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AlexBBCDom
Male Dominant, 45,  North Carolina US

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 AlexBBCDom

 Dominant Male

 North Carolina

 5' 9"

 45

 African Descent

 11/25/14

 now

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

 Are YOU Adventurous ?
 


Are you wishing to act out your Taboo Kinky submissive fantasies?


Are you desiring  to serve and submit to a Secure Experienced Dominant ?


 


 


So Much More Awaits ...  Sessions Are Very Sapiosexual and Sensual .. 


I'm Very Strict...  and will Bring Out The Best In You!


 


 


 


BE AWARE  prospective little pets, submissive s and cuck couples that  Attentive Training and Superior Wisdom are not tools of charity or some transient object to be accessed without Tribute or Honorarium !




Always actively looking for Financial submissive s ! But will be waived for those that impress....




Some things are put here just to see if you are reading or just perving pics


 


 




Sound Advise Wisdom Teaching Training and Experience in all the Arts and Aspects of the Lifestyle thus for these gifts to you and Oh So Much More..............


 


 


 


 So if you are prepared My darlings for the ADVENTURE of a Lifetime!


 


Send Master Alexander a contact message to get started on your journey!


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


Master Alexander


 


BBC Dom , Trainer of


 


subs & cuck couples

Journal Entries:
6/16/2016 5:43:03 AM

Alexander's {Dom/ Mst} Kink Resume

 

 

EXPERIENCE and EXTENDED BACKGROUND to CURRENT

I began my experiences in this lifestyle primarily as a swinger introduced to the D/s lifestyle by a cuck couple who would later be My first fully owned slave couple this was 1996. This experience allowed Me to formulate a better understanding of the D/s relationships and how it both edifies and benefits couples relationship.

My Exploration and Education followed in the introduction to and study of bondage capture rope play kidnapping torture play. I was able to become experienced in the trade of slaves and D/s scene construction.

 In 2002 I became a Professional Dominant for a Dominatrix service in Virginia and worked with this escort service for 2 and half years. . I then began to attended munches of groups in my state, seminars/training as well as dungeons/play parties and privately.

I have since written and compiled a guide to BDSM Training which will be available on line this year. I also host a traveling event for groups ' Shades of Kink' BDSM and D/s for beginners. The event features a display of bondage equipment, implements and toys and instruction on how to use them for private play  for couples and singles .

I greatly enjoy mentoring teaching and training others in the lifestyle, at all levels.

 

 

 

 

LIFE & LIFESTYLE IDENTITY

Male African American  P.O.C  Person of Color

Title ;DOMINANT 

Orientation; Hard  {Sadist, Disciplinarian}- Moderate { Teaching  } Soft { Patience

Specialization ; Dom - Master - Instructor/Teacher 

Styles :  Sadistic Dom                               Master Owner of Slaves {Arabic Roman Style }

              Classical School Head Master      Voyeur  

              Polyadventurous                            Pansexual

              Trainer                                           Practitioner Shabri Kimbaku

              Hypnotherapist                              Reflexologest

Style most closely resembles that of The Ineffable Dominant.  The Ineffable Dom is typically a Dominant who has been in the D/s lifestyle for several years or longer and has, mostly through trial and error, learned what does and doesn’t work best in his D/s relationships.  He has consciously explored and borrowed traits and characteristics from the other Dominant categories.  The synergy created with each new partner brings new facets to the Ineffable Dom’s unique (and sometimes indescribable) Topping style

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PERSONAL OBJECTIVES

As a Dominant, and a Training Dominant my objective is to strive to better and enhance My skills and to teach or train willing participants in the various aspects of this chosen artful avocation

LIFESTYLE FOCUS

Preservation of core foundational and formal values of BDSM

Teaching and training the history and art of BDSM

Acquiring more expanded historical education concerning BDSM

Expression of and maintaining submissive self-worth

Applying conducive real life practical application of D/s

 

SKILLS

  • Teaching formal style of categorical roles in BDSM
  • Japanese bondage – Kinbaku (Shibari)
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Erotic humiliation, watersports, objectification and choking)
  • Spanking Applications for Wellness
  • Flogging as massage therapy  
  • Massage therapies to include wax fire hot oils and cupping
  • Tool/toy handling – procurement, cleaning, maintenance, proper layout, storage (including rope bundling)
  • Writing Instruction Guide Books
  • Extreme Humiliation Desecration and Objectification
  • Breath play to include chocking to unconsciousness

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Activities [ Partial Not Inclusive]

  • Impact play with implements including, but definitely not limited to: floggers, canes, crops, paddles (leather, wooden, rubber, etc), whips, belts, straps
  • Impact play with the hands, specifically spanking and slapping (ass, thighs, pussy)
  • Bondage, light to heavy (rope, chain, bondage tape, clothing, wrist/ankle/thigh/thumb cuffs, bed systems, door systems, spreader bars, etc)
  • Flogging Whipping Paddling and Spanking
  • Collar and leash
  • Orgasm control – by force and/or denial (via voice, touch, magic wand, etc)
  • Sensory deprivation (sight, touch, hearing via masks, music, etc)
  • Anal/ass play Paddling Spanking
  • Anal hook
  • Body worship (including hands & feet, massages)
  • Humiliation, erotic humiliation
  • Fisting (vaginal and anal )
  • Slapping (face and body)
  • Choking and various other forms of breath play
  • Biting
  • Knife Play
  • Collars (formal, casual and play; leather, chain, chrome and cloth)
  • Tails (full buttplug fox tail wearing for short and extended times)
  • Terror play including knife play, water play (waterboarding, showering), interrogations, etc.
  • Sensation play, including but not limited to: electroplay (Violet wand, Twilight wand, TENS unit, fly zapper), hot wax,  ice (including ice dildo making and usage), spicy/stinging rubs, fire play, Wartenberg wheel
  • Resistance play/FSRP (forced sex role-play aka rape play)
  • Role-play – eg, rough play as currency scene, etc; animal role-play (puppy play)
  • Objectification (use as various types of furniture, etc)
  • Sexual objectification

 

 

 

 

 

 

Activities Continued

  • Discipline & punishment
  • Clamps (including clover, nipple-to-clit, clothespins, chopsticks, etc.)
  • Marking – temporary such as bruising to longer-lasting like scarification)
  • GS/WS (golden showers/water sports )
  • Multiples –)
  • Adult toys (Sales and Distribution )
  • Large furniture (St. Andrew’s cross, wooden pony, stockade, spanking bench, kneeling bench, massage table, Building design and construction of )
  • Slavery { Making Trading : Capture Restraint caging and Master-ship)

 

 

 

WISHLIST

  • Open D/s Relationship Consulting Service
  • Travel to BDSM Events Nationally
  • Open Dungeon Establishment and Social Space ie martini bar coffee house

 

Relevant Sites : I have been featured at the following sites

Kinky Black History Month The Kink Realm – BDSM resource site –http://www.thekinkrealm.com

 


1/19/2016 5:22:54 AM

How To Know Where YOU FIT IN ..
Whats Your TYPE and STYLE?

* INTRODUCTION to ..........
GROUPINGS TITLES ORIENTATIONS TYPES & STYLES **

Groupings; Dominant / Switch / Submissive


Titles or Categories;
Doms : Dommes / Tops ; Bottoms / subs slaves


Orientations;
              Hard _______ _ Moderate ___________ Soft

________________SM Pain Play_______________Sensual/ Sex Play/Romantic




Types of Specialization:
Masters/Mistress Baby Girls Pets Whores

  • Not All Listed




Styles;
______Sadist ______ Daddy ______ Pain Sluts______ 1950s Pin Ups

  • Note The Styles are Personal , Each Individual is allowed to shape their own persona.


FOR MORE INFORMATION : https://fetlife.com/users/305566/posts/3513314

11/30/2014 9:33:05 AM

There's a new game
We like to play you see
A game with added reality
You treat me like a dog
Get me down on my knees

We call it master and servant
We call it master and servant

It's a lot like life
This play between the sheets
With you on top and me underneath
Forget all about equality

Let's play master and servant
Let's play master and servant

It's a lot like life
And that's what's appealing
If you despise that throwaway feeling
From disposable fun
Then this is the one

Domination's the name of the game
In bed or in life
They're both just the same
Except in one you're fulfilled
At the end of the day

Let's play master and servant
Let's play master and servant

Let's play master and servant
Come on, master and servant


YEAH you be the servant!!!!!!!


10/1/2013 4:12:42 PM [Report Entry]

Benefits in Training with AlexanderBBCDOM

 

Here are some of the benefits of joining the House of Alex , as well as the stated points on The House Profile about section here are a few other enhancements one receives when joining the House of Alex ….. Assurance in the relationship with the House and its relationship to the D/s community this helps to create a sense of security. One learns they can receiver friendship from each member and trust that their true desires will be perfected. This helps create a deeper bond to the members of the house the house it self and the BDSM community..
Members by seeing and experiencing the discipline in matriculation of the lifestyle will experience less anxiety in living with their desires
Members are inspired to be devoted to developing a daily routine with regular rising times, bedtimes, after work schedules, and meal times cultivates a more peaceful home life.
Over time as members thru the performance of their chosen roles … will find a better sense of responsibly in knowing what is expected of them and this will transfer into the member’s regular life outside the D/s lifestyle.
Because the rules are put in place to motivate inspire and be consistent , the rules with pre-established and predictable consequences are less likely to promote misbehavior or non productive behavior which brings the best and most desirable outcomes for the members.
Members will experience noticeably a more peaceful nature , less emotional swings, considerably less temper tantrums, arguing and bargaining.
With The House the members will experience less confusion because they will not experience the haphazard guessing daily what actions are appropriate. This in turn will increase the members self esteem and positive outlook leading to more positive values and overall happiness in perfecting the members desired role in the BDSM lifestyle


10/1/2013 4:10:57 PM [Report Entry]

Basic Rules for General Training (Non Comprehensive)

 

Private Training In General

General Rules

Training shall begin the moment the submissive enters the trainer's domain and will last until the submissive is dismissed. A submissive should always be freshly bathed and sweet-smelling. A submissive will always wear approved training garments or be naked at all times. If the Trainer instructs the submissive will strip naked, fold clothes neatly and place the folded clothes on the floor, then await further instructions while taking Position #1 ... If the Trainer instructs the submissive will wear wrist and ankle cuffs, and a training collar.
Obey the trainer at all times. Do not hesitate.
Any words spoken to Trainer must start or end with "Sir". This is considered speech protocol and may differ in application. If submissive answers a trainer's question, "No Sir", it must be directly followed it with a brief, valid reason. An invalid reason will get submissive punished immediately.
The submissive will keep the Trainer's area neat, clean and in order before and after sessions.
The submissive will make eye contact with the Trainer ONLY when speaking to the Trainer , for eyes are a gift only for the Trainer, not to be given to the floor or anyone else, this is considered reckless eyesight and chastisement is in order when the condition is violated
The submissive must ask the Trainer to leave his presence for any reason.
Be respectful to the trainer at all times, especially when the sub is hurt or scared
The Trainer may or may not require the submissive to submit safely to oral, vaginal or anal intercourse. The Trainer may or may not require the submissive to allow the trainer to sexually stimulate them during training. The submissive's orgasm will not be allowed without permission, if at all.
Corporal punishments will be restricted the submissive’s back, shoulders ass, tits, upper legs or feet, and submissive could be bruised. The submissive must be aware that they may be bruised or otherwise temporarily marked at the hands of the Trainer within reason safely and consensually.
The Trainer will not subject submissive to any training, sexual contact, or punishment from themselves or another person without their prior approval. Screaming, begging and crying are acceptable, although the trainer might tire of the noise and gag submissive for the sake of their hearing..
The submissive must learn to know the trainer well enough to trust their techniques and styles. This is done thru clear communication and open mindedness between the Trainer and the trainee (s).

Do not enter into training for the wrong reasons. Training will lay the foundation for any Dominant/submissive relationship in the future.


9/29/2013 10:01:50 AM [Report Entry]

10 Positions For Submission Training

When Training a version of the positions are utilized initially ,which will be situation-ally dependent upon the scene or session . The 10 Positions have been formatted for flow and ease of ability to perform with grace.

The 10 Positions

Submissive(s) will be well advised to learn the 10 Positions by name and number. All positions will be held completely still until submissive is told to move. Submissive will learn to be still, silent and attentive.

1. Standing Attention - Standing, head up, eyes locked downward gaze arms bent at elbow 45 Degree angle palms upward fingers together , shoulders back chest out, back completely straight, ,legs straight feet together

2. Standing Inspection - Standing head up eyes locked downward gaze arms up and bent at elbows hands behind head fingers interlocked , back straight chest forward, legs straight, feet shoulder width apart.

3. Bending - Standing feet shoulder width apart head up eyes locked downward gaze, legs wide, knees locked, hands on knees.

4. Squatting - Head up eyes locked downward gaze back straight, feet flat on floor, knees bent, genitals toward floor, fingers locked together finger tips on floor for balance arms slightly bent.

5. Kneeling - Head up eyes locked in downward gaze back straight, hands behind neck fingers interlaced, hands on thighs when directed, knees bent, ass resting on calf’s of lower legs , soles of feet upward , feet crossed .*

6. Four Point submission - Dog style, head up, eyes looking towards floor, back straight, hands palms down on floor fingers together , may substitute elbows on floor ,hands clasped together fingers interlocked, knees bent on floor , feet suspended slightly above floor ,or on toes . ^5 point submission finger tips, hands, elbows, knees, and toes all touching floor.

7. Present submission - Arms extended palms of hands flat on floor fingers locked together , chin to floor, knees wide, back straight bent at hips , hips high thighs straight knees bent, feet on toes and balls of feet spread to adjust for balance

8. Flat Prone submission - Head on floor, hands behind head fingers interlocked, back straight, legs spread wide apart, toes on floor feet straight so that heels are up.

9. Missionary Prone submission - On back, head straight, eyes locked in downward gaze, , hands behind neck fingers interlocked , or palms up at sides, legs spread wide, knees bent slightly spread wide as possible , heels on floor feet straight toes are up.

10 Sitting - Head up, eyes locked in downward gaze ,back straight but relaxed , hands folded in lap fingers straight knees apart, ankles crossed .


Remember to Obey the trainer at all times. Do not hesitate.

 

These may be adjusted per the Dominants wishes to train their submissive


11/20/2012 3:13:22 PM [Report Entry]

New Article by Alexander BBC DOM Published In KINK REALM

 

The Mandingo Effect: BBC & Why Cucks Love Them

 

http://www.thekinkrealm.com/the-mandingo-effect-bbc-why-cucks-love-them/


Journal Entries:
6/17/2012 12:32:02 PM [Report Entry]

I had to teach a Class at a Passion Party's Expo in conjunction with the 50 Shades of Grey book that is so popular now .
This is and excerpt from the class

There are certain traits things that are of the utmost importance and valued of all My subs.
1 that they have respect for God
2 that they have respect and loyalty to family
3 that they honor their word and be prompt and faithful to perform their duties personal, as well as .Professional and in submission to Myself.
4 That they have an unhindered desire to learn to perfect their role and position in the
Lifestyle
Therefore it is imperative that you the submissive become a student of the lifestyle and as a student do their absolute best to learn and gain the knowledge to be the Most Excellent submissive that they can be . In regards to the following are a few topical areas of concern and aspects of awareness that every sub should consider.
There are 3 major areas of concern for Dominants that all truly great sub missive’s learn and perfect in both performance and in technique.
They are

1 Comfort

2 Entertainment

3 Sexual Gratification

A sub should learn these 3 categories and engrave them in their spirit. A submissive who earnestly and humbly cares for and invest wholly in their Dominant’s Comfort Entertainment and Gratification will always find themselves desired as a true treasure by their chosen Dominant.

Beginning with Comfort. This is the area where a submissive servant can excel because they are keenly aware of the environment in which they serve the Dominant. Keeping the Doms environment neat clean tidy and organized will relax and assist the Dominant and will gain the Dominants trust more fully as the time goes by. Many in the lifestyle go too quickly to sexual gratification which does not allow excitement to build or the relationship to develop trust and proper bonding. Making it into not a BDSM lifestyle but a BDSM moment and all be it a momentary pleasure. Concerns of the submissive for their Dominants comfort can range from cooking cleaning doing household chores yard work to bartending running errands representing the dominant providing security and being a total personal assistant named as A Friday or Comfort Girl at times.

It should also be noted that is for basic sub missives not for slaves. A sub-slave should be concerned with these aspects as well but the title slave is not just simple submission. To be a slave means that a submissive is not only the property of a Master Dominant but also is useful as chattel or work producing sub labor. In the history of slavery no slave was captured or purchased or sold to be KEPT as a pet! In fact slaves were valued below pets. Slaves were considered as tools for use to produce crops build or generally labor at anything that the Master deemed hard work , In fact family pets were considered part of the family of the Master and allowed to sleep in the house slaves were kept in slave quarters and not allowed the privilege of sleeping in the house or not being made to labor . Slaves in short are laborers that produce a manifest benefit to their Masters. Many subs confuse this and say they are willing to re locate and be kept in a cage in the house. That is the role of a pet not a slave. A Slave would relocate and work to produce some wealth for their Master. There is also the subject of a sub servant. The sub servant is the role of a submissive maid or butler. The difference being the servant is especially concerned with only the comfort and care of the Dominant and not the property to produce wealth or to be kept as a pet . The difference is minimal but clear and concise definitions of submissive roles in fundamental to having a productive Dominant submissive relationship

Once the Dominant’s comfort needs are fully meet to the Dominant’s satisfaction the submissive can move on to meeting the Dominants Entertainment Desires. This will be Different for every Dominant but the submissive should be aware of and develop the social skills and talents to respectfully converse with and have talents that can entertain the sub missives Dominant. Be respectfully inquisitive and interested in your Dominants interest other than just sexual. Ask polite minimal questions respectfully about their interest but do not pry! Then learn about that interest…. If gaming be knowledgeable of the latest trends. If financial have your Dominant a New copy of the Wall Street Journal even if their interest is porn have the latest type porn or genre the Dominant like to watch available. These efforts will let the Dominant know that you the submissive are fully invested in the desires of your Dominant.

The last aspect that a submissive should be concerned with about their Dominant is the Dominants Sexual Gratification
This topical aspect is so wide and so varying that it is impossible to achieve expertise easily or quickly but there are some basic principles that a submissive can begin with and earnestly work to perfection for their Dominant

1 A submissive should be totally aware of their own body and its sexual abilities and talents so that the Dominant won't use valuable time finding out restrictions and limits. This awareness makes the sexual gratification of the Dominant greater because the restrictive nature is open and easier to explore new and exciting plateaus

2 A submissive should begin to study their Dominants body, diligently and purposefully learning each minute detail. This takes an enormous amount of practice and time but is well worth the effort and this study with purposeful application well be extremely pleasing to your Dominant

3 Open communications and an open Mind are listed together because they go hand in hand the best sexual gratification is found in persons who can speak respectfully but are open to learning new things

These few aspects of sexual gratification along with a deep willingness to perfect the art of Sexual Gratification will be greatly appreciated and highly valued by the Dominant
Together these are the 3 essential categories of concerns of a great submissive for a Dominant !

Once a submissive studies and acquires a proficiency in the areas and topics mentioned above , that sub will be held in high regard and valued by most Qualified Dominants in the BDSM lifestyle

 

 

A simple daily affirmation and meditation should be utilized to help a submissive or a slave focus their mind on the better reasons why they should serve

 

I use this one but I can be altered to fit any specific nature :

A submissive’s Daily Affirmation 
 
I am a submissive  
 
I believe in the submissive life and the act of submission
 
I believe My submission makes me a better person

My Need is to be of submissive service today ...


12/18/2011 11:08:01 AM [Report Entry]

Recommendation from recent Training Session

 

I had the pleasure of receiving some of Master Alexander's time recently and I am greatly appreciative. From moment one, he proved to be knowledgeable, attentive, skilled and sadistic. His care and concern for my well-being and safety throughout our session(s!) made me feel at ease and special, like valued property. His strong and unyielding grip (literally and figuratively) never let me forget that he was in full control, that he is a dominant with no qualms about his position and rightly deserves his title. Thank you, Master Alexander, for your time, efforts, energy, attentiveness and, of course, your sensual & sadistic mastery. I am pleased that you came and hope that you found the trip to be worth your time, and me to be worth your attention. You have an open invitation to return!

 

Butterfly

 

ALL Recommendations are available upon Request if Interested in Booking a Training Session


10/3/2011 2:31:32 PM [Report Entry]

Giving Purpose To Submissive Service

Journal Entry

 

Giving Purpose To Submissive Service;

In the everyday world those who have jobs (which may or may not an easy thing to acquire in this present economy) measure progress by what they have achieved each day. Waking in the morning with an idea of what events will transpire during the day awaiting and achieving the minimal mundane and sometimes monotonous daily duties YET sometimes achieving the meaningful and momentous only then ending each day wanting wishing for more......

 

What seems to be lacking is PURPOSE!

That reason why ...that motivation to say this is what I am doing this for ... that willingness to know that what is done will please another ,will make another proud, will give someone other than self that true satisfaction.....HERE is where the meaning of purpose lies.

 

To Mark or Measure each day by with total sum of what has been done in service to one More Deserving , One More Worthy , One More Honorable than self ......


10/3/2011 2:30:09 PM [Report Entry]

Master Alexander's Vision

Journal Entry | 24 minutes ago

My vision as a Master is to inspire in a submissive such a great devotion and commitment to loyal service that My submissive(s) becomes so comfortable and fulfilled in their submission and subjection that it permeates into every aspect of their lives. And So all who see would give honor to My Mastery My Training and My Teachings by the display of their excellence in life as a whole product of serving as a submissive under My reign as Master.

 

 

Master Alexander

BBC Dom & Trainer of

subs slaves and cuck couples


2/27/2011 10:53:34 AM [Report Entry]

All submissive s should learn this Creed ;

 

I submit to my Dominant …

my Dominants treasure is my submission.

my Dom is my friend. 

my submission is my life.

i shall submit to my Dominant  my will.

Without submission my treasure is useless.

Without my submission to My Dominant, I am rendered useless as a submissive .

i must be true and open to my Dominant .

i must try harder to serve.

i must  diligently attempt to serve in whatever my Dominant commands

 

 i will.

 

 i swear this creed




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