun. I have an ornery side that has gotten me into a bit of trouble, on occasion, but always keep an immaculate and conservative public appearance.
??? Aside from my domestic pursuits, I am also a great lover of the outdoors. Hiking is my favorite escape.
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I do realize TOTALLY random, but I just had to share... Cream cheese on celery is AMAZING. Of course, so is Grenadine in Corona, which may be why it seemed so important to share the celery thing?
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Please know that I am very strictly real time ONLY. I do not cam or cyber, and I am not at all into on-line domination.
If it's worth doing, it is worth showing up for, and doing in the flesh. :o)
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Wow. If you make first contact with a line like "Hi there whore", you aren't likely to get a ticker tape parade in return.
We are women, not garbage. When limits have been discussed and understood, and IF we choose to submit to you, then that may be appropriate, but until then, please don't assume that you are welcome to address a total stranger in that manner.
If I AM a whore, I am not yet YOUR whore, so knock it off and go back to the things you learned about winning friends and influencing people.
Damn! Why am I having to tell Dominant men how to avoid being total douchbags?!
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I'm not sure why I have to say this, but I will, just in case it helps someone to not make the same mistake.
If a sub has gone so far as to meet with you for the first time, and at the end of the night you send her walking alone, through dark back streets for five blocks, knowing that she is going to her car that is in a deserted unlit parking lot in a town that has all but shut down for the night, then you have made it very obvious that her safety is of no concern to you.
When you don't call to see if she got to her car safely, she knows that you didn't even care enough to realize your mistake after the fact and that you didn't give her circumstances a second thought.
When you have proven to her that her safety is the furthest thing from your mind, you will not have that sub.
Good news is, nobody decided to drag her into the bushes, rape her, and beat her to death before she made her safe call, so you are off the hook, right?
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Break-up, Re-group, go on your way. I love the way the world just keeps turning, no matter how bad things have been. :o)
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What a wonderful picnic!! We had a great weekend. This group is insane.
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I had a most amazing time at the AIS play party Saturday night, and really need to thank everyone for being so kind.
We have some REALLY great people here in Ohio (yes, this is actually news to me).
I may not sit so easily for a few days, but I look forward to many more events to come. |
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Wow. I can't help but be amazed at the number of people fell away, in the short time since I marked my profile.
I discovered that it is a great way to find the alterior motives of a "friend".
Is EVERYONE just here to get laid?! |
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If you send me a message written in all caps, I will get a good laugh, then block you. That is a trick used by fakes to try to convince everyone, including themselves, that they are Dominant. Men who are secure with themselves are able to have pleasant conversation without making silly demands, especially those written in all caps.  |
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Wow, I have just learned that you can't underestimate the insanity of an obsessed man.
I am being harassed by a HNG who keeps creating a new profile every time I block one.
Because I am not nearly so nasty as this indavidual, I will not post his screen name(s), but this is a huge reminder that there really are psychos out there. Yes, even the ones who appear to be the pudgy, sweet, harmless, monkesque, nerd type.
Anyone know how to make this freak go away? I have actually had to take a good friend (NewMiddleAgeDom) up on his offer of protection. It's a good thing there are still nice guys in the world. THANKS!!!!
GO AWAY FREAK!!! I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU WANT OR WHAT YOU THINK!! |
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While I do understand that there are very good reasons for not putting a photo on your profile, I have no desire to talk to an anonymous person.
I have posted many photos, and have even been honest enough to post bad ones too, so please, if you don't have a photo, send one when you make contact.
If you are in hiding (from a spouse, maybe), or if you are not willing to share a photo for whatever other reason, don't tangle me into your mess.
Yes, I have met the "secret agents" and "government officials".  This applies to them as well.
I will only ask for a photo once. |
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| Age: 55 |
| Dayton,
Ohio |
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