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jesus christ—read my fucking bio. i'm sick of sifting through assholes that clearly did not see a damn word i wrote. stop wasting my time.
i've also been getting a bunch of "hello, how are you?" messages, which are very nice, but when i look at your profile and see that you're looking for a live-in slave or something else that i have blatantly listed as a hard limit, i instantly assume that you didn't read my bio and i will ignore you. if something on your profile conflicts with something on mine but you aren't specifically looking for those things from me, LET ME KNOW. additionally, if you send me a vague greeting and there is nothing on your profile at all, then i can't really consider you, can i? send me something more. tell me about yourself. that's what we're all here for, right?
if the information above didn't clue you in, i am stubborn, demanding, and uncompromising. there are thousands upon thousands of people on this site who want to be controlled and molded—if that's what you're seeking, then find them instead of annoying me.
now that i've covered those bases, please read below if you're still interested.
no 24/7. no monogamy. no commitment. i can offer regularity at best if convenient.
not looking to be a slave. i dont want a master or a daddy. i want to explore and i want an adveture.
i smoke cigarettes. like, a lot of cigarettes. not stopping any time soon.
with the exception of trimming pubic/ass hair, i do not shave anything and that is non-negotiable.
i have self-harm scars (from years ago), stick and poke tattoos, tragus piercings, nipple piercings, and stretched ears. i did fifteen out of my sixteen tattoos myself--it's very theraputic and i love all of them, even though they don't look professional. if you're interested in seeing some of them don't hesitate to ask. i plan on getting many more tattoos and more piercings.
420 friendly, alcohol friendly, selectively friendly with everything else.
i have certain fetishes and boundaries. i especially love vibrators and orgasm play, and i detest anything related to roleplaying. my interest in bdsm is purely sensual in relation to pain and pleasure and, to the dismay of all of the doms who, for whatever fucked-up and probably sexist reason, believe they know what i want better than i do, i have no desire to "serve." please refer to the "interests" section of my profile for further detail.
as i stated earlier, i'm not a slave. i'm only submissive in the bedroom. i want a sadist who wants to tie me up and beat the shit out of me during sex but will respect my independence and individuality everywhere else.
i plan on being a teacher. i am not willing to risk the chance of being charged with public indecency. i am certainly an exhibitionist and am willing to have sex in front of other people, but only when the parties involved are informed and comfortable with it.